| 23 Feb 04 | On naming and shaming | (23 Feb 04, 2:26 PM by BlueVelvet) |
| Should we ever name and shame? Well, that all depends
on the circumstances really now doesn't it? If you
have proof (and I mean proof NOT hearsay or gossip)
that someone is a psychotic axe murderer and rapist,
for example, then yes, name and shame and go to the
authoristies! Stand by your convictions and do
something about it!! [more...]
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| 12 Feb 04 | **Velvet Eden IMPORTANT REMINDER** | (12 Feb 04, 1:54 PM by BlueVelvet) |
| Just a reminder for those of you attending VE tomorrow
night....Don't forget that we have a 'Valentine's Post
Box' for all of those Valentines cards that you want to
send to people that you know are attending tomorrow's
VE. The procedure is simple. [more...]
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| 11 Feb 04 | {edited}!!HAPPY BIRTHDAY Sirius!!!! & MsVamp!!! | (11 Feb 04, 11:21 AM by BlueVelvet) |
| We hope your birthdays are full of love and laughter...
That all of your wishes come true and that your path is
alway illuminated and always true. [more...]
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| 23 Jan 04 | I am what I am......and you know what you can do if you don't like it!!!! | (23 Jan 04, 11:03 AM by BlueVelvet) |
| BBW? *Yuck* sends shivers down my spine and not good
ones either.....I, quite simply, am what I am, or
rather *who* I am....if I give a physical description
it is that I am 'ALL woman' *wink*. [more...]
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| 20 Jan 04 | The power of words | (20 Jan 04, 1:55 PM by BlueVelvet) |
Hmmmmmm the 'C' word......I used to hate it, and rarely
used it, unless I was really, really, REALLY p*ssed!!!
I still can't say that I am overly fond of it in
general conversation BUT, I have found that
in 'reclaiming' it, it holds an awful lot of power.
So, in scene I may use it, either as a form of
humiliation when talking to my little slut (well
actually, he's rather a huge slut but that's a
different story! ), or indeed for talking about
ermmmm other activities within the scene. [more...]
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| 19 Jan 04 | relationships vs D/s 24/7 | (19 Jan 04, 1:27 PM by BlueVelvet) |
| Given the recent posts on housework/relationships I
thought I'd share a page I wrote on our web site
recently: [more...]
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| 14 Jan 04 | Why I'm a 'Mistress'....re bunnyRys' weblog | (14 Jan 04, 3:51 PM by BlueVelvet) |
| Well firstly, I would have to describe both my
definition of Mistress and the dictionary definition as
I believe that bunnyRys has given only one. There are
several more that should be taken into account.
According to www.yourdictionary.com some of the terms
Mistress is defined as are :
A woman in a position of authority, control, or
ownership, as the head of a household. [more...]
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| 30 Dec 03 | For IceButch | (30 Dec 03, 3:34 PM by BlueVelvet) |
| Thank you for reminding me about a certain chance
encounter in the ladies loos *smile*. [more...]
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| 28 Dec 03 | Christmas spirit | (28 Dec 03, 12:48 PM by BlueVelvet) |
| My last weblog was one that I didn't know whether I
should post or not but I am so glad at I did.....My
Christmas started right there...or at least my feeling
of Christmas spirit (defined by me as the good in
people!). I had so many wonderful responses, thank you
to all who did, I don't think you know quite what they
meant to me *big hugs* [more...]
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| 15 Dec 03 | Fighting the system - fighting dyslexia | (15 Dec 03, 11:59 AM by BlueVelvet) |
| Close friends know that one of the aspects of who I am
is a parent. I have 2 children who, although sometimes
make me feel like wearing ear mufflers, most of the
time they are well balanced, friendly, loving teenagers! [more...]
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| 13 Dec 03 | Velvet Eden Rocked!!! B.D.S.Mies and thank you's!!!!! | (13 Dec 03, 12:54 PM by BlueVelvet) |
Well.....last night was the Christmas VE....and I was a
little worried as to how it would go, what with
another 'club' on in Birmingham on the same night and
people's work parties getting earlier and earlier in
December. I also didn't know how well a 'fun filled'
night that included a sexy Santa Domme, a couple of
games and an awards ceremony would go down. I needn't
have worried [more...]
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| 8 Dec 03 | Your kink isn't my kink........and language used... | (8 Dec 03, 3:25 PM by BlueVelvet) |
| I have been in a quandry....I didn't know whether to
post in regards to 'that' web log or not. In the end,
as you can see, I decided to go for it! [more...]
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| 3 Dec 03 | 'My' 24/7 | (3 Dec 03, 8:53 PM by BlueVelvet) |
| I agree with ShadowRose...except the phrase I use when
trying to describe what it is to me and cerbie is 'It's
24/7, but it's not 24/7 on your knees'.... [more...]
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| 25 Nov 03 | Eeks the World's gone mad *wink* | (25 Nov 03, 2:27 PM by BlueVelvet) |
| You know, a thought stuck me when I was reading some of
these blogs......24/7 slavery is something that women
HAVE been living with for centuries! Well, in most
cases with all but the flogging thrown in *smile* You
know, the non stop house cleaning, the cooking, the
bathing of the kidies, the running around after
the 'man of the house'....doing anything for a peaceful
life....and yet.... [more...]
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| 20 Nov 03 | £1,000,000 question..... | (20 Nov 03, 2:21 PM by BlueVelvet) |
| wantOn1a asked: "If You care about someone deeply , or
even profess to love them, why would You want to hurt
them ??? " [more...]
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| 19 Nov 03 | Good things come..... | (19 Nov 03, 11:29 AM by BlueVelvet) |
| We know the saying...that good things come to those who
wait....*soft smile* well that must mean that cerbie
and I have been waiting a lifetime for each other. [more...]
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| 30 Oct 03 | Nick and fav' five | (30 Oct 03, 9:51 PM by BlueVelvet) |
| Well....the nick comes from a song that I
love....no...see...not from the film!! I had several
(many years ago) before I settled on this one....and
now, really, it should read BlueVelvet[c]. [more...]
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| 23 Oct 03 | MsTiger's roar... | (23 Oct 03, 2:57 PM by BlueVelvet) |
| *soft smile* I may just frame that excellent post for
you, to remind you when the World gets heavy! [more...]
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| 8 Oct 03 | Is your BDSM sexy? | (8 Oct 03, 1:51 PM by BlueVelvet) |
| Well...is it? [more...]
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| 3 Oct 03 | Puppetry of the Penis and FA!! | (3 Oct 03, 12:14 PM by BlueVelvet) |
| Well, what a week it's turned out to be........We were
going to see puppetry of the penis on Wednesday, but as
some of you may know, 15+ nuns (well ok, 15+ men and
women dressed as nuns) fell through the orchestra pit
at the Alex theatre the night before..... Yes, I
know....shouldn't giggle when people hurt themselves,
but fortunately no really serious injuries....and can
you imagine the scene in the casualty department??? [more...]
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