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| 5 Aug 07 | Long Distance Submission - What Happens When it Ends? (35) | (5 Aug 07, 8:55 PM by ghost666) |
| except it isn't just the submissive, it's the Dom too & though it's easy to pretend that the miles don't matter & that it could be far worse; we could be separated by even more miles, continents even, like so many others who enter into relationships that become much more important than the original intent. When we started, it was a bit of fun & release for both of us, it became almost 3 years of surrender of the most intense & private kind & it led to feelings that neither of us thought we would have to contend with. [more...] | ||
| 9 Jul 07 | A Gentle D/s | (9 Jul 07, 1:18 PM by Bbdspls) |
| Where we are now is in a place where the fear of the crop has been replaced with a wrestle over the best pillow; where the lump of nervous anticipation that knots itself in the sternum has been warmed & slowly melted by certainty & calmness; where wrists rarely ache with the imprints of chain & bruised flesh is no longer my constant friend; [more...] | ||
| 24 Jun 07 | Submission - Yes It Is A Gift - Opinion | (24 Jun 07, 7:27 PM by Bbdspls) |
| There's been some discourse here & there about the nature of submission & some difference of opinion about the issue of whether it is a “gift” or not. Some scorn has been poured on the notion that it might be seen as a “gift”, mainly I think, because words can mean different things to different people. [more...] | ||
| 20 Feb 07 | Being Real-istic - Opinion | (20 Feb 07, 6:56 PM by Bbdspls) |
| We can slip into an act, oh so easily. Call it an over-active imagination; or the time of the month; or the conversion of a long-needed fantasy into the hint of a reality. But we can slip, very easily into an act. [more...] | ||