| 29 Aug 04 | Manchester Pride 2004 | (29 Aug 04, 6:23 PM by lili) |
| Tanos and i were both in Manchester on Saturday to watch
the pride march and i have to say "pride" is exactly the
right way to describe it.
It was both the sense of pride in the achievements of
the Gay and Lesbian communities and the celebration of
their spirit and diversity which had the
crowd whistling and cheering as the floats passed by. [more...]
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| 28 Jun 04 | Thoughts on piercings and other stuff... | (8 Aug 04, 10:56 AM by lili) |
| Well - i'm now the proud bearer of 3 new piercings (2
inner labia and 1 vertical clit hood) and 10 days on
i'm pleased to say they are healing very nicely - infact
so nicely that i've started cycling again this weekend
(which is pretty good going if i do say so myself)! [more...]
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| 15 Jun 04 | Piercings | (15 Jun 04, 8:19 PM by lili) |
Well i've had permission to do some more piercings for
simply ages (and it didn't take much pleading - believe
me!)  [more...]
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| 2 Apr 04 | lili: the strong, silent type? | (3 Apr 04, 7:44 AM by lili) |
| Well, maybe not too strong, but i usually am very much
the "silent" type.
In all our play situations i've never really been given
to making much noise. i'm pretty sure i grimance quite
a bit and i think i might even be given to muttering
(or
even cursing) under my breath in certain circumstances,
but i've never been one for screaming - until recently
that is. [more...]
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| 28 Feb 04 | Things i like...Number 2: Electricity | (28 Feb 04, 8:43 PM by lili) |
| Well its so useful isn't it?!
Take the wide range of artificial light, for example,
instantly available to us all, yet so often taken for
granted. [more...]
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| 15 Feb 04 | Things i like...number 1: Men with beards | (15 Feb 04, 2:42 PM by lili) |
| Well...i guess that's not strictly true - i don't like
ALL men with beards (Santa may be cute but i don't get
an overwhelming desire to kneel at his feet - although i
would consider a little begging for reasons other than
his beard - but i digress). [more...]
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| 6 Jul 03 | Freedom fighters? | (6 Jul 03, 12:47 PM by lili) |
| In truth we have fought many battles - though not the
type most people imagine. We do not argue or
physically fight. Our battles are battles for the mind
and we fight on the same side (although it doesn't
always feel that way). We fight for the acceptance of
our own truths, we fight against our socialisation and
we fight to free ourselves from misunderstanding. [more...]
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| 8 Jun 03 | BDSM Socialites | (17 Oct 04, 9:15 PM by lili) |
| Without a doubt (in previous lives) i've been known to
party with the best of them, however i freely admit to
being a complete novice when it comes to being a "BDSM
socialite". [more...]
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| 18 May 03 | A beginners guide to "asking politely" | (19 May 03, 10:27 PM by lili) |
| i suppose after 3 years i should hardly be considered a
beginner. So why do i find it so hard to beg when
everyone else seems able to drop to their knees and
beg in such a pleasing manner that i just feel a
complete novice. [more...]
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| 12 May 03 | Freaky button | (12 May 03, 9:13 PM by lili) |
| Well it's been a long time coming but i finally feel
like putting the proverbial pen to paper and writing
down some thoughts on my life as a slave. [more...]
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| 5 Nov 02 | Some things change faster than others. | (5 Nov 02, 9:34 PM by lili) |
| This is a bit of a cheat really, since it was something
i wrote a good while back (and had forgotten about.)
Re-reading it brought back such a vivid recollection of
how i felt then that i really didn't want to lock it
away again, so here it is.
Many things change, but some things change faster than
others. [more...]
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| 6 May 02 | IE and polygyny | (6 May 02, 9:53 AM by lili) |
| Personally i don't believe that an IE relationship is,
necessarily, monogynous by its nature. That said, i
would imagine it is far easier for a Master to
initially instil the sense of security and permanence
in his slave that is
crucial to the enslavement process if he minimises the
threats to her sense
of security. Establishing a monogynous relationship is
one way of doing this. [more...]
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| 15 Mar 02 | Two years of changes... | (15 Mar 02, 11:52 AM by lili) |
| Perhaps change is the biggest thing I've notice about
myself over the past two years, which is weird, really,
for someone who, generally, hates change as much as I
do. [more...]
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| 5 Nov 01 | lianne: on finances | (6 Nov 01, 7:15 AM by lili) |
| "One of the hardest things about being a slave is
loosing financial independance" - True or false? [more...]
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| 4 Nov 01 | How it was and how it is... | (4 Nov 01, 7:05 PM by lili) |
| It's been 3 months since I wrote on my weblog. Its
about the same amount of time since I've written
anywhere infact [well almost.] [more...]
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| 14 Aug 01 | The Good, the Bad and the Ugly. | (14 Aug 01, 6:47 PM by lili) |
| Well, here's a question I've been thinking about.
What is the difference between a healthy M/s
relationship and an abusive one?
In essence and on the surface, often, one seems to be
very like the other. Its something I've struggled with
for a while. [more...]
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| 21 Jun 01 | Fascinating mystery | (6 Jul 01, 10:02 PM by lili) |
| Is it human nature to be fascinated by the mysterious?
It would seem that "mysterious" cultures hold a
fascination with many of us at the moment.
"The tales of Sinbad", "Arabian nights", "The Market
place"
and even "The story of 'O'".
Tales of secret societies, exotic rituals, beautiful
people and wonderful places. There would seem little
doubt that many people are drawn to these fantasies in
the hope that there-in lies a reality, after all is it
not true that there is no smoke without fire? [more...]
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| 27 May 01 | Little children or a little child-like? | (6 Nov 01, 7:29 AM by lili) |
| Not too long ago Tanos came across a message posted
on a mailing list. He passed it on to me. I read it and
thought it was absolutely wonderful. It was posted with
the title "A submissive's message to a Dominant." It
read: [more...]
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| 16 Apr 01 | Familiar things. | (16 Apr 01, 3:12 PM by lili) |
| I haven't written a weblog for quite a while,
motivation seems to be somewhat sporadic at present.
Motivation is a strange thing. I've taken it for
granted for so long that, once the reality of having my
motivation controlled by someone else hit home, it
really does feel quite strange.
Again, for me, its been one of those things that I've
understood for quite some time, logically, that Tanos
would gradually take enough control that he would
control my motivation, but its only recently that I
have come to realise what that actually does mean. [more...]
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| 20 Feb 01 | When less really is more... | (20 Feb 01, 9:41 PM by lili) |
| I have heard many submissives say that they had
submissive tendencies from a very early age and I know
that I experience submissive responses to situations
not just dominant personalities, so is
submissiveness exclusively linked to sexuality and/or a
dominant? Is it induced only in a D/s context?
....and what is this feeling of submissiveness anyway? [more...]
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