Degenerate's blog on Informed Consent http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/weblogs/Degenerate/ The IC RSS Gadget webmaster@informedconsent.co.uk 360 Mon, 05 Dec 2011 13:38:18 GMT Mon, 05 Dec 2011 13:38:18 GMT Mon, 05 Dec 2011 13:38:18 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/320631/ A ramble and myth-bust about ethical non-monogamists*, why a few of us promote our way, and where our views come from about less honest non-monogamists. Sun, 13 Nov 2011 10:55:34 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/318909/ Without the kids and everything, to a grown up place! What a rare treat. :) Sun, 30 Oct 2011 10:48:09 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/317752/ We're now 8 months on from the horror-ful thing I hate mentioning.. Tue, 27 Sep 2011 00:45:46 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/315190/ Thought some of you might like to know about this: sharing Mimi's blog about it - this interview is for her Polyamory Project. Mon, 26 Sep 2011 17:57:19 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/315138/ Discussed stuff and everything... like four posts or summat. I am so impressed with myself. I even managed to mention G without howling and screaming and deleting it (yet). Thu, 01 Sep 2011 11:10:55 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/313098/ No change here really. Continuing with the sleepless nights.. interspersed with nightmares.. mostly having to switch off my emotions in order to manage family life. Wed, 13 Jul 2011 12:25:52 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/309203/ Think I need to go on light duties.. this trying to go back to normal thing really isn't working and I just had to take an emergency week (which turned out to be more like two)out. Sat, 04 Jun 2011 10:07:24 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/306279/ Thu, 12 May 2011 13:16:40 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/304626/ Just a tiny note to those sweet people who keep checking in on me. Sat, 23 Apr 2011 22:05:46 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/303226/ government survey on trans isues Sat, 09 Apr 2011 12:30:15 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/302144/ I have given myself a nudge and am now trying to start functioning again, so I'm encouraging people to go back to normal contact/activism wise. Wed, 06 Apr 2011 11:50:33 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/301932/ Went a whole day without dampening my clothes with eyewater yesterday. Progress. Trying to gently start to get back to existing within the universe instead of outside it. Things will never be 'back to normal' because my G is gone :-( Wed, 30 Mar 2011 17:06:10 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/301331/ ..of my boy the other night. Tue, 29 Mar 2011 01:55:35 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/301213/ Plugged the phones back in but am not firing on all cylinders. Thanks for your patience. A partner dying is a terrible thing. Don't. Do. It. Thu, 24 Mar 2011 11:30:10 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/300816/ .. have been ignoring the phones - unplugged them all yesterday. Really don't want to talk to people right now. If anyone needs anything urgently please go though my wife Phoebe Queen Mon, 14 Mar 2011 16:34:00 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/300073/ I feel personally heartened by this kind and thoughtful message from Conrad (Stormywaters) son Oliver http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/299976/0 Such a welcome contrast to the situations which can face BDSM people at a time of bereavement. Please all friends of Stormy take a little look at the message and respond if you feel up to it. Sat, 12 Mar 2011 10:35:57 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/299887/ In case anyone has not seen the news we (IC & scene people) have lost the lovely stormywaters to a sudden heart attack. See more info here http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/299829/0 . Mon, 07 Mar 2011 14:30:45 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/299500/ Dear friends, colleagues and peers.. thank you so much for all your kind messages, on my blog and in PM. Thank you for your acceptance and acknowledgement at a time of such great loss for our families. Fri, 25 Feb 2011 12:18:12 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/298647/ There's no way to soften this so I'm going to keep it simple. Gordon died this morning (he had 3 brain tumors). I don't know what else to say. Obviously we're very upset. My condolances to his friends here, as a good number of scene members know him, some of them very well for a long time. Tue, 26 Oct 2010 10:01:43 GMT http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/287248/ Yay! Spread the word..