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Discussion of O&P: Ownership. Possession. Consent. Responsibility. Respect. House. Service. Dignity. Authenticity. Rituals. See the group profile page for more details. Please try to use the working definitions in the O&P Wiki when making posts.
| 12 Jan 12 | Communication and 'Porch Time'? (11) by mia | (30 Jan 12, 10:34 AM by WideEyedMinx) |
| This is a two fold question really, which means in reality i'll think of about 7 questions, but anyway, it's all relating to communication within these sorts of relationships. [more...] | ||
| 9 Jan 12 | Thoughts on Ownership (To be expanded) by custardpowder | (9 Jan 12, 12:11 AM by custardpowder) |
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| 2 Jan 12 | From the Other Side (3) by mia | (8 Jan 12, 5:24 PM by mia) |
| What would you like or enjoy as the other side of the D/s, M/s role than your usual role? What would you hate? [more...] | ||
| 8 Dec 11 | Next O & P Open in Manchester, Sat 11 Feb 2012 (15) by secretsmile_101 | (9 Feb 12, 4:09 PM by Hartless) |
| I am happy to announce that the venue for the next O&P Open in Manchester has been booked! The event will be held on the afternoon of Saturday 11th February 2012 in the same place as before, Taurus Bar, 1 Canal Street, M1 3HE. [more...] | ||
| 7 Nov 11 | Consequences (8) by othyim | (16 Nov 11, 1:42 PM by totallycoverme) |
| I recently read a text that made me shiver. To be exact, it was a blog entry by a female, that was given the "task" to actively try to seduce a (vanilla) co-worker. [more...] | ||
| 7 Nov 11 | Books on behaviour modification (3) by HeelHussy | (7 Nov 11, 9:41 PM by HeelHussy) |
| I am looking for recommendations on books about behaviour modification. I want to learn to develop any possible future sub and myself to try and reinforce any d/s dynamics, set rules, enforce them fairly, and generally create a stable household dynamic. [more...] | ||
| 2 Nov 11 | Changing Wants and Needs (29) by mia | (5 Dec 11, 8:23 PM by ClassAct2005) |
| This is prompted by curiosity and for discussion, rather than a need for advice for anything that is happening in my relationship. I say this because often when posts are made, they can be interpreted as simply asking for help, which is not what is required here (for me anyway!). [more...] | ||
| 31 Oct 11 | A New Kind of O&P Event? (9) by secretsmile_101 | (3 Jan 12, 8:30 AM by HiGuysItsMe) |
| For many months now I have been thinking about a way to get an O&P event going for everyone and anyone interested in O&P. I have several reasons for wanting to do so, but I'm not very good at explaining my thoughts so please bear with me! [more...] | ||
| 25 Oct 11 | Reactance (2) by mia | (26 Oct 11, 12:48 PM by mia) |
| Reactance is an emotional reaction in direct contradiction to rules or regulations that threaten or eliminate specific behavioral freedoms. In O&P relationships the submissive is subject to the dominants decisions. Sometimes the dominant will decide to restrict freedoms the submissive is used to. This can lead to all sorts of physical reactions - positive and negative - but i want to ask about the emotional ones; the reactance. [more...] | ||
| 17 Sep 11 | Future O&P Opens in Manchester? (2) by Tanos | (28 Sep 11, 7:41 PM by misunderstoodslave) |
| It's around the time we started the Opens up again after the summer last year. The formula is pretty simple and you just need to book a private room somewhere. The basement of Taurus did work well (and is now to be used for the Rope Jam peer workshops.) [more...] | ||
| 8 Sep 11 | Protocols (22) by Master_MM | (3 Nov 11, 9:22 PM by Master_MM) |
| I am interested in developing a protocol that will form the framework for a Ds/Ms relationship. I think that this would be helpful in setting out the basis of that relationship, in terms of rules and behaviours for the sub, and the Dom's responsibilities. For me it would be helpful in clearly defining the relationship and my expectations of the sub. [more...] | ||
| 6 Sep 11 | O&P Chatroom Evening - Tuesdays from 9-12 (10) by mia | (20 Dec 11, 9:09 PM by poutanaki) |
| Feel free to add reminders here, or better still, make some suggestions for topics of conversations. [more...] | ||
| 6 Sep 11 | Equality (16) by mia | (11 Jan 12, 4:26 AM by Priapuss) |
| From the Manifesto: [more...] | ||
| 2 Sep 11 | Volunteer(s) needed for London O and P (1) by successfu1 | (10 Nov 11, 8:34 PM by Gigantor) |
| As some poeple may recall, I said after the last London O and P event that I was keen to hand it on to someone else to coordinate and as I am now departing from IC shores for a while. I'd like to hand it over now. [more...] | ||
| 21 Jul 11 | Other People's Owners and Other People's Property (11) by mia | (2 Aug 11, 6:12 PM by Hartless) |
| How do you feel interacting with other people's owners and other people's property? Do you have a way of recognising their position? Do you treat them all equally? Do you worry you ever step on people's toes? [more...] | ||
| 18 Jul 11 | isolated (8) by petit_chat | (2 Aug 11, 11:53 AM by MarkMyWord) |
| I feel quite isolated at the moment and feel very down about it and just wondered if others feel more or less the same... [more...] | ||
| 12 Jul 11 | slave speak (28) by Sadists_magick | (27 Oct 11, 8:59 PM by ClassAct2005) |
| for the first time, since we began our journey almost three years ago, we are finally living together without the lucrative lure of contracts on the other side of the world or untimely immigration issues. As part of my adjustment to the non-working world, Master has implemented 'slave immersion' - one of the criteria being that when with him, i only use 'slave speak' - referring to myself in the third person. [more...] | ||
| 5 Jul 11 | Doing something for Master (13) by totallycoverme | (16 Jul 11, 11:49 AM by flamesdesire) |
| vs doing something for yourself. [more...] | ||
| 23 Jun 11 | Ownership and 'Vetos' (6) by mia | (4 Jul 11, 9:11 AM by Ms_Valentine) |
| From the Manifesto: [more...] | ||
| 19 Jun 11 | Household manuals (2) by Tanos | (20 Jun 11, 6:01 PM by Ms_Eve_White) |
| At the Manchester O&P Open yesterday we talked about one of totallycoverme's topics, asking whether anyone had written a household manual: [more...] | ||
