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| 23 Nov 05, 6:04 PM Englishslave1985 6 yrs |
I've done this loads of times, especially to my parents. hehe They seem to think I'm a very introvert, sensible, polite, innocent and prudish guy, their ideal well brought up son. Little do they know hehe. When I was at university, I once ordered a humbler ball vice online, but it got sent to my billing address back home, so I had to ask my parents to send it up to me at my university address. Of course, being nosey parents, they enquired about what exactly was in the package, and why it had to be sent first class. I told them it was a ball vice and that I was having my 1st play session with my Mistress on Friday so needed it ASAP! lmfao They didn't believe me so I told them it was a joke, and said it was a new hard drive for my computer lol. I'm just glad they didn't open it up to find out, I don't really think my parents would want to know.... they would rather they maintain their current thoughts of me as an innocent sweet guy lol. All my friends are aware of my dark side though, my Mistress forced it all out of me by making me change my personal messages on MSN to various things that revealed my kinks to others. One of which read 'I'm richard the spunk head and will never disobey Miss again' I was ordered to tell everyone who asked about the rather bizarre personal message exactly what it was about (I wanked without her permission, so She imposed a couple of weeks orgasm denial, followed by a release on cam, where all the cum squirted up onto my face and hair lol). Luckily my Mistress gave an exception for my mum, who did of course enquire about it, but asked if I had been disobeying lecturers at university! lmfao she's so bloody naive its unbelievable! Edited 23 Nov 05, 6:27 PM by Englishslave1985 | ||
| 23 Nov 05, 6:11 PM stardust UK(B), 7 yrs |
Liar! (unless you're a politician of course) | ||
| 23 Nov 05, 6:26 PM happychicklet 11 yrs |
No but when Club Lash got into the papers over some or other "scandal" a mate of mine showed it to me and said, "So that's where you were on saturday!" Oddly enough I skipped that month. _ | ||
| 23 Nov 05, 7:05 PM Puddin_Von_Puss UK(WA), 6 yrs |
I'm real lucky on this one. Out of a team of 12 that i work in, there are 3 of us into BDSM. I like those odds! One is a gay sub, the other is not really sub or Dom, but likes the stuff that comes with it. He and his wife are into pony girls and general kink. We talk openly about what we do and the rest of the team are really cool about it. The ask lots of questions and try their best to understand. They are the most vanilla bunch of people you could imagine, but it just goes to show that tolerance is hard at work around us. ...And I'm praying for mayhem. And I'm praying for subtle ways. I wanna see the ground give way. I wanna watch it all go down... | ||
| 23 Nov 05, 8:22 PM Anita_Esrader UK(BD), 7 yrs |
Do I know that one.. Just the other night, I was on the phone to my father, I said "Met cxxxxx, When you have finished, I am going across her knee for a spanking", and handed her the phone.. LOL. His wife asked me the other month "Do you still dress up then". My brother phoned to say he was coming down to see me, on the day I was havig a party "No you f@*king arent said I, come down tomorrow". Once again, on phone to father, I explained that he had to come down on the Sunday because I had to put all my kinky gear away. Although my family know, they have never seen me in kink mode, and I wish to keep it that way, in spite of the fact that my brother keeps insisting on going to a club with me.
Spank me at your leisure, my pain is your pleasure. | ||
| 23 Nov 05, 8:49 PM Lex_Caine UK(LE), 7 yrs |
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| 23 Nov 05, 11:27 PM rascalDan UK(DN), 6 yrs |
I'm quite open at work. I don't just go round telling people my kinks, not everyone at least. But every now and then, someone will bring up the subject, often prompted by last nights TV or some current affairs thing. I'm not one for backing away from a conversation I can really get my teeth into. What really surprised me though was this: In our smallish office there is an openly gay member of staff, which no one has an issue with at all, it's great really.... and he's.... well, he's liberal with the details shall we say. I got a bigger reaction from him when he found out about me than I have from anyone else. Just proved to me that it's not always the people you expect to react to something that actually do. As it happens, he thinks it's great, some other people who just didn't react at all are less supportive of the practice. What kind of reactions have people got at work? Do people do as one of my other gay friends does and keep his private and professional life strictly seperate? Dan | ||
| 23 Nov 05, 11:32 PM Queenie69 UK(LE), 7 yrs |
Ahh they all pretty much know about me and my antics... Only the other day actually something made me smile.... Trying to delegate some tasks at work I asked a collegue what she was doing (hoping to get the response along the lines of 'nothing' so I could get her to do some stuff for me) at which she replied.... "Anything you want me to do" Marvellous!!! Shame not all people are so well trained lol Miss Q
"If you let the accolades define you, you let the insults diminish you." - Tarrie B | ||
| 23 Nov 05, 11:39 PM ailsa_hampshire UK(SO), 11 yrs |
I think it's silliness to let people at work know. Work is work and someone or everyone knowing ... well I mean if you are into the 'norm' talking about it? Makes u look like a twat. I confided in one work colleauge and i'm lucky I made a good call in doing so and it was a natural progression on a team night out. Each situation is different but to me there is no need to be spilling your sex life into your work life. ailsa x | ||
| 23 Nov 05, 11:44 PM MistressMatrix 6 yrs £ |
PLEASURE = PAIN = PLEASURE |