UK BDSM Munches (98)

This section shows contact details for regular BDSM munches (informal, non-play meetings of BDSM people in restaurants, cafes or bars.) There are also pages for regular clubs events, other regular events and a calendar of specific dates for one-off and regular events.

We try to make this list as accurate as possible, but please confirm details of items with their organisers.

Aberdeenshire Munch: Aberdeen Ab11 5by
The Aberdeenshire Munch takes place in Aberdeen on the second Saturday afternoon of the month and runs from 2.00pm through to 6.00pm or whenever the last person decides to leave. The next munch will take place on Saturday August 13th in Tiger Tiger on Ship Row in the city centre of Aberdeen. The munch dresscode is vanilla/streetwear. For those who don't know, Ship Row is just off Market Street just off Union Street which is the main shopping precinct in the city centre of Aberdeen and is very close to both the train station and bus station. There is also a pay and display car park a few minutes walk away on Colle [Contributed by nervous_claire] [Last modified 9 Aug 11]
Aberystwyth Monthly Munch: http://fetlife.com/groups/18362/group_posts/840081 Aberystwyth SY23 2DX
UPDATE - I do not spend enough time on IC to keep the details regularly updated, I'm afraid. The Aberystwyth Munch is still running, but for details please click this link: https://fetlife.com/groups/21474 [Contributed by Lirael] [Last modified 29 Aug 11]
Anarchist Munch: North London NW1 6PD
Kinky Anarchists Munch - nonestablished since 2010! When: Bi Monthly - Next one is taking place on Saturday 13th August 2011 Time: 3 PM - 6 PM Where: Roving! Next venue is The Pizza Express - 187 Kentish Town Road, Kentish Town NW1 8PD. Look for anarchist literature on the table. Contact: @TheMarquise - All welcome. Content of the get together decided by those who attend. No dress code, no formal protocol, no charge and no one in charge! - Friendly folk who are interested in left liberterian politics and kink. [Contributed by TheMarquise] [Last modified 26 Jul 11]
Aylesbury Munch: Aylesbury HP20 1RS
Where to find us: The Harrow, 4 Cambridge St, Aylesbury HP20 1RS. When: The 4th Wednesday of every month from 7:30pm til chucking out time. Please do keep in mind that this is a vanilla pub, so please dress appropriately. Discrete collars are welcome. Meet and greet always available if you're feeling a little nervous. For more information please contact Mistress Gravian the Aylesbury Munch profile, or Explorer67 [Contributed by AylesburyMunch] [Last modified 20 May 11]
Barnet Social Gathering: Ye Olde Mitre inne in High Barnet EN5 5SJ
The third Barnet Social gathering will be on Tuesday the 8th November 2011 at Ye Olde Mitre Inne, High Street, Barnet. 0.3 miles from High Barnet tube, free car parking opposite in Fitzjohn Ave. Meet from 7pm onwards but if you'd like to eat please arrive as early as possible to help us secure the reserved seating in the Stable Room. Go right through to the back of the pub, across the patio/smoking area and the Stable Room will be on your left. Please also bear in mind that the brewery, having sold off the land at the rear of the pub for developement now suffers complaints about excessive noise [Contact redhammer142@yahoo.co.uk] [Contributed by Redhammer] [Last modified 19 Oct 11]
Basingstoke Munch (bi-monthly): The Great Western Hotel RG21 5ND
NOW 4th Wednesday of EVERY month 8:30 PM to 11:30 PM. The Great Western Hotel, Vyne Road, Basingstoke. Vanilla dress, we don't want to scare the locals! Contact MistressWatchful or boots247. The pub is behind the train station. Our Munch Mascot is a wooden artists model, which will be displayed on our table. Very friendly lot, hope to see you soon. [Contact me@mistresswatchful.com] [Contributed by Mistress_Watchful] [Last modified 30 Dec 11]
Bath Munch: BA1 5LP
The Bath Munch runs monthly, and is open to adults age 18 and over with an interest in consensual BDSM. We are especially welcoming to newcomers. The munch is held at this pub in the centre of Bath every third Tuesday of the month, and starts at 7.30pm. The pub offers a good selection of food, and there is free parking after 8pm in the car park towards the top of Broad Street. [Contributed by BathMunch] [Last modified 9 Oct 11]
BBW/BHM UK MUNCH: Nottingham NG2 1AA
This is the first of our munches, and we're planning on running them every two months, the launch day being sat the 30th July, 1pm til 6pm at the Navigation Inn, 6 Wilford Street, Nottingham. This is a social event in a vanilla venue, though we do have an upstairs room to ourselves for a little privacy! The venue is approx 10 min walk from the main train station and about 5 mins from Broadmarsh bus station. It doesn't have it's own car park, but there are at least 2 multistory car parks nearby. Please contact me, Squishy_Miss_V for further info x [Contributed by Squishy_Miss_V] [Last modified 19 Jun 11]
BDSM Lincolnshire: http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/BDSM_Lincolnshire/ New Venue To be Advised - Contact Group via email
The BDSM Lincolnshire munch is held on the 2nd Saturday of the month from 2pm until 5pm. At present the new venue is to be finalised and interested individuals in attending with a view to joining the group should email the group itself for further information Invited newcomers/guests are welcome, and a meet and greet can be available in the hour before the munch begins for anyone new to the munch who wishes to have a chat before people arrive. The dress code is vanilla, For more information, email bdsmlincolnshire@yahoo.co.uk. [Contact bdsmlincolnshire@yahoo.co.uk] [Contributed by bdsm_lincolnshire] [Last modified 13 Oct 11]
Berkshire Domination & Submission Munch: http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/thebdsm/ The Spring Inn, Bath Road, Sulhamstead, Reading RG7 5HP
The Spring Inn has now closed and so we are winding up this munch. Thanks to those who have supported us during the time it has been running. [Contributed by bobandkelly] [Last modified 18 May 11]
Bradford Nibble: http://fetlife.com/groups/31393 Bradford BD7 1AQ
The Bradford Nibble is a small social gathering held within the Titus Salt Weatherspoons pub, behind the Alhambra Theatre in Bradford City Centre. Pls note this is a nilla pub. The event is usually held every 3rd Monday of the month, but if circumstances prevent this from happening, look out for updates @Shamanic_hunt_ion and @PlasticSwitch aim to get to the event for 7.30, but if you don't know us yet, keep an eye out for a Dummies guide on the table where we're sat. Usually nearest the bar (less walking distance for refills) [Contributed by PlasticSwitch] [Last modified 7 Jun 11]
Brentwood Munch!: http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/p/Brentwood_Munch/ Slug and Lettuce, Brentwood CM14 4AP
Currently taking a temporary break. Please keep an eye on the boards and our profile for updates [Contributed by Brentwood_Munch] [Last modified 3 Aug 11]
Brighton Munch: http://fetlife.com/groups/33281/about Brighton BN1 4SB
The Brighton Munch will be on the THIRD Sunday of every month from 6pm til late at the Caroline of Brunswick at 39 Ditchling Road, Brighton, BN1 4SB. Opposite the Level. Parking is available on the streets nearby. A social event with the occasional workshop/discussion. Take a look at calendar postings for more details of the next event. Event hosted by @MistressRuby, @Cherri, @Mistress_Alexis, @KinkyZoe and @Dystizen [Contact brightonunifiedmunch@hotmail.co.uk] [Contributed by BrightonMunch] [Last modified 16 Jan 12]
Brighton Under 35 Munch: 39 Ditchling Road Brighton BN1 4SB
Brighton Unified Munch. The Brighton U35 Munch has now joined with the Brighton Angelic Munch to become the Brighton Unified Munch, (see entry below). Same day of the month as before, and same place. ... [Contact brighton_u35_munch@live.com] [Contributed by Brighton_Unif_Munch] [Last modified 22 Apr 11]
Bristol Munch: BS1 4EF
The Bristol Munch is usually held on the first Saturday of the month and starts from 2.00pm. This munch is a friendly and welcoming munch for consenting adults of age 18 and over who have an interest in D/s & BDSM. We are especially welcoming to newcomers. If you would like to chat about the munch or arrange a 'meet & greet' on the day of the Munch, then please send a memo to our munch profile or to one of the Munch co hosts. [Contributed by Bristol_Munch] [Last modified 3 Apr 11]
Castle Tavern Munch: Oxford OX1 1LD
We are a very friendly munch who like to meet up with friends old and new on the last Saturday of each month, except December. We meet at the far end of the bar , to the left as you enter the pub. Look out for Lady_Fey in her circlet. People usually drift on in after 4pm and at 6.30pm, when the munch is 'officially' over you are invited to either to dine with some of the group or stay and have more drinkies and chat. If its your first time at the munch and you would like a meet and greet then we would be more than happy to help you through the door. Just send us an email and we will be happy to help. [Contact castletavernmunch@gmail.com] [Contributed by Muhahaaaar1] [Last modified 1 Nov 11]
Chelmsford Collective Munch: http://www.riversideinnessex.co.uk/ The Riverside Inn, Chelmsford CM2 6LJ
Second meeting: Tuesday 22 November, 8-11pm. Become someone who does things instead of complaining there is nothing to do. Become someone who meets new people instead of complaining they are lonely. Be brave, and be welcomed. Love Alex x [Contact thecollectivehive@hotmail.co.uk] [Contributed by alexatreidess] [Last modified 19 Oct 11]
Chelmsford Munch and Play: https://fetlife.com/events/70692 Chelmsford, Essex CM1 1SL
The next event is 6th dec *Christmas dress up!* Come and chat and mild play in a discreet, safe and different venue. Who wants to play tease the sub or be kept in the cage? A relaxed and chilled atmosphere with great kinksters. A good place for newbies to come and find out more. There will also be a demonstration of the joys and application of the Violet Wand along with a Q&A session. There will be soft drinks and nibbles available but feel free to bring your own alcohol �5 donation on the door to cover costs. Feel free to dress however you feel comfortable! For any questions or more information please c [Contributed by Sirandlou] [Last modified 4 Nov 11]
Chester Munch: Town Crier, City Road, Chester CH1 3AE
Chester Munch meets on the THIRD Thursday of every month at the Town Crier, City Road, Chester CH1 3AE, right outside the railway station. Dress code is strictly vanilla, people travelling on to THI please change there. The munch is from 8pm - 11pm in the upstairs room of the pub. For further information please contact @Chester_Munch or one of the co-organisers @just_six or @jules9...or you can email to chestermunch@btinternet.com [Contributed by Chester_Munch] [Last modified 10 Mar 11]
Colchester Collective Munch: 92 High Street, Colchester CO1 1TH
Next meeting: Friday 11 November, 8.00 - late. This month's talk is on pro Domming at 9.pm. Last munch event attended by 56 people, this is a very popular meeting for a good reason. Love Alex x [Contact thecollectivehive@hotmail.co.uk] [Contributed by alexatreidess] [Last modified 16 Oct 11]
Cornwall Munch: http://www.cornwallkink.com Truro TR1 2AA
Cornwall Munch : - Bar Vertigo, 15 St Marys Street, Truro TR1 2AA there is ample nearby parking Parking: there is ample nearby parking. I would suggest the car park off Old Bridge street, just down from the cathedral. Directions : Park in Cathedral car park (as previously) walk out facing the cathedral, turn immediately left for 200 yards then at the junction turn left for another 100 yards and Vertigo is on your left. Held on the first MONDAY of every month -From 7.30pm, look for street atlas on the table. As this is a bar, dress should be appropriate it should be smart/casual, i.e. nothing kinky! For detail [Contact cornwallchloe@hotmail.com] [Contributed by minack] [Last modified 7 Feb 11]
Coventry Munch: Coventry CV5 6JR
Coventry Munch meets in the Spencer Club in the Albany Road at 8pm on the third Tuesday of the month. If you cant find it, park near the Albany pub and it is just across the road. Currently we have a lovely mix of people of all interests and experience levels and turn out is usually between 25 and 35 people. There is a phone number which can be contacted at one the night - 07773 219735. The munch is currently being run by @dispossessed_1 and @clubslut so please feel free to contact either about the munch or memo this profile [Contributed by Coventry_Munch] [Last modified 29 Dec 11]
Croydon Munch: http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/p/CroydonMunch/ The Bedford Tavern, 16 Sydenham Road, Croydon CR0 2EF
We are a smallish local munch, that meets on the third Thursday of every month.. With friendly regulars and a warm welcoming environment, it's an ideal for curious newcomers and experienced munch-goers alike. The dress-code is vanilla and we meet from 7:30pm till 11pm.. The pub's prices are reasonable and all ages and persuasions are welcome to join us! For more details, check out our munch profile at the link above.. see you there! [Contributed by CroydonMunch] [Last modified 14 Jul 11]
Crystal Palace Munch :-): Crystal Palace SE19 1TX
Crystal Palace Munch A friendly, welcoming munch in SE London! The CP munch We meet up every first Tuesday of the month in the Westow House, 79 Westow Hill Crystal Palace London SE19 1TX Good food/drinks and of course excellent company Check @Crystal_Palace_Munch for details. Come along! [Contributed by Crystal_Palace_Munch] [Last modified 25 Jan 12]
Darkside Darlington Munch with rope, Wednesday 25t: Darlington DL2 1PD
**The Darkside Darlington Munch with be held on Wednesday 27th April 7.30pm till 11pm** The munch is held in a private venue where kinky folk can come to chat and chill in a safe environment. And don't worry if your new to the fetish scene and have never been to a munch before because we offer meet and greets to newbie's so there is no need to hide and be shy. Because of the rope play we will be located in the bar just beside reception so we can have it all to ourselves, if you aren't familiar with the venue and unsure of where to go the staff are all kink friendly so just ask them to point you in our direction. [Contributed by innocence21] [Last modified 19 May 11]
Dartford Munch: http://www.dartfordmunch.co.uk The Wat Tyler, 80 High Street, Dartford, Kent DA1 1DE
Munch in Dartford town centre. A place to relax, feel safe and enjoy the company of like minded people. Everyone is welcome from old hats to people that are new on the scene. Please visit our website for more information, and don't hesitate to email myself if you require more information. Hope to see you there. [Contact admin@dartfordmunch.co.uk] [Contributed by r0gue] [Last modified 27 Aug 11]
Derby Munch: Derby - Standing Order 28-32 Irongate DE1 3GL
The Perverted and Kinky folks of Derby and the surrounding Dales would like to warmly welcome the shy, the curious and the down right deviant - to the Derby Munch 4th Wednesday of the month............................... The regulars know the form, so if some of you want a meet and greet service , just drop us a text here 07944 732 138 8 til late cheap beer hot food - even coffee, clean toilets and good company ....... why miss out - get your diaries out book the date now.................. Were usually found on the right hand side of the Standing Order, as you go through the main doors. Look for the collared b [Contributed by ChargeUK] [Last modified 25 Feb 11]
Docklands Munch: www.docklandsmunch.co.uk The Ledger Building, West India Quay, London E14 4AL
Docklands munch is a friendly, chatty sort of munch in a calm atmosphere, just right for newbies and the nervous. We aim to create a friendly non-threatening environment, to just be able to get together and "chew the fat" with other (local?) like minded people in the Grey room of The Ledger Building, West India Quay, London E14 4AL, from 7:30pm until closing, every 2nd Monday of the month. All sorts of other information is on the main website: http://www.docklandsmunch.co.uk [Contact MistressNikki@docklandsmunch.co.uk] [Contributed by DocklandsMunch] [Last modified 26 Nov 11]
Ds��1ޞ: [Contributed by Madethisnameup] [Last modified 7 Nov 11]
Eastbourne Munch: http://fetlife.com/groups/28073 The Hart, Cavendish Place, Eastbourne BN21 3RR
Friendly, informal munch held the first Wednesday of every month at The Hart, Cavendish Place, Eastbourne, 8:30pm onwards. Always welcoming to new people and happy to meet and greet anyone. It's a public bar so dress as you would to any pub, though collars/cuffs are acceptable. We can generally be found if you look to the right as you enter the pub and you should see Ebo the Kinky Monkey on one of the tables (it's the monkey from the PG ads kinked up!). The Hart is a very nice pub with great bar snacks and reasonably priced drinks. Hosted by @MasterPandy and @slaveofPandy [Contact strangefrontier@hotmail.com] [Contributed by MasterPandy] [Last modified 5 Dec 11]

Next page