UK BDSM Munches (97)

This section shows contact details for regular BDSM munches (informal, non-play meetings of BDSM people in restaurants, cafes or bars.) There are also pages for regular clubs events, other regular events and a calendar of specific dates for one-off and regular events.

We try to make this list as accurate as possible, but please confirm details of items with their organisers.

NEW CROSS MUNCH: www.informedconsent.co.uk/p/NewCrossMunch/ The London Theatre, 443 New Cross Road, New Cross, SE14 6TA
Munch held in a theatre (we have the whole venue). Nice bar area selling Meantime beer and we are 100 yards from New Cross BR. Zone 2 and 7 mins train from London Bridge (1 stop). Next munch date Thurs 27th Oct from 7pm. Just come down steps and ring bell to theatre entrance. Also there will be a sign for the munch on the entry gate, so you know you are in the right place. [Contributed by The_Hawth] [Last modified 28 Oct 11]
New for 2011 The Basingstoke Munch: North Waltham, Basingstoke, Hampshire RG25 2BB
We have now set a date and location for the new Basingstoke Munch. This will be a regular munch on the 4th Wednesday of every other month from 23rd February, 8.30pm start. Future dates will be: February 23rd April 27th June 22nd August 24th At that point we will reassess whether or not to stay bi-monthly or go to every month. Run by friendly locals, we hope you can join us for a drink and a chat. Meet and greet to first timers, munch phone number to follow. Basingstoke Munch Location: The Wheatsheaf, Chef and Brewer Pub (Linked to the Premier Inn) North Waltham, Basingstoke, Hampshire RG25 2BB Our Munch Ma [Contact but_plug2002@yahoo.co.uk] [Contributed by Boots247] [Last modified 11 Feb 11]
Norwich Munch: www.eabdsm.co.uk Norwich
GOLDEN STAR Pub, corner of Duke St and Colegate, Norwich. The Norwich Munch is held on the third Saturday of each month. More info and map on website at www.eabdsm.co.uk Wear whatever you want - from corsetry and six-inch heels to jeans and a T-shirt - but keep your knickers on please! Vanilla pub but with fetish-friendly staff. Come and have a good pint and a good laugh. We believe in Safe, Sane, Consensual and Fun .... [Contact moderators@eabdsm.co.uk] [Contributed by louisvin] [Last modified 12 Aug 11]
Nottingham Munch: Nottingham NG1 2EW
A friendly social gathering of kinky folk in Nottingham on the third Wednesday of the month, every month at The Pit and Pendulum Pub, 17 Victoria Street, Nottingham, Nottinghamshire, NG1 2EW We have a meet and greet team so if you are new and feeling nervous get in touch and someone can meet you and introduce you to the munch. Looking forward to meeting you [Contributed by kinkyclover] [Last modified 4 Feb 12]
Oxford Mid-Week Munch: Far From the Madding Crowd Pub OX1 2BY
The Oxford mid-week Munch, organised by Oxford's under-35 crowd, but open to all age groups, takes place every 4th Tuesday of each month. We meet at 7 pm. at the Far From the Madding Crowd pub in Oxford (Friar's entry, off Magdalen Street in the city centre). You will recognize us by some weirdness like a rainbow coloured troll puppet, a multi-coloured hippo with a collar, fancy balloons, or people wearing underwear on their heads. Usually we are to be found in a slightly raised area of the pub to the left of the entrance. If you are up to 35 years old, you may also want to consider coming to the Oxford U-35 Mu [Contact ropework@infocide.com] [Contributed by Ropework] [Last modified 7 Apr 11]
Oxford U35 Munch: https://fetlife.com/events/66492 The Gloucester Arms (Friars Entry) OX1 2BY
The Oxfordshire and Oxford group gets together at The Gloucester Arms on the 4th Tuesday of each month for a munch aimed at the under-35 crowd. We will have the munch mascot with us - a pink unicorn - so we should be pretty easy to find (and it's not a very big pub!). We are all very friendly and welcome people who haven't been before. If you're nervous about coming by yourself do drop one of the Oxford group leaders who are coming a line, as we're happy to meet people beforehand. We also now have a munch mobile - 07732074218 - which we'll have with us so you can also call or text us on the night. Hope to see [Contributed by lodestone] [Last modified 25 Sep 11]
Pagan Munch: Camden Eye NW1 9NX
The Pagan Munch is a friendly social event held for pagans and other spiritually inclined people who are interested in exploring their kinks and fetishes including BDSM. It is purely a social event and we welcome all who might have an interest, regardless of level of experience. [Contact oscarkolkowski85@yahoo.co.uk] [Contributed by Pagan_Munch] [Last modified 23 Sep 11]
Peterborough Munch: http://www.oakhamales.com/brewerytap/btcontacts.asp The Brewery Tap PE1 2AA
The Peterborough munch is held on the FOURTH Wednesday of the month at The Brewery Tap starting at about 8pm. It is centrally located with lots of parking, and only 5 minutes walk from the central train station. The Tap is an excellent venue with nice Thai food and a good selection of beers. There is a great atmosphere in our munch and we meet underneath a big picture which says "Why a pint is just is just the tonic". Please contact us on the munch phone 07722 151702 if you need Meet and Greet or feel free to contact us directly via our profile for details. Vanilla dress for the moment, please. [Contact corpus_delicti_ss@hotmail.co.uk] [Contributed by tothemanorbourne] [Last modified 22 Jan 12]
Plymouth Munch: The China House, Marrowbone Slip, Sutton Harbour,P PL1 0DW
The Plymouth munch held on the last Wednesday of the month now run by us Les and lynda (Master Purity and slave princess pixie.) The munch will be held at The China House, Marrowbone Slip, Sutton Harbour, Plymouth PL1 0DW. The munch meet and greet phone number is now 07712470076 or 07751308691 if you need directions these are the numbers to call We can be recognized by the cow/cows on the table. Hope to see you all soon. play safe play sane play consensually. Just to let everyone know we do not use the upstairs room as roumored we normally are found just inside front door on the left. [Contact dominoman662000@yahoo.com] [Contributed by Master_Purity] [Last modified 11 Sep 11]
Plymouth SATURDAY munch: Seco Lounge, 12 Mills Bakery, Royal William Yard, PL1 3RP
Hello everyone. We are now at the Seco Lounge, 12 Mills Bakery, Royal William Yard, Plymouth PL1 3RP From 2pm till 6 and have moved to the second SATURDAY of each month. This is a very attractive waterside venue. Reasonable food and drink prices. Free parking. 34 Derriford bus from stop A1 by St Andrews Church on Royal Parade at 1.30, 2 or 2.30 takes you to the yard gate in 8 minutes. Or ferry from the Barbican for �2.50 at 1.30 or 2.30 for September only! Munch phone 077919 30028 Come along. There should be a decent crowd of us there. [Contributed by DoctorDePrave] [Last modified 5 Sep 11]
Putney Munch: http://www.putneymunch.org.uk/ Putney, London SW SW15 1DD
The Putney Munch is always held on the first Thursday of the month from 7.30pm till late. It is held at the Bricklayers Arms, 32 Waterman Street, Putney, SW15 1DD. If the organisers aren't there by 7.30 then start without us Nearest tube: Putney Bridge (zone 2) or Putney station on the overground. Dress code is vanilla. Entrance is free. Everyone is welcome, especially newbies. Cash only at the bar. The munch area is at the back of the pub or in the garden if its warm enough. [Contact putneymunch@gmail.com] [Contributed by lush_london] [Last modified 13 Feb 11]
Reading Munch: http://www.readingmunch.org.uk/ Reading RG1 3BJ
The Reading Munch is a relaxed and informal gathering of like-minded souls with a common interest in all things BDSM. We are now regularly attracting 25-35 folk on the second Thursday evening of each month and are always very happy to meet and greet newcomers. More details (including location and email address) on the website... [Contact please see website] [Contributed by SirCadian_uk] [Last modified 31 May 11]
Romford Munch: http://www.romfordMunch.info Romford East London
Running as normal from 7 till midnight at The Factory Whilst no alcohol is served (though teas coffees and cold drinks are for sale) you are welcome to bring your own alcoholic beverages So roll up for the Hottest Munch in London As usual we have Meeters and Greeters for all including newbies who are very welcome. Wear what you like , fetish wear or "normal" clothing all welcome (No playing at the Munch - or nudity [Contact info@romfordmunch.info] [Contributed by RomfordFactoryMunch] [Last modified 14 May 11]
Sheffield Munch: The Rutland Arms
Takes place on first Sunday of every month at The Rutland Arms between two and six in the afternoon. We sit on on the left-hand side as you walk in the door, usually with Reserved signs on the table. Come along, introduce yourself beforehand if you want to. Message us with a request if you would like more information. [Contributed by thesheffieldmunch] [Last modified 31 May 11]
Shoreham Munch: Shoreham-by-Sea, West Sussex
This is a friendly and well attended munch which has been running for four years. It is open to all genders, sexualities and proclivities, and welcomes newbies and old hands alike. It is a great way to meet new people with an interest in BDSM and related topics in a friendly atmosphere. We meet on the first Monday of every month at the Waterside Inn, Ferry Road, Shoreham-by-Sea, West Sussex, BN43 5RA. [Contributed by Shoreham_Munch] [Last modified 20 Sep 11]
St Leonards Munch: The Marina Fountain, 26 Caves Rd, St Leonards TN38 0BY
Held at 8.00pm on the second Wednesday of the month in a friendly open-minded pub, with easy free parking across the road. Frequented by the local Dungeon Master and Mistress. We take the pub over, so you can't miss us . Relaxed dress code, so wear what you like (you won't shock anyone), but no nudity please. Happy to meet anyone outside and escort you in if you are nervous. For more details contact Shibari_Cognoscenti [Contributed by Muzzlehatch] [Last modified 16 Jun 11]
Staines Munch: Staines TW18 4EE
The "new" Staines Munch is held on the last Thursday of every month at The George, 2-8 High Street, Staines. 7pm onwards. This is a vanilla venue, so appropriate clothing please. Look out for the hedgehog munch mascot "Hedgey" on the table. Thursday night is curry night at the venue, so it can get quite busy but we always aim for the sofas inbetween the two sets of entrance doors. Any questions, please memo @MistressStar. Hope to see you there [Contributed by MistressStar] [Last modified 28 Aug 11]
Tamworth Munch: Tamworth B79 7AT
The Tamworth Munch is held on the 2nd Tuesday of the month aThe Tamworth Pie and a Pint Munch is held on the second Tuesday of the month at The Globe Inn, Lower Gungate, Tamworth, B79 7AT from about 7:30pm, until we get kicked out after last orders at 11pm. Scrummy food is available until 9pm, and there is also a selection of well kept real ales. There is a public car park next to the pub which is free after 6pm. Everyone is welcome from hardened munch veterans to virgin munchers. For anyone who hasn't met us before look out for an AtoZ on the table and we will be around there. A meet and greet service is avail [Contributed by clubslut] [Last modified 13 Apr 11]
Teesside Munch: Isaac Wilson, M'bro TS1%20 1SF
Why should oppressed people living under despotic dictators get all the fun?? Let's have our own public meeting to discuss who we should bomb next! Bring your own human shields, flak jackets, CNN reporters, BBC News 24 deadbeats, Al Jazeira subtitles and private jets to The Isaac Wilson, Wilson Street, Middlesbrough, TS1 1SF, and see how many other counter revolutionary forces we can muster! Marvel at how an AK-47 makes your approach to the bar seamless. Thrill at how you can address the group via a satellite link from your safe compound in the loos. Bring your own camera crew to prove your pint was shorter th [Contributed by The_Teesside_Munch] [Last modified 23 Mar 11]
Telford Fetish Munch: http://www.telfordmunch.webs.com/ Telford TF7 4jb
Telford Fetish Munch, a Munch with a twist - you CAN dress up to impress, but please don't offend i.e. NO Nudity. When - Monday 3rd August 2009 at 8pm & every 1st Monday of each month Held at - The 3 Furnaces (Telford's only attitude free bar) Bridgenorth Road, Tweedale, Telford, TF7 4JB See http://www.ukpubfinder.com/pub/18405 Private, off road parking & covered smoking area/garden http://www.telfordmunch.webs.com/ [Contributed by Angel_domtg] [Last modified 22 Jul 11]
The Cardiff Munch: http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/p/Cardiff_Munch/ Hollybush Inn, Pendwyallt Rd, Cardiff, Caerdydd CF14 7EG
The Cardiff Munch The new Cardiff BDSM Munch started in December 2006 after discussions between seven or eight IC members who were active in the local BDSM scene. We started in grand style, with over 20 people attending and it goes from strength to strength, with often over 50 of us happily chatting and mingling. The Munch is an excellent place to make like-minded friends and meet new friends in a safe setting. It is a gentle way to start to explore the scene. We organise trips, and many of us regularly go to other Munches, especially Bristol [Contact the_cardiff_munch@yahoo.co.uk] [Contributed by Cardiff_Munch] [Last modified 30 Jan 12]
The Doncaster Munch: The Railway Hotel, West Street, Doncaster DN1 3AA
The Doncaster Munch is up and running. This is your opportunity to chill out with other kinksters from Donny and the surrounding area, as well as others from further afield. We have a private room upstairs in a pub within 150 yards of the bus and railway station. When you come out of the railway station turn right and follow the exit road, the pub is straight ahead. If you come by bus leave the terminus at the rail station exit, past the station entrance on your right hand side and then follow the exit road straight ahead. If you come by car, there is some on street parking on the road in front and to the side o [Contributed by Ken_Sub] [Last modified 3 Sep 11]
The Manchester Munch: www.manchestermunch.com Tribecca Bar, Sackville Street M1 3WF
The Manchester Munch is held every month and is a great afternoon out to make new friends and to catch up with old ones! We have meet and greeters to look after you if you are new/nervous or even if you aren't! We have a lovely relaxed venue that does great food and we are close to central transport links and the city centre. Venue: Tribecca Bar, Sackville Street, Manchester. Time: 1pm onwards (12pm for newbies). Date: the second Saturday of each month. [Contact manchestermunch@gmail.com] [Contributed by ManchesterMunch] [Last modified 31 Jul 11]
The Nottingham Mini Munch: http://fetlife.com/groups/33553 Ye Olde Salutation Inn ng1 6aj
EVERY wednesday lunchtime 12 til 3pm Ye Olde Salutation Inn Maid Marion Way NG1 6AJ all are welcome, this group is aimed at those with evening childcare issues and those a little nervous of attending the main evening munch and those that can only pop in for an hour during lunch we are less and less 'mini' if you need ANY further help or info please contact me Pebble xx [Contact LittlePurplePebble@live.co.uk] [Contributed by PurplePebble] [Last modified 22 Jul 11]
The Westcliff Munch: fetlife.com/events/76949 Bar Lambs (Private entrance), 270-274 Station Road SS0%20 7SD
Feel free to dress up to the theme set, or wear whatever Y/you feel comfortable in, whether that be fetishwear or vanilla. All we ask is that Y/you cover up outside so W/we dont scare the public too much! The Westcliff Munch is usually held on fourth Thursday of the month (but for Decembers that has changed) and is to be held in the very private and personal venue - Bar Lambs - walking distance from the station! For P/people who are new to the fetish scene a �munch� is a place to meet up with like minded kinky people and others who have an interest in the BDSM/Fetish scene. [Contact the.westcliff.munch@gmail.com] [Contributed by The_Westcliff_Munch] [Last modified 25 Nov 11]
The Winchester munch: The Old Gaolhouse 11a Jewry Street Winchester SO23 8RZ
Winchester Munch This is a regular munch every second Wednesday of the month. This is to be an easy going, relaxed and friendly social gathering in a nice pub with reasonably priced food and drink, we will be at the back of the pub just follow the bar along to the back and you should spot us, there will be a book called Touring Southern Africa (this is an easy book to spot). We can offer a meet and greet to first timers and a munch phone number, the phone is only on during the day, please contact for the number if you need it. Much location, The Old Gaolhouse 11a Jewry Street Winchester SO23 8RZ This is a great p [Contributed by Boots247] [Last modified 3 May 11]
The Wirral Munch: New Brighton CH45 1LD%20
The Wirral Munch happens on the second Thursday of every month. Our current meet ups are held in the Tallula's Late Lounge in New Brighton between 8pm and 10.30pm. Everyone interested in fetish and BDSM is welcome and we require you to come in vanilla dress as the venue is also vanilla. [Contributed by ladybee] [Last modified 13 May 11]
Torbay - South Devon Munch.: http://fetlife.com/groups/11109 Torquay-Newton Abbot TQ12 5AN
A friendly sociable munch for all ages, genders and kink orientations. Dress code and behaviour is strictly vanilla, please. The munch is held from 7.30pm, on the second Wednesday of each month at �The Barn Owl� close to Kingskerswell. http://www.multimap.com/maps/?zoom=16&countryCod.... We will be sitting in the snug oposite the main bar area, with a Torbay A-Z map on our table. For further information drop us an e-mail. [Contact creative_user@live.co.uk] [Contributed by creative_user] [Last modified 15 Dec 11]
Warrington 'Splunch' - 3rd Sat in Apr/Oct: (*NEW VENUE*) The Friar Penketh, 4 Barbauld Street WA1 1EX
A splunch is a munch for those interested in wet & messy (WAM) or sploshing activities. We've been meeting most 3rd Sats in April/October over the last few years and would welcome anyone interested in a pint and a chat about the fun of sploshing, from about 3pm-7pm, going on to eat somewhere afterwards (probably Mojo's). We normally have an A-Z or OS Map (or similar) on the table for identification and you may want to carry one too. (Details are usually in the Splosh forum a few weeks before - search for 'Warrington' in http://www.splosh.co.uk/forum/viewforum.php?f=1 ) [Contributed by Claymore_wam] [Last modified 4 Sep 11]
Watford Munch: www.watfordmunch.co.uk Load of Hay Pub, 207 Pinner Road, Oxhey Village, W WD19 4ET
The Watford Munch is every third Tuesday of the month starting at 7.30pm and going on until they sling us out at closing time. We have full use of the Load of Hay Pub, 207 Pinner Road, Oxhey Village, Watford WD19 4ET. Dress is whatever you feel comfortable wearing, though fetish wear is actively encouraged jeans an shirts are just as welcome. We have a 'Meeter and Greeter' service; For more details please memo @janus_x or @ladylash [Contributed by janusxuk] [Last modified 13 Jan 12]

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