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| 25 Sep 06 | Can There Be Submission Without Dominance? (3) | (26 Sep 06, 7:01 AM by Moonbeam) |
| Labels, not my favourite thing as my regular readers will know, but I do have definitions I apply to my own emotional relationships, and expectations that run alongside those definitions. To me submission and dominance are sides of a coin, equal and opposite, in balance and attuned. Sadism and masochism similarly so. [more...] | ||
| 20 Sep 06 | Completely Impatient (1) | (22 Sep 06, 5:10 PM by alexandraa) |
| Why use one word when you can talk for twenty minutes to impart the same level of information? I'm not the most patient of people. My most hated thing is to go to meetings and be kept waiting. Especially when the people concerned have begged and pleaded and understand the pressures on my working day. I've learnt my lesson in times gone by and keep very strict hours. Either it gets crammed into that or it's bollocks to it. Work life balance and all that. It's very important. [more...] | ||
| 18 Sep 06 | Time Travel & Tiffany's | (18 Sep 06, 7:17 PM by alexandraa) |
| I went back in time today. I went to a meeting with an organisation I used to work for 4 years ago. I'm developing some new areas of work with them that I think will prove interesting and exciting for both our organisations. I had mixed experiences of working for them, some good, some bad but still have a lot of respect for their approach and field of work. They are still the kind of organisation I'd look to work for in the future. Albeit at a seriously senior level, of course!! [more...] | ||
| 16 Sep 06 | Something For the Weekend? (3) | (16 Sep 06, 2:09 PM by Strangelove) |
| Its been a whirlwind couple of weeks. I've worked hard and played hard. Tonight it's both Hades and Nemesis, I'm torn across the country about where I'd like to be, special parties at both, and I'd like to go to both too, but I'm just worn out. Enough. I fell asleep on the sofa last night, crawled to bed and slept nine hours solid. I don't do that. Seven hours and I'm up and bouncing, raring to go. I still feel wobbly legged and could happily go back to bed… Sounds like there's a poem in that. [more...] | ||
| 13 Sep 06 | My god the way that people live… (11) | (15 Sep 06, 3:12 PM by travelling_man) |
| I mean each to their own and all that. You know, live as you choose. It has to be what you feel comfortable with, its your own home. I'm not a manic compulsive cleaner up-er myself (although evil twin might say otherwise) but I do like things to be neat and tidy and hopefully cleaned within the last week or two. But fuck me rigid I just happened upon Channel 4 and its not a pretty sight. “How clean is your house?” It's a scum hole that's what. Raze it to the ground NOW. [more...] | ||
| 11 Sep 06 | All the Fs……. or... Adventures in Bristol (11) | (11 Sep 06, 10:10 PM by Zardos) |
| A fabulous weekend of friends, frolics, fun, fizz, fetish, fairs, favourite restaurants and more fizz. And fuck-thing of course. PD needs to change his name to something beginning with F, he's not fitting in here. She extended a most marvellous welcome to me, as of course did PD (thank you kind sir), and I had a really, really great time. Absolutely exhausting, we finally collapsed, after a non-stop 2 days, in our not so glamorous pyjamas (although mine are black and silky, we'll not go into hers), in front of the Full Monty (aww what a fantastic film that is) with pizza and salad. [more...] | ||
| 7 Sep 06 | Playing The Negative Game (3) | (8 Sep 06, 5:14 PM by subsumed) |
| I'm tired tonight. It's been a long day at work and I didn't sleep well last night, my upstairs neighbours came home from holiday at 3am and brought a herd of tap dancing elephants with them. They all unpacked and then took showers until about 4.30am. I'm also tired of people playing the negative game. It's not my way and it drains me. [more...] | ||
| 4 Sep 06 | Oral Sex..... or Suck it and See (15) | (12 Oct 06, 1:14 PM by paulhooters) |
| Oral sex it's a funny old thing don't you think? I spent many a year being disgusted by the thought. In fact I can just about remember my incredulity when the first man tried to push my head down that way. What the fuck was he after? I couldn't imagine. Must be just a slip of his hand because surely…. he couldn't mean.…. no no… people don't actually, really truly, put those things in their mouths do they? Get away. [more...] | ||
| 3 Sep 06 | Monkey Business | (3 Sep 06, 10:00 PM by alexandraa) |
| For some reason I have the desire to write my memos and weblogs in the form of satirical verse. OK OK so piss taking bollocks would be closer to the truth of the matter. But hey it's hard to get out of the style. Book your wedding and funeral compositions now, or better still have a word with fuck_ thing, she's on a complete roll. Can't stop herself. It's like trying to talk to a Shakespeare play at the moment. [more...] | ||
| 3 Sep 06 | An Offering to All (10) | (4 Sep 06, 3:21 PM by ScarletPimpernel) |
| The Breeze Touches My Tender Soul [more...] | ||
| 31 Aug 06 | Damp in My Drawers (4) | (1 Sep 06, 3:52 PM by Faistoidesbleus) |
| So the question is, to hide sex weapons or not to hide sex weapons… My landlord came round the other day and I had about 60 seconds to thrust a plethora of canes, crops, floggers, whips, paddles and chains into the draw under the bed. And then, oh shit!!!, a couple of dildos… Now I keep walking into the bedroom thinking fuck what's missing? Oh!! Where are my beautiful weapons? Where are my canes and crops? What is this empty space on the wall? This empty stand on the floor? Sob. [more...] | ||
| 30 Aug 06 | BDSM Protocol - The Sequel (1) | (30 Aug 06, 11:07 PM by Skyhook) |
| So the truth of the matter is……. Once you've been snared by that Dom, hook line and sinkered onto your knees, by sensible talk and a twinkle in his evil eye. Ensnared by his possession of your mind. What do you want? [more...] | ||
| 28 Aug 06 | BDSM Protocol - Reality or Fantasy? (18) | (29 Aug 06, 1:35 PM by x_Thunder_x) |
| Sometimes its all too serious on here don't you think? Lots of deep and meaningful discussions on submission and dominance and yet so little humour. You'd think we all performed our BDSM without laughing. Oh you do? Oh. That's me drummed out of the club then…. Mind you I have been in trouble in the past for unnecessary and uncontrollable nervous laughter at the wrong point. But then that's part of the fun too sometimes, surely? [more...] | ||
| 27 Aug 06 | Guilt, Submission & Dominance (3) | (28 Aug 06, 6:52 PM by alexandraa) |
| You can't win with guilt. I was once told on a stress counselling course that guilt is a wasted emotion. Dismiss it. Leave it alone, do not let it enter your life…. She hadn't met my family. [more...] | ||
| 22 Aug 06 | Top Ten Chat Ups, or The Worst One Liners….. (10) | (24 Aug 06, 12:44 AM by AmberUK) |
| and suitable put downs……. feel free to add…… [more...] | ||
| 20 Aug 06 | Shared Pleasure (3) | (20 Aug 06, 5:20 PM by caprycorn) |
| I feel an ache. In my body. In places here and there. A need for filling, for roughness and gentleness, for the harsh strike of a heavy flogger. Impact that stuns you and fill your body with heat. A thwack, a breath taking blow, knocking stress and tension away. A cock slamming hard against your cervix. What is there better than that? Massage is good to ease those muscles but really nothing comes close to the physical release a heavy sensual SM session can provide. [more...] | ||
| 14 Aug 06 | So, Erotic Dancing? (10) | (16 Aug 06, 9:00 PM by TVRachel) |
| Well what can I say? It was actually mostly hard work, an aerobics class with a difference I suppose. No question the trainer was a professional “artiste” about 5ft tall and 7 stone wet through, body like a snake, cuh! Didn't make me feel any better to find I was the tallest in the class and LOOMED over the midgets present, who were on average, not your Mrs UK average. More like your Mrs lucky to always get bargains in the sale size 8-10, bitches. More chocolate that's what they needed. Add that to the fact that the whole class was done in front of mirrors and I felt like Mrs Gulliver, a [more...] | ||
| 11 Aug 06 | Dance for ME, Slave Girl!!! (6) | (12 Aug 06, 1:23 PM by TVRachel) |
| It's been a long hard week, in fact it seems to have been a week of work, work, work, sofa sleeping, bed and more work. It's all blended into itself. Even the online conversations with masterfuldom4u, spankuhard and masterspankful have all blended into insignificantly very little. No surprise there then. [more...] | ||
| 6 Aug 06 | Bras and Irritations (6) | (11 Aug 06, 5:31 PM by DomfromHerts) |
| Today I am mostly irritable. Snap, snap, snap. I suggest you don't talk to me today. I bite. [more...] | ||
| 3 Aug 06 | Ds, SM, Vanilla (2) | (3 Aug 06, 10:09 PM by caprycorn) |
Interwoven, entangled, inseparable? Or can you delineate, draw boxes around them? Seems some can. For some it is indeed pure power exchange, for others straight up no nonsense SM. Some wierdos I believe just do bondage (what's that about ????  ). And others keep their sex in a sock until the BDSM is back in the box. [more...]
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