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| 28 Apr 06, 9:36 AM subtony2 UK, 6 yrs  |
I personally read the guardian with a nice cup of coffee..I seem to remember Kevin Costner being in the papers before over sexual slips...last time with a check-out girl at Stringfellows.He was reported as saying that he was tempted because she resembled his wife and he missed her! His hearts in the right place after all huh! Edited 28 Apr 06, 9:37 AM by subtony2 | |
| 28 Apr 06, 1:15 PM FlamingJune UK(S), 6 yrs  |
Don't think I could lie still if my life depended on it. I'm just too much of a wriggler at times, the better it is, the more expressive I get. This is not a learned response, it's something I naturally do. Unfortunate for the person that likes a 'lie still in perfect silence and take what's coming' kind of person, we would really not get along at all! Actions (or whimpers), no matter how subtle; speak louder than words. J | |
| 28 Apr 06, 1:30 PM lucky_1 7 yrs |
I do try to stay still, it's not easy sometimes and I've been known to scream into a pillow. Interested in Jane T's reply though. If I'm hooded I tend to forget I can speak too though I didn't actually realise that till I read her reply! Thanks. The more that pleasure turns into pain, the more inclined I am to stand and take it. Texas 2005 Edited 28 Apr 06, 1:31 PM by lucky_1 | |
| 28 Apr 06, 2:45 PM redcat 9 yrs |
one of the things that this girl likes about D/s is that one doesn't have to think about 'how' to behave..one is told how to behave....and should that information be absent then one just reacts within the moment. reactions that are unwelcome will be trained out and reactions that please will be encouraged to be constantly trying to behave the 'right' way or behaving in a way that one perceives will get the desired result from ones Dom is in itself a form of control. Mostly Manniq tells this girl to be quiet (possibly because she is naturally noisy..or mostly because the kids would complain about the strange noises)..but once she is away with the fairies and totally out of her own control he probably enjoys listening to the whimpers and moans and yelps and general gibbering mess that she becomes!(usually on kidless weekends!!) Being taken away from all forms of 'polite' response to stimuli and into the primal zone is incredibly liberating... this girl used to have a friend who encouraged her to grunt her orgasms...something to do with energy flow...dunno...but it was damned effective...we once spent a very erotic phonecall simply grunting at each other...it sounds bizarre... but saw a documentary on gorillas sometime later and the noises between mates were exactly the same. And as for porn.... is porn the chicken or the egg?...do they reflect life or do we reflect them? Certainly having been recorded cumming and having had to listen to it ...it was certainly the sort of noise that if this girl heard it on a porn film she would accuse them of gross over acting! but then this girl likes noises...slurpy noises... squelchy noises...even the farty noise your pussy makes when its been gaping... (try getting rid of THAT one voluntarily)...
basically sex results in lots of wierd and wonderful noises and D/s gives us the space to not have to get embarrassed about any of them... oh apart from when having them pointed out specifically is incredibly humiliating.. thats nice too! love peace squelchees redcat
The rule is, jam tomorrow and jam yesterday - but never jam today. Edited 28 Apr 06, 2:47 PM by redcat | |
| 28 Apr 06, 3:01 PM Lalita UK(BS), 6 yrs |
A fascinating reply Redcat, and one that I confess has got me a little hot under the collar! | |
| 28 Apr 06, 3:06 PM LightningJack UK(SW), 7 yrs |
I never know how to react when taking strap-on generally I am noisy grunting and quite vocal but if others are to be believed most guys take it silently. I could, but it would dimuinish the enjoyment. LightningJack Be true to yourself if you wish others to be true to you. | |
| 28 Apr 06, 3:59 PM Bubbles_2 UK(E), 6 yrs |
Yelping and a lot of wriggling... i'm pink, therefore i am.. | |
| 28 Apr 06, 7:20 PM happychicklet 11 yrs |
I take it like a big girl's blouse. Doesn't matter what - everythng hurts me. _ | |
| 28 Apr 06, 7:41 PM tiffoz 6 yrs |
you just cant stay silent if you are in ecsasty and I can never keep still ,just ask anyone who knows me | |
| 28 Apr 06, 7:48 PM Ariane 8 yrs |
I've always wondered if it was 'safe' for me to get a professional massage. They tend to make me feel very sensual, and I can imagine myself responding a bit too much. I like being touched.  Ariane Nulla Anxietas |
