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What Ladies look 4 in m. subs: Opinions invited. (46)

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Fri 10 Mar 06, 7:55 PM
AngelicaGH
6 yrs
£

What are the qualities Dommes really look for in male subs, for them to say 'yes, he's worth taking on'? Is it total subservience? a bit of sauciness/cheek? Do looks come into it? i humbly invite Ladies to post their opinions and views, out of interest.

10 Mar 06, 8:19 PM
LadyKathryn
UK, 6 yrs

littleslavie wrote:
What are the qualities Dommes really look for in male subs, for them to say 'yes, he's worth taking on'? Is it total subservience? a bit of sauciness/cheek? Do looks come into it? i humbly invite Ladies to post their opinions and views, out of interest.

If I were looking I would have to say that there has to be a spark, a chemistry that has nothing to do with looks, body, attitude or cheek. If there isn't at least a spark then the rest is for nowt.

I was attracted to my hubby before I met him but until we actually met face to face and there was that spark it was just words. If there hadn't been a spark I wouldn't be here today.

Just my humble two pence worth.

Heaven doesn't want me and Hell is afraid I will take over

10 Mar 06, 8:24 PM
NinjaBitch
7 yrs

With all the usual desireables in place, I'd say that one thing that puts me over the top is chivalry.

True England
**If electricity comes from electrons, does morality come from morons?**
Sarchasm: The gulf between the author of sarcastic wit and the person who doesn't get it.
"The cost of living hasn't affected it's popularity." S.Wright

10 Mar 06, 8:26 PM
titchfield
UK(CF), 7 yrs

I always regretted not learning to ride a horse

10 Mar 06, 8:31 PM
Ariane
8 yrs

LadyKathryn wrote:

If I were looking I would have to say that there has to be a spark, a chemistry that has nothing to do with looks, body, attitude or cheek. If there isn't at least a spark then the rest is for nowt.

Dommes will all have different opinions on what they look for, but this may be the one consensus point.

Can't be bottled and sold unfortunately.

Ariane

Relax, nothing's under control.

10 Mar 06, 8:32 PM
tiffoz
6 yrs

titchfield wrote:
I always regretted not learning to ride a horse

wow kind of random isnt it?

agree with lady katyrn need a special something for any type of relationship that wont selfdestruct in a short period of time

10 Mar 06, 8:33 PM
titchfield
UK(CF), 7 yrs

Ariane wrote:

Can't be bottled and sold unfortunately.

Ariane

Look, I don't wish to be rude or anything but you are completely ruining my thriving snakeoil business!

10 Mar 06, 8:34 PM
Ariane
8 yrs

titchfield wrote:

Look, I don't wish to be rude or anything but you are completely ruining my thriving snakeoil business!

Sell it as pheremone oil. I think I got some spam of the sort.

Shall I rub some on you and see if it works?

Relax, nothing's under control.

10 Mar 06, 8:36 PM
MissyG
UK(MK), 8 yrs

like any Domme, I never look, but they have to be tall, fit, goodlooking, & a personality helps

My Website -:|:- London Munch -:|:- London Alternative Market -:|:- Hades

10 Mar 06, 8:38 PM
MissyG
UK(MK), 8 yrs

MissP wrote:
Nothing, I've never looked for a sub.

In a man, I'll go for a tall, well built alpha male, who is confident, outgoing, fun to be with, sexy and sexual...... Lots of things. He'll need to be able to handle me, unafraid of his own emotions and generally speaking, fairly "unsubbie". The main thing would be that we get on well in everyday life.

Then, in time, if he wants to trust me and let go, brilliant!

or see above

My Website -:|:- London Munch -:|:- London Alternative Market -:|:- Hades

10 Mar 06, 9:10 PM
anchovy
6 yrs

i wonder if the male sub is aware of what You gracious ladies are looking for, or whether most of us have a fantasy of what we expect a Domme to be like and what They expect us sub males to be like.

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