| 24 Sep 07 | subs dropping left and right (11) | (26 Sep 07, 11:46 AM by DreamDragon) |
| Is it just me, or do a large number of posts on Sundays and Mondays have to do with subdrop? I suppose most people do their hardcore play on the weekend, eh? Well, to all those subbies out there sitting moping about eating ice cream and chocolate, you're not alone. Perhaps we should organise a Sunday/Monday night subdrop munch or something? You know, moral support for subs who play hard (and come down hard). |
23 Sep 07 | Stunners (1) | (24 Sep 07, 7:36 PM by Poppit) |
| Somehow, his brother convinced him thata he should take me out. Looking around, suddenly Stunners came to mind, and away we went. [more...]
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| 23 Sep 07 | D/s power stuff | (23 Sep 07, 1:54 PM by skyfox) |
| Looking at this post, the following problems arose: who really has the power, the Dom or the sub? [more...]
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| 21 Sep 07 | Mantras | (21 Sep 07, 11:50 AM by skyfox) |
| Some things I often repeat to myself when things are a bit much: [more...]
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| 16 Sep 07 | On doing laundry (4) | (22 Sep 07, 12:55 PM by skyfox) |
| My duties are few, and simple. I perform oral sex as required. I bring a cup of tea and a cigarette as often as possible. I greet him when he returns from work with a kiss and a hug. I motivate, calm, encourage and support as needed. But one of my favourite duties is laundry. [more...]
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| 14 Sep 07 | Joke (9) | (14 Sep 07, 7:03 PM by MayaTekla) |
| Question: How many forum users does it take to change a light bulb? [more...]
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| 13 Sep 07 | Labels (2) | (13 Sep 07, 3:48 PM by skyfox) |
| Following an interesting discussion about what we should call ourselves, I wonder whether or not we're putting the cart before the horse. [more...]
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| 8 Sep 07 | sex and food (the metaphor) (2) | (10 Sep 07, 2:07 AM by Mad_Eye_Moody) |
| Looking at the posts lately, some of them are debating about is this ok, is that ok, how far is far enough, etc. Dossie Easton, in her topping or bottoming book (I forget which one), puts forth that sex is like food. I think this analogy is very useful. [more...]
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| 7 Sep 07 | Baa | (7 Sep 07, 12:20 AM by skyfox) |
| Baa. |
| 4 Sep 07 | Night of the Senses (1) | (4 Sep 07, 4:23 PM by lush_london) |
| This isn't technically a review of the Night of the Senses aka Sex Maniac's Ball, more of my own thoughts on it and some of the things that have come out of it for me. [more...]
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| 29 Aug 07 | Training | (29 Aug 07, 10:36 AM by skyfox) |
| I'm pretty suggestable by nature. Always have been. Used to be in college that my roommate and I would be watching tv and then a fast food commercial would come on and we'd both look at each other and say, "mmmm.... sonic burger...." and then we'd jump in the car to go get one. [more...]
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| 21 Aug 07 | I'm FINISHED!! (4) | (21 Aug 07, 9:07 PM by Miss_Rose) |
| Finally!!! After months of hard work and lots of writing, I have finally finished my master's dissertation... I can do no more. Everytime I touch it, I put something new in, or see something else wrong, and I can't be fixing it my whole life, so it's done!!!!!! FINISHED!!! COMPLETE!!!! YAY!!!! [more...]
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| 14 Aug 07 | quote | (14 Aug 07, 5:26 PM by skyfox) |
| The masochist's experience of 'pain' had to be inflicted in love, and the sadist's infliction of pain was desgned to be felt as love. [more...]
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| 31 Jul 07 | how to start a fight (7) | (1 Aug 07, 5:03 PM by skyfox) |
| For those of you who have been following my posts, I've been asking for a lot of opinions about the differences between various BDSM terms, like Dominant, Master/Mistress, slave, sub, slut, and so on. Mostly, the responses I've had have been a great big "DON'T BE A NINNY!! THERE IS NO SUCH THING AS A SET DEFINITION OF ANYTHING!!" [more...]
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| 30 Jul 07 | Nemisis: Some thoughts (3) | (31 Jul 07, 2:59 PM by Qwoin) |
| I had my first visit to the acclaimed Nemesis II, "the best dungeon in Britain" last weekend. While I'm sure that others have reviewed Nemesis before, I won't go on and on about the plethora of equipment and facilities, as I'm sure we've all heard that before. Mostly, this is just a take of some of my feelings about being there. "Surreal" is probably the word you'll read most often here. [more...]
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| 25 Jul 07 | D'ya ever just get the urge... | (25 Jul 07, 8:12 PM by skyfox) |
| ...to just curl up naked at the feet of the One who owns you? [more...]
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| 19 Jul 07 | what's nice... | (19 Jul 07, 2:27 PM by skyfox) |
| ... is saying "I need you to hurt me" and being answered by "I know", a slap across the face, and a kiss. [more...]
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| 12 Jul 07 | Formal D/s?? (2) | (26 Jul 07, 9:57 PM by Maugrim) |
| So I found this discussion on the webboard... http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/boards/ukds/148... and I immediately started wondering, what is formal D/s? And, are we in a formal D/s relationship? [more...]
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11 Jul 07 | BDSM in Asia (9) | (21 Oct 08, 2:59 AM by Tatsujin) |
| Well, so S. and I just got back from our most excellent holiday in Asia. I won't go into the vast amount of details, but I'll just keep it to a summary of BDSM in our experiences there. [more...]
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| 30 Jun 07 | what is subspace? (4) | (1 Jul 07, 12:29 PM by x_Thunder_x) |
| So while browsing the webblogs, I found this one... [more...]
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