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| tigerlili |
There are only two Doms on IC that I have been out with and also trust wholeheartedly. (DO and G - you know who you are!)
What is the point of telling someone what you think they want to hear, when it's not what you want! Don't you think it will become obvious over time that you have lied to get where you are??
For future reference (all other Doms please take note!) my idea of a "relationship" involves two people who get on, and both want to take it further. It would mean spending time together, talking, getting to know one another and hopefully strengthening the bond over time. If it doesn't work out - fair enough - some things don't work.
What "relationship" DOESN'T mean to me.......is letting me have a few minutes of your time every few weeks so you can fuck me and then put me away again.
I'm still too trusting, too optimistic, too bloody gullible. Perhaps it's time for me to stop trusting altogether! AAAAARGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
| 12 Feb 06, 10:49 PM fifesnicest1 UK(KY), 8 yrs  |
Have we been meeting the same Doms. fifes | |
| 12 Feb 06, 10:54 PM Buzz22 UK, 8 yrs |
Ok, what is really going on here is that your not meeting Doms but guys who want to get a shag. They may be able to use a flogger, or if your lucky a wand or whip but that does not make them a Dom, just a hng who has learnt how to use a few toys. If I want your opinion I will beat it out of you | |
| 12 Feb 06, 10:57 PM ladyjayne 8 yrs |
*hugs hun* I have some nice steel toe capped size 9's if ya need to borrow them | |
| 12 Feb 06, 11:40 PM fifesnicest1 UK(KY), 8 yrs |
Yes you are right about that, and with hindsight we know that too. Unfortunately these guys have a knack of pretending to be something else. fifes | |
| 13 Feb 06, 1:41 AM mini_velvet UK(EH), 6 yrs |
Me too! But we shouldnt have to change just cos there are some stupid people out there. Being trusting isnt a bad thing. Its just a shame some people abuse it. | |
| 13 Feb 06, 2:18 AM DomXmale UK(WN), 8 yrs |
Well said velvet31. But don't change tigerlili It's their loss if they can't appreciate your honesty and trust. Tony
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| 13 Feb 06, 10:22 AM Godwin UK, 8 yrs |
Hugs and cuddles tigerlili.
Can I have some of your vanilla vodka now
Stay as you are hun, your very much appreciated as you are
Edited 13 Feb 06, 10:23 AM by Godwin | |
| 13 Feb 06, 11:57 AM candygirl UK, 8 yrs |
Been there, done that, got the t shirt, well, a collection of them. Its just not on IC that there are the idiots who think that being a Dom is getting their own way in the bedroom as long as they wing a flogger at you. They are everywhere, from alt to bondage.com. As submissives we seem to be at a disadvantage, vulnerable to these people, who use their "position" to get what they want. There are some really nice ones out there, trust me. Sometimes it feels that you are looking for ever and that you will never find the "one" but you will. This whole scene is about trust, and honesty but unfortunately that is not something that many realise and abuse it. Its so difficult to see the good from the bad, until its too late and we are drawn in, only to be thrown away again.
You will find who you are looking for, trust me, i have candygirl xx | |
| 13 Feb 06, 4:10 PM strangeone 6 yrs |
from what i have gathered in the short time i have been around this scene its the submissive who has the real power , and if so then dont have sex with em! , blokes will do this if they know they can , next time you meet a guy just play with him , nothing full on sexual and leave it like that till you feel you can trust them. Too many dom's have their wires crossed when it comes to telling the difference between sensual and sexual and sometimes they just need to be told , dom or not. Im sire you will find the right guy for you tho hun | |
| 13 Feb 06, 5:18 PM MrHoppy UK(G), 7 yrs |
Sorry to read your of your woes. It is the way of people sometimes to be selfish and ignorant. Not all people and not all the time. Keep the faith. I am usually wrong. Ironically this is the one thing I am usually right about. |
True about there are always folks who take the p*ss.