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| 14 Sep 05 | Manchester Women's Munch (3) | (14 Sep 05, 6:45 PM by lili) |
The 1st Manchester Women's Munch is this saturday (Saturday 17th September) at The Moon Bar, Manchester.
We have a woman's only space to the left of the bar as you come in through the doors but if its warm and sunny we may be sitting outside (i'm the one dressed in black with very long dark hair.) [more...]
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| 3 Sep 05 | Manchester Pride 2005 | (3 Sep 05, 11:32 PM by lili) |
| 2005 was a year for firsts. [more...] | ||
| 31 Aug 05 | Violence against women | (31 Aug 05, 11:42 PM by lili) |
| Recent discussions have raised a number of issues around female submissives, safety and early play in BDSM and where i do acknowledge that safety is an issue for any woman (after all i am one) it's not just a "first date" problem. In fact, if you were to look at the reality of violence against women, the fact is that most women who become victims of violence do so in domestic abuse situations and not because they agree to "play" too early. [more...] | ||
| 30 Aug 05 | Kinklusive workshops poll | (30 Aug 05, 9:56 AM by lili) |
| Kinklusive are currently running a poll to see what workshops people want the most. [more...] | ||
| 29 Aug 05 | The Spirituality of Sado-Masochism (Excerpt) (1) | (29 Aug 05, 1:10 PM by Rosalee) |
| As far as Sado-masochism goes I don't mind admitting that I've struggled at times with calling myself a masochist. But then there have also been times when I've struggled with my bisexuality, my submissiveness and indeed, my desire to Top. I think its true to say that about 95% of the pain I enjoy has to be delivered in a D/s context for it to transform into the hedonistic experience I know its capable of becoming. As a consequence I always feel somewhat reluctant about ranking myself a "true" masochist. [more...] | ||
| 27 Aug 05 | Flick Lit and SMDykes Calendar launch (3) | (27 Aug 05, 11:01 PM by DK_Leather) |
| Well, i spent a wonderful evening in the company of some fabulous, talented and all around wonderful women at the SMDykes Calendar launch and Flick Lit winners ceremony last night - and it was fantastic! [more...] | ||
| 14 Aug 05 | Thank you (3) | (14 Aug 05, 10:39 PM by caprycorn) |
| "Something is definately happening to the UK scene - and it's wonderful to be a part of it." [more...] | ||
| 14 Aug 05 | The UK Scene | (14 Aug 05, 5:16 PM by lili) |
Well, lucky old me has done quite a few miles this last 18 months all in the name of BDSM research (it was really hard work - honestly  . [more...]
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| 7 Jul 05 | Donating Pictures for the Kinklusive flyer | (7 Jul 05, 8:58 PM by lili) |
| A big thank you to all you lovely people who donated pictures for the kinklusive flyer, keep your eyes peeled - it looks fab! [more...] | ||
| 28 Jun 05 | Great ones so far but there's always room for more | (28 Jun 05, 10:08 PM by lili) |
| Thanks to everyone who donated one (or more) of their profile pictures to kinklusive for use on the flyer. [more...] | ||
| 23 Jun 05 | Calling all IC members! | (23 Jun 05, 10:58 PM by lili) |
| Hi everyone (aww...we missed you too ) [more...]
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| 29 May 05 | Sorry , but it's got to be said... | (29 May 05, 10:00 AM by lili) |
| i've noticed a few comments recently, particularly on the message boards, which imply that certain members are somehow involved with the writing and maintainance of IC (a simply mistake, yes - but its something they, at best, choose not to correct). [more...] | ||
| 3 Apr 05 | Erotica ball, Torture Garden and Manchester (3) | (4 Apr 05, 12:43 AM by MLeigh) |
| For a start i can't believe i got up at 8am this morning (having crawled into bed somewhere around 3am!) but here i am doing my duty for IC [more...]
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| 22 Mar 05 | London, Constantine and great shopping | (22 Mar 05, 8:12 PM by lili) |
| Having had a pretty busy schedule for the past few weeks Tanos and i "got away from it all" in London this weekend. [more...] | ||
| 2 Mar 05 | The most fun you can have with string.... | (2 Mar 05, 10:15 PM by lili) |
| (Well not string exactly). [more...] | ||
| 17 Jan 05 | BBB and the Rope Bondage Peer Workshop | (17 Jan 05, 8:17 PM by lili) |
150 miles round trip in a car full of giggling girls - i
can't imagine a worst fate for a Dominant man 
Tanos, bless him, stood up to the challenge remarkably well. [more...]
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| 15 Jan 05 | A thinking sub's view | (16 Jan 05, 7:30 AM by lili) |
| At the risk of being "grammatically" incorrect (or should that be "politically" incorrect?) i'm going to start my weblog off with a question: How does not wanting to make decisions translate into not wanting to think for oneself? [more...] | ||
| 15 Dec 04 | London, kinkfest and visiting the Queen | (15 Dec 04, 7:51 AM by lili) |
| Tanos, popi and i went to London last weekend, mainly to add our support to kinkfest, but also to do the tourist thing on Sunday. [more...] | ||
| 30 Nov 04 | The girl who has everything? | (30 Nov 04, 9:52 PM by lili) |
| Well - at the risk of totally jinxing myself i've decided to write this weblog anyway - and to hell with it! [more...] | ||
| 17 Oct 04 | Who hid all the common courtesy? | (17 Oct 04, 10:08 PM by lili) |
| For the first time in what must be - well - years - i got hit on in irc with what was very almost an a/s/l question (do people still do that?) I've also had more than a few approaches from people through yahoo messenger who start off with a half decent conversation that soon falls into the familar a/s/l format. [more...] | ||
