| 28 May 08 | Update | (28 May 08, 3:03 PM by daitchen) |
| I've updated my profile today, and so has Fractal. [more...]
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11 Dec 06 | Shortbus (4) | (30 Dec 06, 11:10 PM by Saffire) |
| On the whole, I really enjoyed
this
brave film about accepting sexuality, and learning to celebrate it, in all its variety and, sometimes, complexity. [more...]
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| 27 Nov 06 | Japanese bondage workshop | (27 Nov 06, 11:08 PM by daitchen) |
| Last Saturday we went to our fourth or fifth rope bondage workshop with Nawashi Murakawa. [more...]
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16 Aug 06 | "The Notorious Bettie Page" - some thoughts (3) | (24 Sep 06, 9:38 PM by DeadlyDesire) |
| We went last weekend to see this film, having first watched a few clips from the original short Bettie Page movies for comparison. [more...]
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1 Aug 06 | The D/s workshop at KF3 (11) | (13 Aug 06, 1:37 PM by demolitionred) |
| One of the workshops that I most appreciated at this year's Kinkfest was Laurence's interesting talk on the psychology of D/s. [more...]
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| 31 Jul 06 | Kinkfest: the Naming of Parts in the fight for sexual freedom | (31 Jul 06, 5:00 PM by daitchen) |
| At school we learnt a poem by Henry Reed called
"The Naming of Parts" [more...]
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| 10 Apr 06 | Pseudo-sadomasochistic violence (1) | (10 Apr 06, 5:48 PM by Coileain) |
| We watched "The Cell" on TV last night, as I'd recognised the title from a recent thread on here about films with bdsm in them. [more...]
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| 17 Mar 06 | Happily ever after? (2) | (18 Mar 06, 1:54 PM by daitchen) |
| I haven't been doing enough walking lately, something I like to do for exercise but also because it often relaxes my mind into a state where words start to flow, and then comes a powerful urge to write them down. [more...]
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| 22 Nov 05 | Turned on and sweetly tormented (4) | (23 Nov 05, 1:35 PM by daitchen) |
| We went again to Sweet Torments last Saturday. [more...]
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| 14 Nov 05 | Manchester, and humour | (14 Nov 05, 6:56 PM by daitchen) |
| Last week we were in a severe quandary. [more...]
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| 2 Oct 05 | Zentai suit yes, the Northern Line, no! | (2 Oct 05, 8:15 PM by daitchen) |
| So, here I am living in luverly London. [more...]
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| 6 Sep 05 | F doffs his cloak | (6 Sep 05, 11:17 PM by daitchen) |
| I used to be a member of a Yahoo group called BDSM Tantra, recently sadly deleted. [more...]
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| 20 Aug 05 | Some more, by request | (20 Aug 05, 10:07 PM by daitchen) |
| After I posted my last weblog, two people eventually replied, one asking for more. Thanks to you both. [more...]
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| 5 Jul 05 | Two Extremes | (5 Jul 05, 1:02 AM by daitchen) |
| Continuing in my determined search, last summer and autumn, for a suitable Dom/partner, I had two more brief involvements. [more...]
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| 12 May 05 | Two subs and one Dom = getting burnt? (3) | (13 May 05, 8:47 PM by daitchen) |
| Two months since my last weblog. A lot has been happening in that time, so much that I've had no energy to spare to look back and consider what has led up to this point. [more...]
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| 17 Mar 05 | Catharsis, to the soundtrack from "Kundun" (2) | (10 May 05, 2:21 PM by daitchen) |
| R and I probably played together about half a dozen times. [more...]
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| 5 Mar 05 | Skydancing in rope harness | (5 Mar 05, 12:49 PM by daitchen) |
| My memory of that first scene with R has faded now, but I think I'm probably right in saying that I spent a few minutes calming myself (at least a little!) with some simple meditation. [more...]
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| 20 Feb 05 | That first leap in the dark | (20 Feb 05, 8:48 PM by daitchen) |
| Just over a year ago I returned from living abroad to house-sit for someone, and found myself with internet access at home for the first time, privacy, and the chance at last to explore my long-unfulfilled sexual fantasies. [more...]
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| 7 Feb 05 | History of a tantric sub | (7 Feb 05, 1:12 AM by daitchen) |
| <Snip>! [more...]
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