IC Blog of daitchen

Update

Wed, 28 May 2008 15:03:19 GMT

I've updated my profile today, and so has Fractal.

Shortbus

Mon, 11 Dec 2006 14:36:34 GMT

On the whole, I really enjoyed this brave film about accepting sexuality, and learning to celebrate it, in all its variety and, sometimes, complexity.

Japanese bondage workshop

Mon, 27 Nov 2006 23:08:39 GMT

Last Saturday we went to our fourth or fifth rope bondage workshop with Nawashi Murakawa.

"The Notorious Bettie Page" - some thoughts

Wed, 16 Aug 2006 17:10:35 GMT

We went last weekend to see this film, having first watched a few clips from the original short Bettie Page movies for comparison.

The D/s workshop at KF3

Tue, 01 Aug 2006 14:21:34 GMT

One of the workshops that I most appreciated at this year's Kinkfest was Laurence's interesting talk on the psychology of D/s.

Kinkfest: the Naming of Parts in the fight for sexual freedom

Mon, 31 Jul 2006 17:00:25 GMT

At school we learnt a poem by Henry Reed called "The Naming of Parts"

Pseudo-sadomasochistic violence

Mon, 10 Apr 2006 14:22:19 GMT

We watched "The Cell" on TV last night, as I'd recognised the title from a recent thread on here about films with bdsm in them.

Happily ever after?

Fri, 17 Mar 2006 18:20:50 GMT

I haven't been doing enough walking lately, something I like to do for exercise but also because it often relaxes my mind into a state where words start to flow, and then comes a powerful urge to write them down.

Turned on and sweetly tormented

Tue, 22 Nov 2005 19:52:39 GMT

We went again to Sweet Torments last Saturday.

Manchester, and humour

Mon, 14 Nov 2005 18:56:04 GMT

Last week we were in a severe quandary.

Zentai suit yes, the Northern Line, no!

Sun, 02 Oct 2005 20:15:13 GMT

So, here I am living in luverly London.

F doffs his cloak

Tue, 06 Sep 2005 23:17:07 GMT

I used to be a member of a Yahoo group called BDSM Tantra, recently sadly deleted.

Some more, by request

Sat, 20 Aug 2005 22:07:20 GMT

After I posted my last weblog, two people eventually replied, one asking for more. Thanks to you both.

Two Extremes

Tue, 05 Jul 2005 01:02:44 GMT

Continuing in my determined search, last summer and autumn, for a suitable Dom/partner, I had two more brief involvements.

Two subs and one Dom = getting burnt?

Thu, 12 May 2005 15:41:16 GMT

Two months since my last weblog. A lot has been happening in that time, so much that I've had no energy to spare to look back and consider what has led up to this point.

Catharsis, to the soundtrack from "Kundun"

Thu, 17 Mar 2005 20:00:40 GMT

R and I probably played together about half a dozen times.

Skydancing in rope harness

Sat, 05 Mar 2005 12:49:04 GMT

My memory of that first scene with R has faded now, but I think I'm probably right in saying that I spent a few minutes calming myself (at least a little!) with some simple meditation.

That first leap in the dark

Sun, 20 Feb 2005 20:48:05 GMT

Just over a year ago I returned from living abroad to house-sit for someone, and found myself with internet access at home for the first time, privacy, and the chance at last to explore my long-unfulfilled sexual fantasies.

History of a tantric sub

Mon, 07 Feb 2005 01:12:22 GMT