| 12 Jan 10 | Sex Sometimes (10) | (13 Jan 10, 6:22 PM by Scribbles) |
| Sometimes you want sex like a cosy old jumper, pull it over your head and snuggle in it [more...]
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| 15 Mar 09 | Rewriting History | (15 Mar 09, 9:05 AM by alexandraa) |
| Some people make an art of it. You know the ones, they change the world according to what they want to remember happened, as opposed to what really happened. In some ways we need to do that, our brains do that for us, to help us be happier, keep us sane….. I suppose…. Me? I've always been a starkly upfront face the facts and suck it up kind of gal. I think so anyway? After all, do people who rewrite their own history realise they are doing it? [more...]
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| 4 Mar 09 | Time to Put the Sex Weapons Away.... (11) | (7 Mar 09, 10:07 AM by alexandraa) |
| It's a sad thing but it has to be done. I'm moving flats and this means the agents will be popping in and out with prospective tenants giving little notice to me. It would not be consensual to leave them out, on clear display, would it? [more...]
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| 15 Feb 09 | And Now for Something Soppy….. | (15 Feb 09, 5:52 PM by alexandraa) |
| For my Valentine, a Thank You [more...]
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| 15 Feb 09 | What is There to Love? (11) | (7 Mar 09, 10:01 AM by alexandraa) |
| I have a friend, we've known each other for more years than I care to remember, over 25 years in fact eek! Surely I'm not that old. For the last nine years she has been in a relationship I struggle with on many fronts. You'd think hey, look at me, with a married man, into power exchange and SM, dabble with another woman, what's to not like about anyone else's relationship choices. [more...]
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| 4 Feb 09 | A reply - What I Really Want.... (2) | (4 Feb 09, 10:19 PM by newfavourite) |
| A reply to [more...]
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| 25 Jan 09 | STRESS & Submission...... (7) | (29 Jan 09, 11:06 PM by Mesmeric) |
| I feel very stressed at the moment. It makes me angry. [more...]
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| 19 Jan 09 | Power Exchange or A Framework for Relationships? (12) | (20 Jan 09, 9:45 PM by northernwench) |
| This weekend I seem to have been bombarded with friends who are at logger heads with their partners. He said/she said/they said. I listen patiently, understanding completely that they all still love their partners/friends/family and the drama was actually all arguments about nothing. They just wanted to vent but had no real hatred for their chosen ones. They all knew I would just listen and not judge. [more...]
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| 17 Jan 09 | Dog Food & The Deepest Form of Submission.... (29) | (18 Jan 09, 11:56 PM by mq1965) |
| So earlier this week, I nearly left IC for good, nearly did a bat and ball job. To my amazement I found my views deleted by “admin”. Apparently I was, quote “slagging off” someone. Has administration been delegated to a 13 year old I did wonder??? I've hummed and harred. To leave completely a site that no longer encourages debate and learning, or to battle on and stick with something that has been a good resource for knowledge, debate, titillation, gossip and laughs over the years. I'm still undecided, but for now will keep my views to weblogs, where apparently I will not be censored…. they [more...]
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| 16 Nov 08 | Need… Need… Need.. (1) | (16 Nov 08, 10:52 AM by newfavourite) |
| I ache. My body aches. It aches all over. I feel stiff and tense. I need his touch. I need it like air to breathe and water to drink. I need it. My body yearns for him, like a plant stretching to the sun. I can't control or stop it, I just need it. An essential need, not a want or a desire, a need. I need his touch. Need to feel that release, tensions leaving me, stresses disappearing, problems gone and forgotten. I need his touch. [more...]
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| 8 Nov 08 | Chastity - What are you on about??? (9) | (10 Nov 08, 9:08 PM by GoldsGirl) |
| I get confused with all the discussions I see on here about people who don't have sex. Don't want it, don't like it, don't enjoy it, enjoy the feeling of not having it, enjoy the feeling of resisting it, enjoy the feeling of not allowing their bodies to respond sexually, enjoy the feeling of having their sexual release controlled (ok that one I can understand), enjoy announcing how long they haven't had sex for, enjoy sado masochistic activities but no sexual intercourse. … [more...]
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| 28 Oct 08 | I want…. (9) | (29 Oct 08, 7:28 AM by MisterBear) |
| I want him to touch me, to run his hands over me [more...]
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| 26 Oct 08 | Missing Him.... (1) | (27 Oct 08, 5:45 PM by Traumata) |
| I'm missing him. Which is silly. He's out of the country. It's only been a couple of days and he's back tomorrow. With texts and phone calls too. But I'm still missing him. I live alone anyway. How can I miss him? But I do. [more...]
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| 12 Oct 08 | No Soft Caress (8) | (13 Oct 08, 12:37 PM by Cinnamon_Tart) |
| You have an ache inside. A need. You yearn for….. Something…. Your partner wants sex…. Dull boring sex, so gentle and quiet, you want to spit on them….. So sweet you could turn into beating them with a spiked club and laughing at their bruised broken bodies….. Turning your heel and walking away without a thought. Yet, you aren't sadistic nor dominant….. [more...]
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| 12 Oct 08 | Submission & Responsibility (5) | (12 Oct 08, 7:43 PM by Platinum) |
| I've been running a course on leadership skills the last couple of weekends, yesterday one of the trainers was doing a piece on responsibility. You had to think of situations where you give up responsibility. In an everyday work/life situation this is about nil for me. Sexually of course a great many thoughts sprung to mind but nothing I was going to share with anyone. In the end I managed to come up with being a passenger on an aeroplane. People assumed I had a fear of flying, no, I don't, I just don't think about where I am or what could happen while I'm doing it but I don't mind flying [more...]
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| 21 Aug 08 | The Holy Grail of Power Exchange (7) | (23 Aug 08, 12:16 PM by thea_x) |
| There are a few things of late that have got me thinking. Meeting up with old friends from the BDSM Community, looking at how our relationships have developed over the years, seeing how people have settled into their lives and found a way to integrate their BDSM fantasies with reality. It's really interesting to see how different people work that out as their relationships mature and experiences turn fantasy into reality. [more...]
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| 10 May 08 | Happy Birthday Augusta (14) | (14 Aug 08, 12:33 AM by DDDDom) |
| Augusta was her name [more...]
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| 23 Apr 08 | It's In His Touch........ | (23 Apr 08, 6:06 PM by alexandraa) |
| He rolls over and looks at me. [more...]
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| 20 Apr 08 | If it Makes You Happy.... (16) | (21 Apr 08, 8:45 AM by lucky_1) |
| If it makes you happy..... Then why the hell are you so sad.... (Cheryl Crow). [more...]
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| 4 Mar 08 | Falling From Grace… or the Journey into Submission (10) | (6 Mar 08, 6:42 PM by alexandraa) |
| His voice? His touch? His presence? His smile? The smell of his maleness? His laugh? His frown? His joy? His sadness? The way he moves his body? His sex drive? His cock? The whole fresh sunniness of him? The electricity between us? His intellect? His work? His knowledge? His wisdom? [more...]
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