"One advantage in keeping a diary is that you become aware with reassuring clarity of the changes which you constantly suffer" ::Franz Kafka::
| 22 Jul 07 | Question Answered (1) | (22 Jul 07, 1:52 PM by boi_Kase) |
| What I'd like to know is: do you consider your nature to be reliant upon its recognition? |
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| 11 Jul 07 | The Science of Fetishism: Heel Height Maximisation (5) | (12 Jul 07, 9:59 AM by Miss_Namio) |
| As high heels are firmly within my top three obsessions (I'll have to compile a list of my fetishes one of these days, if nothing else it'll help satisfy my list making fetish), I was very interested in this study of how high heels can go. [more...]
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| 10 Jul 07 | Internal Surrender: The Abandonment Of Expectation (1) | (10 Jul 07, 6:57 PM by WaterDragon) |
| “Who is rich? He who rejoices in his portion.” - The Talmud – |
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| 9 Jul 07 | Useful Adages #1 (1) | (9 Jul 07, 12:28 PM by debrus) |
| My ongoing pursuit of a painless passage through this sometimes ridiculous world. [more...]
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| 8 Jul 07 | Unlikely Fetish #2 (1) | (9 Jul 07, 5:54 AM by Miss_Namio) |
| My ongoing quest to prove that there isn't anything that cannot be fetishised. [more...]
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| 8 Jul 07 | Internal Surrender: Definition (1) | (9 Jul 07, 6:13 AM by Miss_Namio) |
| On and off I've read quite a bit of the Internal Enslavement website and, although I have difficulties of the more abstract psychological aspects which are covered, I completely understand the basic concept. [more...]
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| 6 Jul 07 | Humiliation (1) | (6 Jul 07, 7:37 PM by MsArachne) |
| I've always been troubled by the idea of incorporating humiliation “play” in a Mistress / slave relationship. I have tended to think that, no matter how carefully the scenario is planned; how rigorously boundaries are adhered to; how much the slave wants to attend to his Mistress's selfish (in a good way) desires and how much trust there is between the parties, there remains an intrinsic negativity to the concept. [more...]
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| 4 Jul 07 | Lyrics: Take This Longing | (4 Jul 07, 7:37 PM by feitheachd) |
| I've been listening to Leonard Cohen a lot recently, and although much of his poetry affects me deeply, it's two simple lines from “Take This Longing” that have been on endless repeat in my mind. [more...]
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| 21 Jun 07 | It's Ladies' Day (4) | (22 Jun 07, 6:03 AM by Turingalila) |
| I didn't make it to Ascot, but I was passing through Waterloo Station this afternoon and was lucky enough to be caught in a swarm (I'm sure there is a better collective noun, but I did feel swarmed in the most delightful way) of ladies on their way there. [more...]
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| 21 May 07 | Under Pressure (1) | (25 May 07, 5:58 PM by Miss_Namio) |
| I've never been very comfortable with the notion of men turning to submission as an antidote to their stressful / high powered / decision making jobs. [more...]
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| 21 Apr 07 | The Science Of D/s: Variations In The Tolerance Of Exploitation (1) | (21 Apr 07, 3:10 PM by overlap) |
| Being predominantly a service submissive, I'm very aware of how my reaction to service is closely linked to my relationship with and the attitude and persona of the person I'm serving, to whatever extent it can be categorised as service. [more...]
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| 17 Apr 07 | Re-brand (1) | (17 Apr 07, 10:45 PM by electricfog) |
| No matter how we try to dispel them, there are still negative connotations that seem to be associated with the label submissive. [more...]
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| 15 Apr 07 | Full Again | (15 Apr 07, 11:02 PM by feitheachd) |
| As always, I've needed the distance of a few days before I can properly appreciate the impact that a few hours in her company has on me. [more...]
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| 9 Apr 07 | The Downsides To Pornography (7) | (13 Apr 07, 7:51 AM by Miss_Namio) |
| I know that the infamous charliegrrl Weblog post and the assorted, cherry picked following comments focussed on the evils of female submission; however, the clear inference from the arguments put forward (for example: “to advocate women committing violence against other women is simply imitating male-defined ideas”), is that female dominance and sadism is, in fact, a construct designed by males for the fulfilment of a certain brand of male sexuality. [more...]
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| 6 Apr 07 | Evolution Of A Thread | (6 Apr 07, 6:10 PM by feitheachd) |
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| 2 Apr 07 | Postcard From Sicily | (2 Apr 07, 4:28 PM by feitheachd) |
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| 20 Mar 07 | A Prayer To Kali (5) | (22 Mar 07, 1:01 PM by feitheachd) |
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| 19 Mar 07 | Whip Smart (1) | (20 Mar 07, 10:34 AM by Miss_Namio) |
| Just the other day, I was fortunate enough to spend some time in the company of a ferociously intelligent lady. It was a work meeting, and the subject was irredeemably prosaic but still I found myself in awe of her almost instant grasp of technicalities as they arose and her ability to get straight to the root of any difficulties. [more...]
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| 10 Mar 07 | Do We Hate Ourselves? (6) | (20 Mar 07, 4:23 PM by msub56) |
| Mathew Parris writing in the Times today made an interesting point about how people like John Inman and Kenneth Williams were: “a band of comrades who, each in their different ways, were the keepers through a dark age of an open secret.” [more...]
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| 24 Feb 07 | Ritual (4) | (7 May 07, 10:37 AM by Oral_Giver) |
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