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23 Feb 04On naming and shaming(23 Feb 04, 2:26 PM by BlueVelvet)
Should we ever name and shame? Well, that all depends on the circumstances really now doesn't it? If you have proof (and I mean proof NOT hearsay or gossip) that someone is a psychotic axe murderer and rapist, for example, then yes, name and shame and go to the authoristies! Stand by your convictions and do something about it!! [more...]
12 Feb 04**Velvet Eden IMPORTANT REMINDER**(12 Feb 04, 1:54 PM by BlueVelvet)
Just a reminder for those of you attending VE tomorrow night....Don't forget that we have a 'Valentine's Post Box' for all of those Valentines cards that you want to send to people that you know are attending tomorrow's VE. The procedure is simple. [more...]
11 Feb 04{edited}!!HAPPY BIRTHDAY Sirius!!!! & MsVamp!!!(11 Feb 04, 11:21 AM by BlueVelvet)
We hope your birthdays are full of love and laughter... That all of your wishes come true and that your path is alway illuminated and always true. [more...]
23 Jan 04I am what I am......and you know what you can do if you don't like it!!!!(23 Jan 04, 11:03 AM by BlueVelvet)
BBW? *Yuck* sends shivers down my spine and not good ones either.....I, quite simply, am what I am, or rather *who* I am....if I give a physical description it is that I am 'ALL woman' *wink*. [more...]
20 Jan 04The power of words(20 Jan 04, 1:55 PM by BlueVelvet)
Hmmmmmm the 'C' word......I used to hate it, and rarely used it, unless I was really, really, REALLY p*ssed!!! I still can't say that I am overly fond of it in general conversation BUT, I have found that in 'reclaiming' it, it holds an awful lot of power. So, in scene I may use it, either as a form of humiliation when talking to my little slut (well actually, he's rather a huge slut but that's a different story! =-o ), or indeed for talking about ermmmm other activities within the scene. [more...]
19 Jan 04relationships vs D/s 24/7(19 Jan 04, 1:27 PM by BlueVelvet)
Given the recent posts on housework/relationships I thought I'd share a page I wrote on our web site recently: [more...]
14 Jan 04Why I'm a 'Mistress'....re bunnyRys' weblog(14 Jan 04, 3:51 PM by BlueVelvet)
Well firstly, I would have to describe both my definition of Mistress and the dictionary definition as I believe that bunnyRys has given only one. There are several more that should be taken into account. According to www.yourdictionary.com some of the terms Mistress is defined as are : A woman in a position of authority, control, or ownership, as the head of a household. [more...]
30 Dec 03For IceButch(30 Dec 03, 3:34 PM by BlueVelvet)
Thank you for reminding me about a certain chance encounter in the ladies loos *smile*. [more...]
28 Dec 03Christmas spirit(28 Dec 03, 12:48 PM by BlueVelvet)
My last weblog was one that I didn't know whether I should post or not but I am so glad at I did.....My Christmas started right there...or at least my feeling of Christmas spirit (defined by me as the good in people!). I had so many wonderful responses, thank you to all who did, I don't think you know quite what they meant to me *big hugs* [more...]
15 Dec 03Fighting the system - fighting dyslexia(15 Dec 03, 11:59 AM by BlueVelvet)
Close friends know that one of the aspects of who I am is a parent. I have 2 children who, although sometimes make me feel like wearing ear mufflers, most of the time they are well balanced, friendly, loving teenagers! [more...]
13 Dec 03Velvet Eden Rocked!!! B.D.S.Mies and thank you's!!!!!(13 Dec 03, 12:54 PM by BlueVelvet)
Well.....last night was the Christmas VE....and I was a little worried as to how it would go, what with another 'club' on in Birmingham on the same night and people's work parties getting earlier and earlier in December. I also didn't know how well a 'fun filled' night that included a sexy Santa Domme, a couple of games and an awards ceremony would go down. I needn't have worried :) [more...]
8 Dec 03Your kink isn't my kink........and language used...(8 Dec 03, 3:25 PM by BlueVelvet)
I have been in a quandry....I didn't know whether to post in regards to 'that' web log or not. In the end, as you can see, I decided to go for it! [more...]
3 Dec 03'My' 24/7(3 Dec 03, 8:53 PM by BlueVelvet)
I agree with ShadowRose...except the phrase I use when trying to describe what it is to me and cerbie is 'It's 24/7, but it's not 24/7 on your knees'.... [more...]
25 Nov 03Eeks the World's gone mad *wink*(25 Nov 03, 2:27 PM by BlueVelvet)
You know, a thought stuck me when I was reading some of these blogs......24/7 slavery is something that women HAVE been living with for centuries! Well, in most cases with all but the flogging thrown in *smile* You know, the non stop house cleaning, the cooking, the bathing of the kidies, the running around after the 'man of the house'....doing anything for a peaceful life....and yet.... [more...]
20 Nov 03£1,000,000 question.....(20 Nov 03, 2:21 PM by BlueVelvet)
wantOn1a asked: "If You care about someone deeply , or even profess to love them, why would You want to hurt them ??? " [more...]
19 Nov 03Good things come.....(19 Nov 03, 11:29 AM by BlueVelvet)
We know the saying...that good things come to those who wait....*soft smile* well that must mean that cerbie and I have been waiting a lifetime for each other. [more...]
30 Oct 03Nick and fav' five(30 Oct 03, 9:51 PM by BlueVelvet)
Well....the nick comes from a song that I love....no...see...not from the film!! I had several (many years ago) before I settled on this one....and now, really, it should read BlueVelvet[c]. [more...]
23 Oct 03MsTiger's roar...(23 Oct 03, 2:57 PM by BlueVelvet)
*soft smile* I may just frame that excellent post for you, to remind you when the World gets heavy! [more...]
8 Oct 03Is your BDSM sexy?(8 Oct 03, 1:51 PM by BlueVelvet)
Well...is it? [more...]
3 Oct 03Puppetry of the Penis and FA!!(3 Oct 03, 12:14 PM by BlueVelvet)
Well, what a week it's turned out to be........We were going to see puppetry of the penis on Wednesday, but as some of you may know, 15+ nuns (well ok, 15+ men and women dressed as nuns) fell through the orchestra pit at the Alex theatre the night before..... Yes, I know....shouldn't giggle when people hurt themselves, but fortunately no really serious injuries....and can you imagine the scene in the casualty department??? [more...]

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