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| 16 Aug 06, 9:27 PM merrynb99 UK(SL), 5 yrs  |
NO! Too many sticky-out-bits on your little-man-thing!
I don't want to choose to do only that which is possible and reasonable. I want to choose the madness, the insanity. I want to see what I'm truly capable of. | ||||
| 16 Aug 06, 10:16 PM super_loulou UK(EC), 6 yrs |
I'm not sure why so many people consider oral as a submissive act, it doesn't make sense! My Dom ADORES cunnilingus, it gets him hard and rampant and just turns him on SO much. He loves women, he loves to make love to, fuck and use women - of course he wants to taste the very essence of them! He does it for HIS pleasure, mine is incidental. Daddy's little girl | ||||
| 16 Aug 06, 11:14 PM pandoraa UK, 10 yrs  |
I agree with you. I don't think oral is sub and my ex Mistress would happily go down on me and vice versa. My biggest beef is when someone has to call it pussy worship or cock worship as though it makes it ok to have oral and still consider yourself doing a BDSM act! pandy xxxxxx "Out of the ash I rise with my red hair And I eat men like air." Sylvia Plath - Lady Lazarus | ||||
| 16 Aug 06, 11:45 PM UseMyTongue 5 yrs |
Well ,I have read all these posts with interest, lots of different ideas.... It all sound good to me, giving oral sounds good, but I would like to experience the feeling of a female using my face as a seat. Sitting on my face heavy and hard for a while before she demands that I pleasure her orally. What more can I say! Since I have yet to experience being queened/facesat, I suppose I had better keep my mouth shut. | ||||
| 17 Aug 06, 12:02 AM wastrel UK(TS), 5 yrs |
It's always nice to see another facesitting fan. Believe me, it will be worth the weight(pun intended
Edited 17 Aug 06, 12:04 AM by wastrel | ||||
| 17 Aug 06, 12:04 AM yoursbutnotmine UK, 5 yrs |
I very much doubt that any of my dictionaries have relevant definitions of 'top' or 'bottom', hence the option to go for 'submissive'. Perhaps you could lend me your 'twue' dictionary and help me out on this. It's more fun taming fire than ashes. | ||||
| 19 Aug 06, 3:34 AM eroticspank1 UK(SW), 5 yrs |
Wow! very well said! Oral is certainly not a submissive act and it really depends on how you do it. For me I one of my first experiences out of college was with an older lady who was a Domme. She was not a pro and did not have a dungeon, it was just she really enjoyed being in control in the bedroom. She would have me stand in front of her naked and she would be on her hands and knees giving me oral sex. The scene looked like she was the sub but it was the exact opposite! She did it for her pleasure alone and my pleasure from it was incidental. That was one of her ways of preparing me for a long session of sex in which she fucked me not vice versa. She was very good at her control over me...we both enjoyed it alot. Facesitting depending upon how it is done, can be submissive or Dominant, or neither. For me it is all about control, if woman doing the face sitting is in control of your breathing, arrousal, how and when you service her then I see that as a Domme act on her part. The times I have topped myself I have had my sub sit on my face but I was in control and I really enjoyed it....getting her very hot but not letting her cum! ES | ||||
| 21 Aug 06, 10:01 PM Microchip UK, 7 yrs |
I think you're mistaking me for someone else. I don't think I've ever been known for behaving. It's why I'm constantly in trouble. *laughs* | ||||
| 21 Aug 06, 10:32 PM Original_Rebel UK(CT), 10 yrs |
More face sitting mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm bring it on  he's not the messiah, he's a very naughty boy....... | ||||
| 22 Aug 06, 1:07 AM wastrel UK(TS), 5 yrs |
So good I had to quote it twice
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