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| Fri 10 Mar 06, 12:22 PM AngelicaGH 6 yrs £  |
How many members have lived a fantasy out, and have found it to be better than expected? Have many members been ABLE to live their fantasy out? Or is the main concensus of opinion that the difficulty of trying to live a fantasy out, isnt worth pursuing? interested to hear peoples views, and experiences if they wish to share them..... |
| 10 Mar 06, 12:57 PM doulos UK(SW), 7 yrs  |
I have lived out some of my fantasies. In some cases, things that I wasn't even sure were my fantasies before they happened. It was worth it. Before trying out treating people as objects, learn how to treat people as people Edited 10 Mar 06, 1:01 PM by doulos |
| 10 Mar 06, 12:57 PM Romola UK, 7 yrs |
To an extent, you're living out a fantasy every time you play, aren't you? I have lots that I would want to try and a few that I love as fantasies but have absolutely no wish to play out. |
| 10 Mar 06, 12:58 PM demolitionred 7 yrs |
some should. some shouldn't. You think some are the former but aren't and vice versa.... _______________________ |
| 10 Mar 06, 1:01 PM x_Raven_x UK(CR), 6 yrs |
Have lived out quite a few of my fantasies and they were good purely because they were the more simple ones. The more elaborate ones would I feel be a disappointment because I hate to plan things and am more turned on by spontinaity which of course won't happen because of the planning involved. Even if I explained them to my partner, or at least attempted to, then I still don't think that they could be arranged without my knowledge and be exactly a I imagine them. So they'll stay fantasies unless I happen on the exact same situation in reality in which case I'll just throw myself in to it, problem with that is that I'd want to start directing everyone to make sure their next move was the right one 
Pervs of the leather flog together |
| 10 Mar 06, 3:21 PM Jay_kes UK(S), 10 yrs |
Yes, I've lived quite a few of my fantasies and enjoyed them all.
I've also helped others live out fantasies of their own and in each case we each enjoyed the experience. Kidnap and rape are very poular fantasies, (they need to be well planned etc.), they have been the most intense and the most likely for me to repeat. Jay |
| 10 Mar 06, 6:36 PM titchfield UK(CF), 7 yrs |
I've got a pretty good imagination so it's unlikely that any fantasy once enacted would be quite as good in reality. Part of the point though isn't it? Fantasising about things and having everything perfect? |
| 11 Mar 06, 7:57 AM reptile UK(LN), 11 yrs |
i wasnt sure weather to wait until my next life before i tried to fulfill my fantasies.. but ive kinda been a bad boy so am prob gonna come back as a beetle or something (according to certain buddists) and then the cuffs wont fit - theres also a small chance i belive that i wont get resurrected or reincarnated - so maybe i should get on with fulfilling them now just in case |
| 11 Mar 06, 10:15 AM Mistress_Susannah UK(SE), 7 yrs £ |
There's no should or shouldn't about it. If you want to explore them and you find someone willing to do so with you then do it. I have plenty of fantasies that I wish to leave in fantasy land but that's entirely my choice. |
| 11 Mar 06, 1:21 PM Arwen UK(ST), 8 yrs |
Four years ago I found bdsm and ventured out to my first club with friends, not knowing what to expect I had a very enjoyable night. During that night I spotted a gorgeous guy at the club, I asked who he was and was told hands off he is taken. So that was that. After the club for many months leading into nearly two years although I did find other Doms I fantasised about this one regularly, as we both had mutual friends I did speak to him often but that was all it was. Then having just broke up with a Dom I got talked into going to a friends party, there he was, having also just split with his partner. The rest is history and having been together nearly 3 years now the reality is much much better than the fantasy. Arwen x |
