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26 Nov 11	It begins... (6)	(2 Dec 11, 12:07 PM by totallycoverme)
It begins with her on the spanking bench. Not because I am seeking her pain - not tonight at least - but simply as a means to an end. I want her broken, compliant, and this will get her to that state. [more...]
5 Dec 10	Good sub (1)	(5 Dec 10, 5:57 PM by Taintedinnocence)
A thread the other day about what makes for a good submissive made me think a bit about what I was looking for when I was single, and the qualities I thought I wanted at the time. But what's more interesting for me to think about, four years in to a 24/7 D/s relationship, is what I was actually looking for, even if I didn't know it at the time. [more...]
25 Apr 10	A Playtime Blog	(25 Apr 10, 4:26 PM by TheFalconer)
This is the kind of thing I don't usually tend to post here, but felt like cross-posting from my LiveJournal for a change. If you're an LJ user come find me at http://the-falconer.livejournal.com/ Everything I post there tends to be friends-locked, but I'm happy to friend other active journals. [more...]
7 Oct 09	Happy News - Engaged! (7)	(8 Oct 09, 4:28 PM by TheFalconer)
After three years together (and just over two years since she accepted my training collar), @taintedinnocence and I are now very happy to announce our engagement. [more...]
19 May 09	Are the exclusive excluded? (4)	(19 May 09, 6:05 PM by GazUK1963)
Idle thought for a wet Tuesday building on a conversation I had last week... [more...]
1 May 09	Are play clubs declining? (6)	(19 May 09, 1:58 PM by Classy_DOM)
This thought's been bubbling round in my head for a few days... Seems to me that lately there's been a lot of threads about clubs closing for whatever reason (both with and without drama). Which is normal, most clubs don't last that long, but it does seem to me like there's not as many new ones starting up as there used to be, which would of course mean there's less clubs overall. [more...]
22 Apr 09	Book Review: This Curious Human Phenomenon (9)	(23 Apr 09, 10:11 AM by TheFalconer)
Peter Masters is the author of The Control Book, which is hands down the best book I've ever read on D/s (as opposed to BDSM). So when I heard he had a new book out, I ordered it basically sight unseen. [more...]
19 Jan 09	My Idea of Fun	(19 Jan 09, 9:46 AM by TheFalconer)
It occurred to me recently that for the past couple years I've inadvertently been doing something of a grand tour of UK BDSM clubs. Although I've probably been to less clubs than in previous years, the past two years have been noticeable more for the fact that I've rarely been to the same club even twice over that period. [more...]
12 Mar 08	Fear Factor (1)	(12 Mar 08, 10:40 PM by Taintedinnocence)
"Do you enjoy that you scare me?" [more...]
11 Mar 08	Punishment	(11 Mar 08, 7:21 PM by TheFalconer)
In my experience, "punishment" as a concept in BDSM is something which has rather blurred edges. When I first started exploring all this it was very much in the context of bedroom games, and therefore punishment only really featured on the level of "you've been a bad girl, go to my room!". Spurious infractions would be invented and dealt with. [more...]
21 Nov 06	Feeling very Vain (1)	(21 Nov 06, 12:15 PM by Elvenkind)
So through bizarre coincidence I've discovered that San Francisco sleaze rockers Vain are in town tonight, and am now warming myself up for the gig by listening to their back catalogue. [more...]
4 Aug 06	Lies (19)	(5 Aug 06, 1:28 AM by TheFalconer)
In the spirit of the other threads below... [more...]
14 Apr 06	A good friday (4)	(15 Apr 06, 6:00 AM by Prosperine)
This year seems to have been incredibly hectic for me. I realised last night that the last time I'd been out on any kind of shopping trip was the January sales. So today seemed like a good time to grab my steadily growing shopping list and actually try to make a dent in it. [more...]