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| 11 Feb 06, 6:57 PM stevielouts UK(HD), 9 yrs   |
Well think my top fantasy is pretty well known (if not read my profile!) and as far as I know sadly isnt yet technologically possible. As my 2nd fav one involves being turned into a mermaid thats not too practical either at present! Well I've gone a long way with electro stim to creating a robotisation type scenario, but sadly always under my control, even gone as far as mild neuro stim using pads below ears and on temples/forehead and thoroughly enjoyed quite safely. But yes I'd love that sort of play where I wasnt totally in control of the electric levels, though obviously within non lethal levels. Anyone up for the challenge? happy volunteer for mind control and robotisation experiments | |
| 12 Feb 06, 2:40 PM Litany UK(E), 11 yrs |
I will stick. My fantasies, maybe mundane, but one day I will replace them, I dont think you stop fantasising about them if you do them, maybe it will make yuo want them more (hence fantasising about them further). Sometimes the reality doesnt live up to the famtasy, but thats fine, at least you can say you did it.
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| 12 Feb 06, 2:58 PM caprycorn 8 yrs |
I know for me that there are some fantasies that I might not wish to explore, in that they are mine and push my particular buttons, and I am quite possessive over them. However with himself around being a controlling sort of bugger, he does like to know what's going on and goes "fishing" quite often when pouring filth down our ears to see and note reactions. So they don't often stay private, my fantasies. However for me, the crux of exploring fantasies (and part of the squirm factor) is the reaction of the person you want to explore them with. J doesn't "do" embarrassed or flustered. When Lucky and I asked him the question about acting out fantasies, the first reaction was an incredibly dirty chuckle from the corner of the room. There are probably some I'll never do, mainly as J doesn't do sharps. Apart from that, all bets are off as he is a)nothing if not devious and b) nothing if not controlling. It would and does give him a huge buzz to be able to make a fantasy flesh, as it were, and make the reality even more intense than the fantasy. Exploring with someone who is grounded and yet so open minded is bliss as there really are so few limits. Sort of puts more spice on some of my darkest fantasies, knowing that they could indeed become a darker reality.
My imaginary friend thinks that you have a problem | |
| 12 Feb 06, 6:07 PM Inveigle UK, 11 yrs |
My fantasy is to be able to completely understand women.
Somehow I think this is to always remain a fantasy... "To do is to be." - Socrates. | |
| 13 Feb 06, 10:19 PM Romola UK, 7 yrs |
I have some that I know I definitely don't want to do, but are hot to think about, others that would be nice to 'act out', with no risk of forgetting that I am acting out, and others I would like to try for real. The distinctions between them aren't blurred at all for me, I know exactly where each one fits. | |
| 13 Feb 06, 10:40 PM Mona_Demarkov HR, 7 yrs |
I was about to only state that my darkest fantasies are probably too wrong in so many ways to ever be done in reality, but was side-tracked by the fact that so many people have already said a very similar thing before me. Part of me wonders if these fantasies have something in common, far more than we know. If they are actually a step further in the direction we all went when we first realized there are "other people into submission and domination", when our fantasies that were embarrassing us so much till that point turned out to be quite "normal and widespread". But I don't want to find out. I have the feeling that, if we, by some miracle, all shared these strange ideas we keep as our secrets, we shall reach the final plateau of "sexual deviancy", a point where nothing shocks us, secretly scares us, excites us madly and guiltily. At that point, would the pleasure evaporate from all the other bits of our sexuality as well, knowing that we have not only reached our limit, but gone beyond and now have nothing to be in awe about? So yes, I do have some guilty, worrying, extreme, bizarre, surely-wrong-in-so-many-ways fantasies that I shall a) never do b) never tell anyone about Such is life. Of a madwoman. We Are Time. | |
| 13 Feb 06, 11:04 PM pinkwind UK(CV), 8 yrs |
i feel i have a sliding scale of fantasy, the ones at the far end are inviolate, pure, deep, in darkness, always hidden. Others on the scale are fed by tendrils of those core fantasies, ones for making real in some way or for fleeting fantasy gratification. Those core fantasies have been in mind for eons, have evolved, developed with time and experience, and so their offspring are refreshed changed over time too, making for an ever vital relationship fueled by fantasy made real.
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