| 5 Dec 11 | Poly people & fake monogamists (8) | (5 Dec 11, 10:34 PM by Suitably_Twisted) |
| A ramble and myth-bust about ethical non-monogamists*, why a few of us promote our way, and where our views come from about less honest non-monogamists. [more...]
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| 13 Nov 11 | Oooh we went out! (2) | (13 Nov 11, 12:40 PM by Degenerate) |
Without the kids and everything, to a grown up place! What a rare treat.  [more...]
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| 30 Oct 11 | Grief & moving on (13) | (31 Oct 11, 11:01 PM by Grownup_Frankie) |
| We're now 8 months on from the horror-ful thing I hate mentioning.. [more...]
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| 27 Sep 11 | My Polyamory interview - more coming (5) | (28 Sep 11, 11:32 AM by Purvection) |
| Thought some of you might like to know about this: sharing Mimi's blog about it - this interview is for her Polyamory Project. [more...]
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| 26 Sep 11 | I posted! (13) | (27 Sep 11, 12:49 AM by Degenerate) |
| Discussed stuff and everything... like four posts or summat. I am so impressed with myself. I even managed to mention G without howling and screaming and deleting it (yet). [more...]
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| 1 Sep 11 | update (10) | (11 Sep 11, 11:10 PM by Degenerate) |
| No change here really. Continuing with the sleepless nights.. interspersed with nightmares.. mostly having to switch off my emotions in order to manage family life. [more...]
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| 13 Jul 11 | Light duties (6) | (20 Jul 11, 9:35 AM by Purvection) |
| Think I need to go on light duties.. this trying to go back to normal thing really isn't working and I just had to take an emergency week (which turned out to be more like two)out. [more...]
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| 4 Jun 11 | Why CAAN should support Manchester Slutwalk 10 Jun (7) | (11 Jun 11, 12:18 PM by Degenerate) |
| What do you think? I have had a chat with one of the organisers and we're very welcome to join Manchester's Slutwalk and be visible under CAAN's banner. [more...]
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| 12 May 11 | Moments of joy (5) | (13 May 11, 10:49 AM by Purvection) |
| Just a tiny note to those sweet people who keep checking in on me. [more...]
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| 23 Apr 11 | government survey on trans isues | (23 Apr 11, 10:05 PM by Degenerate) |
Liefsome wrote:
government survey on trans isues |
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| 9 Apr 11 | Carefully.. Here (3) | (9 Apr 11, 11:34 PM by Degenerate) |
| I have given myself a nudge and am now trying to start functioning again, so I'm encouraging people to go back to normal contact/activism wise. [more...]
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| 6 Apr 11 | Slowly on my way back (8) | (9 Apr 11, 12:17 PM by Degenerate) |
Went a whole day without dampening my clothes with eyewater yesterday. Progress. Trying to gently start to get back to existing within the universe instead of outside it. Things will never be 'back to normal' because my G is gone  [more...]
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| 30 Mar 11 | I dreamed (6) | (30 Mar 11, 7:45 PM by dominalush) |
| ..of my boy the other night. [more...]
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| 29 Mar 11 | [update] I have.. (3) | (29 Mar 11, 1:28 PM by MissKimberley) |
| Plugged the phones back in but am not firing on all cylinders. Thanks for your patience. A partner dying is a terrible thing. Don't. Do. It. |
| 24 Mar 11 | I need space | (24 Mar 11, 11:30 AM by Degenerate) |
| .. have been ignoring the phones - unplugged them all yesterday. Really don't want to talk to people right now. If anyone needs anything urgently please go though my wife Phoebe Queen |
| 14 Mar 11 | On Stormywaters, bereavement & blood family (4) | (14 Mar 11, 7:00 PM by The_TOGmeister) |
| I feel personally heartened by this kind and thoughtful message from Conrad (Stormywaters) son Oliver http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/299976/0 Such a welcome contrast to the situations which can face BDSM people at a time of bereavement. Please all friends of Stormy take a little look at the message and respond if you feel up to it. [more...]
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| 12 Mar 11 | stormywaters, personal update / CAAN support (8) | (14 Mar 11, 7:10 PM by RubyRouge) |
| In case anyone has not seen the news we (IC & scene people) have lost the lovely stormywaters to a sudden heart attack. See more info here http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/299829/0 . [more...]
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| 7 Mar 11 | Thank you (1) | (7 Mar 11, 2:42 PM by RubyRouge) |
| Dear friends, colleagues and peers.. thank you so much for all your kind messages, on my blog and in PM. Thank you for your acceptance and acknowledgement at a time of such great loss for our families. |
| 25 Feb 11 | Personal update: Sad news (48) | (4 Mar 11, 9:20 AM by Degenerate) |
| There's no way to soften this so I'm going to keep it simple. Gordon died this morning (he had 3 brain tumors). I don't know what else to say. Obviously we're very upset. My condolances to his friends here, as a good number of scene members know him, some of them very well for a long time. [more...]
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| 26 Oct 10 | Club Lash is Saturdays from MARCH! | (26 Oct 10, 10:01 AM by Degenerate) |
| Yay! Spread the word.. [more...]
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