| 27 Feb 10 | A taste of old age (10) | (27 Feb 10, 6:59 PM by Godwin) |
| whatever you're doing and whoever you are, make the most of your youth. I've had my second taste of what life will most likely be like when I'm older, and I tell you what, it's a good job I have a sense of humour and people around me that love me whom I love in return. [more...]
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| 25 Feb 10 | Men in uniform (11) | (25 Feb 10, 9:27 PM by just_tope) |
| Normally something that makes me giddy, today it just confused me. [more...]
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| 30 Dec 09 | Blimey (3) | (30 Dec 09, 11:26 PM by Shamonu) |
has it really been over 4 years since I stumbled upon these kinky walls? So much has changed. Am I jaded? Well yes but thats only because I've met some of the pond scum of IC. Am I happy?  Well what can I say. Things have a habit of working out for those who are patient and deserve it. Luckily I seem to be one of those (caveat: not all those who deserve it have got it. Patience my lovelies). Do I still love IC? Well yes to a point. It was the start of a relationship with myself. Once which brought me to the point I am currently at. As with all else in life you have to give kudos to the things [more...]
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| 29 Nov 09 | Hello strangers :) (5) | (29 Nov 09, 1:44 PM by Crystal_Eyes) |
| I've not been about so much but thought I'd drop in for a quick catchup and to wave at all the lovely people *waves*.
All's well in the brat cave/tope towers. Life ticks along nicely. Chef, Child and hound make for a hectic life and one that keeps me busy and smiling daily. He's happy in his job, I'm not in mine but thats nothing new. Titch is happy with everything, and the dogs much mental, which is why we love him. My friends all seem happy and content at the moment too, which is lovely. They deserve it. [more...]
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| 3 Apr 09 | War & peace | (3 Apr 09, 8:07 PM by just_tope) |
| Evening all, I don't often blog these days, I see no need. Recent events have reminded me of precisely what my reasons were. Here lies a blog with some truths, observations and facts. Take them as you will. [more...]
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| 16 Mar 09 | Long time no speaky | (16 Mar 09, 1:39 PM by just_tope) |
| Yo dogs. Just a little catchup from the slut side of the brat cave (as he's now describing it. It's still tope towers mind you, just easier to let him think of it being the brat cave. Perhaps it should be brat towers, or the slut cave. Slat cave? Brut towers? …hmmmm…I digress). [more...]
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| 31 Dec 08 | I despise New years resolutions but.... | (31 Dec 08, 2:26 PM by just_tope) |
| I'm going to make some anyway, it's a tradition, or an old charter or something. [more...]
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| 24 Dec 08 | This year… | (24 Dec 08, 2:40 PM by just_tope) |
| I had no idea I wouldn't be alone.
I had no idea I would have found love and be loved.
I had no idea he'd fit in with mine so easily.
I had no idea I'd be spending it with someone I respect and care for so much. [more...]
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| 16 Oct 08 | what makes a good sub? (10) | (17 Oct 08, 9:46 AM by Owned_by_De_Luxe) |
| seriously? what makes a good sub. This blog is brought on by conversations I've had lately, thoughts whirling around in my head, and me being me (i.e. tenacious and a pain in the ass). So. What makes a good sub? [more...]
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| 12 Oct 08 | It'll all end in tears (12) | (13 Oct 08, 8:42 PM by just_tope) |
| Blimey, the blogging system as changed, when did that happen? [more...]
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| 24 Sep 08 | Out of left field. (7) | (24 Sep 08, 10:56 PM by mini_velvet) |
| Minding my own business. Ticking along. Chatting with friends. Doing my thing and generally being me, but just a little less of me. Then it all changed. Then I changed. [more...]
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| 21 Sep 08 | I'd forgotten.... (2) | (22 Sep 08, 12:42 AM by Miss_OL) |
| ...just how good life can be [more...]
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| 6 Sep 08 | What am I good for? (3) | (7 Sep 08, 2:48 PM by Lucifer38) |
| It's late. I can't sleep. Nothing new there, but tonight I can't sleep for a very good reason. I have a tendency to over think. All who know me know this about me. Now this can be a good thing, it can also be a very destructive thing. Tonight though it's a mixture of both. I have found, of late, that I am – shall we say – desirable for sex. Great. Woot!! Maybe I'm giving off vibes of some sort, who the hell knows. What I DO know, is that this is all it is. Sex. Yes, a bit of companionship when time permits, but predominately sex. Where does that leave me? Well it leaves me with….well, a fuck then [more...]
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| 28 Aug 08 | makeup : for da laydeees (16) | (29 Aug 08, 5:55 PM by DeeSobek) |
I'd love to be one of those people who can get away without wearing makeup. But being naturally blonde (albeit a long time ago) I don't have much in the way of eyebrows or eyelashes. Also skin isnt the best due to skin damage. Reslut? (yes, intentional spelling mistake  ) I wear makeup daily. Don't get me wrong, I'm not one to rush to the bathroom at 4am so I look pristine (fuck, whats 4am? I've barely gone to bed by then) and when I'm comfortable with someone I'm happy to let ME show for a while, but if I'm going out then yes, I have to have makeup on (unless it's just down the shops, then I dont [more...]
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| 19 Aug 08 | The fluidity of morality (3) | (20 Aug 08, 9:28 AM by scribbles) |
| Morality is drummed into us from youth from society in general. For myself also from my parents staunch Christian values, values I still cater to after a fashion but no longer follow (lets just say the path was far too narrow and in 4” hells I had a tendency to fall from it). The older and wiser (oh yes) I become the more I see it as fluid. Perhaps it is the acceptance of that slow but steady slide towards the grave which I am determined to temper finely with pleasure. Perhaps it is a hedonistic urge creeping into my very being. Who knows? I know this though. Those values with which I built my [more...]
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| 15 Aug 08 | stopping smoking solution found (13) | (16 Aug 08, 4:22 PM by SternBelt) |
Buy singstar!!! I've barely had time to smoke for the last 3 nights  [more...]
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| 11 Aug 08 | specs appeal (10) | (12 Aug 08, 2:56 PM by Bronson) |
| I wore my new glasses to work for the first time today. The response was....suprising to say the least. Now I'm one of those that generally 'one of the boys' in the work place (given my line of work is 90% male orientated and thats an improvement from 20 years ago when I started). BUT, today was quite strange. Now they're not big Deidre Barlow specs so they have a tendency to slide and I find myself looking over the top of them quite a lot. I have never had men talk so demurely to me before. Of the one's I spoke to today whilst wearing them, they all treated me differently, shuffled their feet a [more...]
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| 7 Aug 08 | Food: a verb of many meanings | (7 Aug 08, 10:18 PM by just_tope) |
| I am currently very proud of a good friend of mine who's been fighting hard and is now winning a battle. In fact several of my friends are fighting various battles, and hopefully they're succeeding as none of them are quitters. It makes me smile when someone I care about achieves something when it takes so much hard work, determination, metal. Some things which are easy for some are mount everest to others, and we should always reward hard work with praise shouldn't we? I think so. [more...]
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| 2 Aug 08 | Oh dear lord I've turned into my father (7) | (3 Aug 08, 8:17 AM by just_iana) |
| My dad and I used to CONTSTANTLY row. Well, no that's not strictly true. We used to fight when he was trying to teach me something. Why? Because my dad is strictly and A-Z man. He has a path. He will reach the end. You will listen and then he will ask if you've understood. The number of scraps we got into with my mum wondering around in the background threatening to bang our heads together was infinite. Mostly because I'd get to about E and then it clicked. Why the fuck should I have to listen to F-Z just because he said so? What a waste of time. And so, we argued. He told me I thought I knew everything, [more...]
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| 1 Aug 08 | Should networks affect who you talk to? (14) | (1 Aug 08, 10:19 PM by Rhoobarb) |
| It's a dilemma. You know someone. They're lovely. You enjoy speaking to them albeit infrequently. They've been sucked in by an image just like you were. But they have a network association with someone you'd happily leave burning. Does it make a difference? For me? Mostly no, unless I have damned good reason to the contrary. Only real life personal friends who know me have the right to know what does or does not affect me personally so why/how should anyone else know if they're in league with the devil? Part of me thinks 'you know, you should really say something' but then an even bigger part of [more...]
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