| 30 Nov 08 | Girlporn and Vegetable Oil (7) | (30 Nov 08, 6:40 PM by MisterBear) |
First off apologies for the title and any disappointment this blog may cause. It IS about girlporn and vegetable oil, but not girlporn WITH vegetable oil  . [more...]
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| 3 Aug 08 | Fugly Pussy (8) | (5 Aug 08, 8:36 AM by Raegan) |
The nice lady from the RSPCA has just been around to check out that we're not psychos (we managed to act sane for half an hour) and has decreed that we can adopt Pudding  [more...]
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| 1 Aug 08 | Raegan The Destroyer (7) | (3 Aug 08, 9:02 AM by MisterBear) |
| Well, I've been meaning to write a blog for a little while, as there have been so many changes that I'd like to document; new house, new area, new job, new rules, our menagerie to name a few. But they all seem so insignificant after the carnage of this morning. [more...]
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| 30 Jun 08 | Communication, Acceptance and Consistancy (3) | (30 Jun 08, 5:03 PM by MisterBear) |
| I am working towards internal enslavement of my Barkley and deconstructing his thought processes is something I have been thinking about a lot, and am beginning to implement. A barrier to this is communication between myself and Barkley. I would consider myself a fairly creative individual who does not usually have problems communicating thoughts and feelings once I have worked them out. I can express myself in numerous ways such as verbally, written exchanges, music, poetry, art, touch and clothing to name a few. Barkley finds communicating very problematic and does not find it easy. Recently I [more...]
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| 19 May 08 | Collaring 10/05/08 (1) | (19 May 08, 12:55 PM by Dark_Scorpion) |
| Everybody has different definitions of what collaring means and over the past few weeks I've been reading them wherever I found them to try and place where my own opinions lie in regards to collaring my partner. At first, back in the beginning, we used a collar that one of us had in our toy boxes already. I don't even remember who it originally belonged to because it did not signify anything and was not worth remembering in my admittedly awful memory. What I do remember is that it was used during play as part of many leather restraints we had between us; collars, wrist cuffs, ankle cuffs etc. [more...]
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 25 Mar 08 | Qualities of a Dominant Partner (27) | (3 Aug 08, 8:06 AM by martindevon) |
| I would like guidance from experienced dominants and submissives. I am trying to gain more control over myself in order to control my submissive partner. I have identified that I am doing self-destructive things which unsettle our relationship and work against what I want to achieve. I am reading as much as I can but some conversation and exchange with older mentors would be something I would find beneficial. I am finding that it is not just the physical techniques of BDSM that I am eager to learn, it is the mental confidence and strategies for managing the resistance of my submissive that I am [more...]
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| 20 Mar 08 | Puddles (5) | (20 Mar 08, 12:08 PM by MisterBear) |
| Laying there, stretching like a kitty, relaxed and satisfied cause you took what I had to give, basking in the glow you get after I've made you one big puddle of happy clingy puppy who can just about remember his name. Wrapped in a blanket, safe and secure, knowing you've pleased me. God how we've missed this! I'm so proud of you. [more...]
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| 22 Jan 08 | What Sootica Did (7) | (22 Jan 08, 8:47 PM by Dommy_nick) |
| Ha! For once in my life I made plans and stuck to them Well, mostly. [more...]
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| 18 Jan 08 | Weekend Plans: should I or shouldn't I? (16) | (19 Jan 08, 3:24 AM by Pallando) |
| Well, after being abandoned by the Puppy
for the week, and having to fend for myself in the tea and toast making department, I'm trying to sort out my weekend plans and hopefully some new things to play with when he comes home on Monday. [more...]
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| 25 Aug 07 | Jammie (3) | (26 Aug 07, 5:40 PM by Raegan) |
| I just got everything I ever wanted handed to me on a shiny plate [more...]
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| 10 Aug 07 | Doing What Comes Naturally | (10 Aug 07, 1:33 AM by Raegan) |
| There are lots of different types of profiles on Informed Consent. Some people come here to learn, others for a quick fix, some people have been practising BDSM for years and have a wealth of knowledge and experience, some people are yet to find their first partner. I'm somewhere in the middle, I'm lucky enough to have a person in my life to share this with but I'm a long way off being experienced. I'm eager to learn and to experience new things, I want to know the more skilled techniques like knife play and understand the in depth mental aspects of Internal Enslavement and an M/s relationship. [more...]
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| 10 Jul 07 | Beginning to understand how we feel afterwards | (10 Jul 07, 6:55 PM by Raegan) |
| There is a difference between playing and... I don't have a word for it. We play all the time, and it's so much fun. But there are times when we have the house to ourselves and can really focus on what we are doing. Times when I can relax enough to let go and really hit Dommespace. The first time I did, he hit a more powerful Subspace than he had experienced before. He gets spacey easily but this was different. This is a conversation about the second time I hit it. [more...]
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| 4 Jun 07 | Head Rush | (4 Jun 07, 9:01 AM by Raegan) |
| Spoiled_puppy and myself have been exploring BDSM together on and off for the past six months within our vanilla boyfriend/girlfriend relationship, with little previous experience on either side. I am so lucky to have him in my life and I have Informed Consent to thank for finding him and bringing us together. [more...]
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| 30 May 07 | Things I want this morning | (30 May 07, 8:53 AM by Raegan) |
| 1) a bacon sandwich with mayonnaise, and I wish I lived in France where having mayonnaise with everything instead of ketchup isn't a sin/weird/cute, in fact, it's positively encouraged. [more...]
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| 26 May 07 | Take a look at my girlfriend... (14) | (27 May 07, 9:16 AM by stormy_soul) |
| she's the only one I got... [more...]
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| 25 May 07 | Have you ever had the fantasy where... (7) | (25 May 07, 2:54 PM by candle_in_the_wind) |
| your entire family are eaten by snails??? [more...]
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| 15 May 07 | My First Dragonfly Sleeve | (15 May 07, 10:54 AM by Raegan) |
| Tis the morning after... [more...]
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| 21 Apr 07 | Deeper and Deeper (2) | (21 Apr 07, 10:29 PM by Raegan) |
| Getting deeper and deeper into this scary thing called BDSM. The d/s power exchange combined with vanilla love is intoxicating as well as frightening. Are Dommes supposed to be scared? This one is. This one is afraid of the very fine line between control and abuse. I don't want my puppy to be damaged for life if we split up. I don't want him to not be able to cope without me as he is a sensitive creature as it is. [more...]
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