| 3 Feb 07 | Irritable & Things That Make No Sense (10) | (3 Feb 07, 12:41 PM by MushroomGirl) |
| Weird mood this morning. Probably because lack of sex and beatings makes me sulky and its been oooooo………….. a week. Quite the reverse to a lot of people who seem to use any excuse to avoid sex. Mind you, I've been there and done that with my ex husband. Couldn't stand the twat coming anywhere near me in the last couple of years of our marriage. I'd never put up with that again. Need to have that full on body crazy sexual attraction to someone. I'd not want any old rubbish sex. Men seem quite happy in general with any old rubbish sex, well otherwise why would they send those fucking annoying [more...]
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| 26 Jan 07 | Something for the Homophobic (23) | (29 Jan 07, 4:44 PM by alexandraa) |
| Research by Prof Henry Adams of the University of Georgia in the USA suggests that 80 percent of homophobes get sexually aroused by gay erotic imagery, lending support to the theory that overt homophobia is often evidence of repressed homosexual feelings. [more...]
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| 24 Jan 07 | Can There Be Dominance Without Superior Intelligence? (18) | (28 Jan 07, 10:43 PM by Maugrim) |
| I spoke to one of my friends last night for 2 hours.. Yes 2 hours. We do tend to do that. Don't ring each other for months and then when one of us finally picks the phone up, we just fall straight into chattering like we'd just ended our last conversation 5 minutes ago rather than 5 months ago. [more...]
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| 21 Jan 07 | Females that like to be Dominated - or... look back in time (12) | (24 Jan 07, 11:11 PM by M_n_cheeky) |
| Don't know what made me do it but I just went on an old, old site from years gone by, a community group I belonged to when I first started exploring BDSM. Grammatically I think it should be females “who” like to be dominated, not “that” like… I think we used to argue about that too. We used to argue about a great deal of things but had a good rowdy fun time doing it. [more...]
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| 17 Jan 07 | Balance in a Power Exchange Relationship (13) | (18 Jan 07, 10:56 PM by TheGovernor) |
| You see many discussions within this site about power exchange, is it 24/7 or this or that or something else entirely. It's always been a simple thing to me. Do I feel sufficient respect to submit to someone's guidance and control, or not. One or the other. No degrees of submission, no ifs and buts or maybes. Just a simple yes I respect that person and want his control or no I wouldn't trust him to make a decision about what colour toilet paper I use, never mind my emotional well being. To what degree a dominant might provide that dominance is another thing entirely. [more...]
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| 11 Jan 07 | Sex, Your nose & Orgasm Control (5) | (12 Jan 07, 12:14 AM by velvet_minx) |
| Never say I can't find links between diverse subject matters. Here's an interesting thing or three. [more...]
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| 5 Jan 07 | The A List of Mentoring (11) | (11 Jan 07, 10:15 PM by alexandraa) |
| When I first stepped into the world of BDSM I was new to the scene but I wasn't new to life, to relationships, to sex, to desires or fantasies. To meeting new people, to going out on my own, to discussing new ideas. I was old hat at all that. I'm a grown adult woman for god's sake. Why on earth do we treat those people new to BDSM as if they have just been born? [more...]
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| 24 Dec 06 | For Those Interested in Etiquette... Or - When in Paris... (5) | (25 Dec 06, 10:12 AM by x_Thunder_x) |
| Bored and browsing the net, while I wait for BA's online check into open. I'm flying tomorrow did I mention? Looking at the news I picked up on this article on Etiquette in France, which made me laugh. Thought you'd enjoy the giggle. [more...]
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| 10 Dec 06 | Ds or Dangerous Liaisons? (3) | (10 Dec 06, 6:41 PM by alexandraa) |
| Do I or don't I want to go to the LFF? That's the question for this morning. I fancy some company, an afternoon glass of wine with a friend or two would be nice but I'm not sure I want to see “people”. You know, be in a crowded place with loads of folk I don't know. Not sure I want that today. [more...]
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| 7 Dec 06 | Keep it in the family (5) | (8 Dec 06, 3:59 PM by alexandraa) |
| My mother has recently had an operation on her foot. Said foot is currently covered in plaster. Lamenting the fact she is finding it difficult to get washed and feels desperate for a shower she was wondering what she could cover it with.... [more...]
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| 19 Nov 06 | This, That & a Bit of the Other (3) | (20 Nov 06, 11:38 PM by northernwench) |
| I need to get my hair cut, meant to do it this weekend but somehow or another its ended up being a busy one. Started in the best way with fulsome frolics the details of which I am forced to keep secret otherwise I'd have to kill you. Mmmm shame I know but if you scroll back through the blogs I suspect you've read it all before. It was good, it was fun. Nothing like a bit of the other to set a smile on my face. [more...]
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| 16 Nov 06 | If You knew Your Date of Death? (3) | (16 Nov 06, 11:02 PM by lucky_1) |
| Funny old day today. I had to take one of my team to task. Her Mum is dying, has maybe a month, maybe a week or two. Stomach cancer, secondary cancer riddling her and everything that could be done has been done. It's just a matter of trying to control the pain till the end. My team member had been throwing herself into her work growing gaunter and more manic by the day. I've banned her from work now, sent her home to come to terms with her situation, treasure her last moments with her mother, smooth her relationship with her husband, support her Dad and explain to her children what's going [more...]
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| 15 Nov 06 | Tonight is Cynical Night (4) | (17 Nov 06, 5:11 PM by t_judd) |
| Once upon a time I found a magical place where dreams come true and fantasies can be lived out. A place where I was treated like a princess, loved, cherished, possessed and protected. Somewhere where I could give everything in safety, indeed somewhere where I could lower those barriers, stop protecting myself because someone else stepped in to protect me better than I could. [more...]
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| 14 Nov 06 | Unrelated Interrelated Things & Jingle Bells (1) | (14 Nov 06, 6:43 PM by caprycorn) |
| I've had a stressful couple of weeks of it of late. Been flat out busy at work, days seem to last about 5 mins. A good kind of busy though, but knackering when day in, day out, is like that. Big stuff going off on Thursday fingers crossed for that, (go on cross your fingers) but if it goes to plan then it will be more work than ever. Stuff in my private life too, yep the 90% of my life that you lot never get to hear about. Things to come to terms with, things to plan for, things to look forward to. [more...]
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| 8 Nov 06 | In The Members' Dining Room (9) | (10 Nov 06, 6:13 PM by melody_A) |
| I was at the House of Commons not so long ago for a reception. Seems odd you can hire rooms in there for events, but you can. I know because I was there. A double whammy really, prestigious event in a venue you'd go to just to go and see the venue. The chair of the event kept on calling it an august location (as in noble and impressive), but kept pronouncing it August, but it's November my brain kept protesting. If he said it once he must have said it a dozen times. [more...]
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| 6 Nov 06 | Pain or What? (7) | (7 Nov 06, 10:03 AM by lucky_1) |
| I don't like pain. Ghastly, really unpleasant, difficult to cope with. So why do I crave it? Why when I feel stressed or horny do I want pain, the feel of the flogger on my back, the cut of the cane across my arse? Why do I love it more than I hate it, in truth. Why do I actually desire it as part of my sexual playtime? [more...]
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| 4 Nov 06 | Step Away From the Submissive | (4 Nov 06, 9:20 AM by alexandraa) |
| I've been in a funny mood this week. Short tempered, irritable, tired, all coated with a general topping of random anger. I've been working really hard, those work days where you start early and before you know it 10 minutes seemed to have passed but it's already time to leave. If I wasn't disciplined about my work/life balance I'd have been working till 9pm every night this week. [more...]
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| 29 Oct 06 | Sex, Sadism and Fucking, and Sex (18) | (29 Oct 06, 1:58 PM by alexandraa) |
| I had thought yesterday. Mmmm I know, a thought on a Saturday, that's a bit much isn't it? As much as I am the masochist, as much as I enjoy a good thrashing as part of my sex, I'm not into sadism and masochism for its own sake. I'm a hedonist. My hedonistic delight in SM will take me a long way but ultimately its all about sexual pleasure for me. I'm purely and simply a hedonist who loves control and SM all within sexual boundaries. [more...]
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| 26 Oct 06 | Blonde Moments and My Box (1) | (26 Oct 06, 9:27 PM by Purely_Nix) |
| I've finally succumbed to the modern television age. After careful encouragement, gradual drip feeding and then out right delivery of scorn at my overwhelming access to just 4 TV channels (yes not even Channel 5), I was finally persuaded, by peer and Dom pressure, to bite the bullet. Well actually I impulse bought at ASDA, spending a whacking £23 on a digital box thingy. Just think how much chocolate you could buy for £23. [more...]
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| 22 Oct 06 | Squeak Free (1) | (22 Oct 06, 11:17 AM by alexandraa) |
| That's the bed not me, I'm still prone to squeaking when a cane/crop/whip is waved at me. New bed delivered and erected on Friday. Sighhhhhhhhhhhh, how absolutely delightful and delicious. I hadn't realised how conditioned I'd become to trying to move as little as possible while I slept. And inded how often the bed must have been waking me. I've had two amazingly blissful deep nights sleep AND without the usual beating/buggery/fuck fest sessions to bring that on. Not of course that lack of buggery/beating/fuck fests is anything to cheer about but all things come to she who waits, I find. [more...]
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