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| 27 May 09 | Still around | (27 May 09, 9:53 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| Reports of my death have been greatly exaggerated. I am still very much around and awaiting my bite of this cherry.Benx | ||
| 29 Apr 09 | Going to ground (2) | (30 Apr 09, 6:00 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| I shall be laying low for a while. Obviously I will be checking to see if I have any memos, but as I have nothing happening such as a domme to visit as yet and no new experiences to tell of I won't reappear until such time as something crops up ( terrible pun in this environment). Anyone that is interested in getting in touch and can offer what I want can memo me and read my profile, which apparently over 1000 people have done. As for the Carlisle Munch, I might appear there some time in the future, but my main interest for now in Carlisle is seeing whether United can pull off a win and survive [more...] | ||
| 26 Apr 09 | Fetishes | (26 Apr 09, 11:50 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| Perhaps this video clip covers a few kinks I have, domination by a female trained in either judo, aikido( in this clip) and wrestling and from a Far Eastern background. Don't know where my fetish for this comes from- as I took up judo briefly just for self defence in my early 20s rather than a desire to have a Japanese woman black belt on top of me- but I have a distinct love for these types of women and keep fantasising about this. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tQx4kyr5yDs&featu... Maybe this ties in with my foot fetish and liking for being dominated. | ||
| 22 Apr 09 | Agenda | (22 Apr 09, 8:18 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| Having checked out different BDSM and domme websites, I have now decided that the dungeons, clubs and fetish clothing route isn't for me and that I am far more a foot fetishist and a CP enthusiast, liking CP games and the swish of the cane from a jolly but bossy domme far more than being in a cage in a dungeon. However, I still have a crossover point towards harder BDSM as I have a massive desire to be walked over in stiletto heels and quite like this scene where a domme rubs her feet or boots against a sub's penis. I was thinking CBT, but this is something rather different( and very painful) but [more...] | ||
| 20 Apr 09 | Idiot drivers (7) | (21 Apr 09, 11:05 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| This morning I was very lucky to escape injury and the destruction of my car when I was crossing a crossroads and a taxi shot across the junction when the lights were on red. Fortunately I managed to stop before hitting the taxi, but this was one of the most frightening experiences I have ever had as everything went into slow motion. If I had crossed that crossing a few seconds earlier, I would have been involved in a serious accident, so thankfully I crossed a few seconds later and the brakes and tyres on my car were fortunately up to the job. However, this was one of the scariest experiences I [more...] | ||
| 13 Apr 09 | BDSM dreams (2) | (17 Apr 09, 4:21 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| Since I have rejoined, I seem to be getting a lot of dreams about BDSM. The most recent one concerned a foot worshipping session with a domme in black fishnet tights who was blonde and in her 30s where I was instructed to suck on her feet like " I would suck on your cock." I don't know if this is a premonition of things to come as I am a big fan of this, but it sure was a nice dream last week. Murphy's damned law, the alarm clock went off as she mentioned her boots to be worshipped as the dream was developing nicely. | ||
| 8 Apr 09 | BDSM/CP on You Tube (2) | (9 Apr 09, 4:29 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| I've just trawled You Tube for clips and apart from some classics from film and television that most of you will have seen, the website is fairly disappointing with typically staged scenes where the dommes happen to look like supermodels and the whole thing looks faked for the cameras. Anyone know where there are some good clips on You Tube with real players or something similar? There was a really good one about Madam Caramel, which was like an interview, that seems to have gone. | ||
| 29 Mar 09 | Femdom judo style (3) | (29 Mar 09, 11:54 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| Another dominant female, this time a very beautiful Japanese judo black belt called Towa Mitsui. This covers quite a few bases: a beautiful Asian woman totally dominating a bigger man with her judo skills. Now if Towa had been my judo teacher years ago, I would have stuck it out for longer. Also Japan being Japan she is also a porn star. [more...] | ||
| 29 Mar 09 | Mixed wrestling (1) | (29 Mar 09, 5:44 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| Another one of my fantasies, being wrestled by a strongly built woman who makes Grace Jones look like an amateur. Afrika shows this guy no mercy, but he clearly enjoys it, a femdom classic. http://www.afrikanadventure.com/flash/preview1/p... | ||
| 25 Mar 09 | Why rubbish pro dommes (2) | (26 Mar 09, 6:31 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| Why do some people constantly regard pro dommes as muggers in thigh length boots? My first, and last for a long time afterwards, two dommes seemed to think that pro dommes as some kind of greedy parasites that preyed on unsuspecting men and never delivered what they needed, while being not truly committed to the scene( whatever that meant). However, while there are a few unscrupulous pros out there, I will admit most are complete professionals, offer a very discreet and confidential service( I've never seen one on here indulge in a flaming war with a sub unlike a certain domme I knew some years [more...] | ||
| 21 Mar 09 | The pro domme route | (21 Mar 09, 6:46 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| There has been quite a lively debate I started on the pro mistresses web board about the merits and de merits of pro dommes. AIRC in the early days of IC, pro dommes were very much discouraged and a lot of posters were against them. However, gladly, things have mellowed and the pros on here are welcomed and are often great sources of advice. Two in particular have been very helpful. [more...] | ||
| 15 Mar 09 | An erotic strory (6) | (16 Mar 09, 5:58 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| Here is one I sent to Scarlet magazine a couple of years ago. [more...] | ||
| 10 Mar 09 | In a quandary (6) | (15 Mar 09, 11:05 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| I seem a little bit stuck at the moment and don't really know where to turn. Much as I am keen to attend the Carlisle Munch next Wednesday, I know that this involves a 90 mile round trip in the dark and the fact my mother would become very suspicious as to why I was driving off to Carlisle in the evening without good reason. It's not that I don't want to go, but practical reasons get in the way, same as I had to invent a massive lie about my previous domme experience by saying I'd met a woman through AOL Chat and then, when it failed to work, just used the excuse that we weren't compatible. It is [more...] | ||
| 4 Mar 09 | Another clip | (4 Mar 09, 9:35 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| This time it's the stocking fetishist from 90s series Band of Gold. I tried to find a decent one of Mistress Collette from the series, but sadly none were directly related to her from the series on You Tube. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PvvrigcdpNs I do have a fetish for nylons, though more so the woman's foot, and again that kind television producer Kay Mellor got me aroused and my kinkometer raised. Any chance of a re run on ITV 3 please? | ||
| 1 Mar 09 | Secretary (7) | (3 Mar 09, 8:27 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| A classic scene from one of my favourite films, wonder if there will be a remake with a dominant female boss and a male secretary. I would love to be the male Maggie Gyllenhall. http://www.youtube.com/user/wasted6 | ||
| 15 Feb 09 | Billy Piper BDSM style (4) | (15 Feb 09, 11:18 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| Billie Piper as Belle de Jour in one of the funniest scenes from Secret Diary of a Call Girl http://www.youtube.com/user/rottenjerk How many dommes do you know who say sorry or have a row with their boyfriend on the phone during a scene. Must admit, though, she whips like a pro later on. Wonder if the whip connected, though, as I didn't see any marks on the sub's backside. Still a great clip from an excellent series. | ||
| 12 Feb 09 | Thankyou | (12 Feb 09, 6:08 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| Thankyou to everyone who has helped me out about finding a CP specialist and what to expect and also about trying to revive a Cumbrian scene which did sort of start and then stuttered out and died. I won't be disappearing from IC, but will only post when I get more news for the weblog or find a thread that I want to contribute to. After all, it's no good buying a newspaper and finding it has nothing in it( well the Daily Star does come close to this) so I will be keeping my head down a bit, but for those who want to memo me I shall be around and checking the site a few times a week. After all, I [more...] | ||
| 11 Feb 09 | How I got my screen name | (11 Feb 09, 6:10 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| The Bendover is a bit obvious as I'm not called Ben Dover, but this refers to something I have to do in the company of a domme when requested. The 67 bit comes from the year I was born, although I won't be 42 until December. Quite a few people have shortened it to Ben, which is fine with me. Rather a change from my screen name from 2002-05, which was Outsider as this is what I felt like in my home town where such subjects as BDSM were definitely not on the agenda. However, I found the name a bit negative after a while and opted for a lighter one. | ||
| 28 Jan 09 | Could this be where it all started | (28 Jan 09, 8:36 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| For the first two years of my school career, I attended a secondary modern- my next secondary school almost never used it and scrapped it altogether in the fourth form- where corporal punishment was used regularly. Officially only the heads of house, deputy heads and headmaster were allowed to use it, but we knew of other teachers, including a physics teacher with a wooden paddle( apparently very painful) and a games teacher whose training shoe made a regular appearance at every games lesson and which I became acquainted with after cheating on a cross country. Touch your toes, whack, ooooowwww, [more...] | ||
| 24 Jan 09 | CP- the next generation | (24 Jan 09, 4:47 PM by KinkyKumbrian) |
| I am 41 and was old enough, until the school abandoned it at the end of the third form, to have witnessed and been on the receiving end of corporal punishment, which may have shaped my tastes( Overend School, you have a lot to answer for). Quite a lot of the players and dommes in this scene appear to be of an age when the practice was still in use. However, you will have to be in your mid thirties at the very least to have experienced it in real life and most people under 35 will have never experienced CP. I often wonder, as a lot of this is shaped by real life experience, if a new generation of [more...] | ||
