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| Sat 25 Feb 06, 12:37 AM HiveMaster UK, 8 yrs |
The accepted feeling is that the Dom/me should be clothed whilst playing whilst the submissive should be naked, but I love to play while I am naked and she is clothed (and bound admittedly). I am most comfortable naked, I feel free. Whats your thought??? Hive The Guaranteed Eternal Sanctuary Man www.dsculture.com | |
| 25 Feb 06, 1:05 AM ll_2ndSkin_ll UK, 7 yrs |
The mind wears no clothing.
The large print giveth and the small print taketh away - Tom Waits. | |
| 25 Feb 06, 1:07 AM HiveMaster UK, 8 yrs |
What a great quote. Thats exactly how I feel Thank you The Guaranteed Eternal Sanctuary Man www.dsculture.com | |
| 25 Feb 06, 1:16 AM Romola UK, 7 yrs   |
I'm in 2 minds about this. I do feel more vulnerable when he's dressed and I'm naked and I love the roughness of his clothing against me when I'm bare. But I love him naked and being able to steal a kiss or a touch of his skin. I certainly don't feel less respectful or submissive when he's like that. Lustful, yes, but it's so nice to ask permission to touch what's in front of you. | |
| 25 Feb 06, 1:23 AM ll_2ndSkin_ll UK, 7 yrs |
Don't get me wrong, certain clothing does seem to make a difference. I think when someone dons certain Domly attire (or any outfit for that matter) a certain frame of mind is achieved, a particular role is played. What you wear does seem to make you feel a certain way. I'm sure different people feel different ways about particular outfits. On the whole though, I don't think someone who isn't naturally Dominant and creative could be made so by wearing what is deemed a standard outfit/uniform. Some people could Dominate if they were simply a brain in a jar. It's what is inside the clothing/jar that counts, is what I was trying to say. The large print giveth and the small print taketh away - Tom Waits. | |
| 25 Feb 06, 6:04 PM DancesWithPussycats UK(TW), 7 yrs |
Its hard to keep my clothes on for long when she is naked, well striped bare bottom stuck up in the air, and wet pussy invitingly open between her spread thighs. | |
| 25 Feb 06, 6:12 PM Ariane 8 yrs |
What I wear depends on how 'personal' I intend to get with the sub. And my mood, and the weather. And most recently by the need to travel light with multi-purpose clothing. Ariane Relax, nothing's under control. | |
| 25 Feb 06, 7:01 PM super_loulou UK(EC), 6 yrs |
Wow really? News to me - then again I'm probably not a twue subbie.... 'The women all have 'Super' in front of their names for a reason – they're all larger than life in more ways than one and they're all much stronger, and much more voracious than any of the male characters in the film (typical of Meyer). These women walk all over the men in the movie and truly are Supervixens' | |
| 25 Feb 06, 7:57 PM bootssub UK(G), 7 yrs |
From my personal experience. The accepted feeling is that domme can *decide* how much clothes she should wear and what she wants to wear whilst playing and she decides whether a submissive is naked or what she decides the submissive should wear. This all part of assigning authority completely to the dommes whilst playing.
have fun! | |
| 25 Feb 06, 8:38 PM Ariane 8 yrs |
Good boy. <pats bootsub on the head> Relax, nothing's under control. | |
| 25 Feb 06, 8:52 PM demolitionred 7 yrs |
Hide my body in order to be dominant? No way. Loving my body is as much part of what I am as is anything... Yes. High high heels, tight corset, latex all provoke a certain way of behaving or being but that is a role not dominance. That said, wearing latex does turn me on. Wearing high heels excites, as does a great hat. _______________________ |
