Posted by Stonys_hazy
on Tue 8 Nov 05, 10:47 AM to Stonys_hazy's blog.
People who know me will know that for me to make a blog that is even slightly serious I must be either very angry or very upset.
Neither happens often.
Last night, and even after sleeping on it, and this morning that's exactly how i feel.
Here's a little story to sum up what's happened in the last half year (or so).
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Once upon a time there was a wannabe sub who thought every Dom in the land wanted to own her.
She was a new sub & all the other subs went out of their way to help show her the path to fulfillment but she wasn't to be helped at all as she knew it all.
She even accused subs of stealing her Master (even though not collared to anyone).
She wasn't happy when she saw other subs sitting contentedly at thier Masters' feet, that was her place.
She went to her hovel where she mixed up a magic & poisonous potion & sent it to all the other peeps she knew, in the lifestyle, hoping it would kill them & leave her as queen sub of all the land not realizing she would be but with no Dom as she had poisoned them all too.
(thanx to an uninvolved good friend for this short tale as it says it better than i could)
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The GEM's can be hard to bear when you are searching and see others have found what, you think, you are looking for.
But to try and come between a Dom/me and his/her sub is forgivable, maybe, once if you don't realise, but when you know, in my book, it becomes if not unforgivable, def unfogettable.
To send emails/memos/texts that rake up something from the past and upset people for a second time just isn't on. Nor is a phone call to a married Dom that was so loud even his wife could hear. (its a good thing she knows of his involvement in the lifestyle because even putting the phone down would have needed explanations)
Then to compound it by blaming someone who had only tried to be friendly and give advice is something i am at a loss for words or understanding.
I don't like my friends to be upset so will concentrate on them and ignore the nastiness (is that a word?) thats flying about.
hugs to all my friends and chins up, none of this is your fault xx
xx hazy xx
| 8 Nov 05, 10:54 AM dizziblonde UK, 9 yrs |
Well said sista xxx my words my opinion if you don't like it don't read it | |
| 8 Nov 05, 10:55 AM miss_chief UK(M), 7 yrs  |
this story is brilliant and so sums it all up. Well said hun xxx Dont annoy the CRAZY person. | |
| 8 Nov 05, 10:56 AM larra_uk 7 yrs |
I know the couple who have been bothered by this woman also. She has two chances of coming between them nil and zero. What she fails to realise is, not only are they perfectly happy, they also have damned good friends who wont be swayed by her stories. Well said hazy. larra xx
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| 8 Nov 05, 10:58 AM miss_chief UK(M), 7 yrs |
Thanks larra.....and your right as usual xxx
Dont annoy the CRAZY person. | |
| 8 Nov 05, 11:45 AM DevilMia36 UK, 7 yrs |
Well said hun xxx [/quote]
Here, here DevilMia x x x Edited 8 Nov 05, 11:53 AM by DevilMia36 | |
| 8 Nov 05, 5:56 PM Buzz22 UK, 8 yrs |
lol you just got to laugh A fool is not somebody who makes a mistake, a fool is somebody who makes the same mistake over and over again. I can understand somebody new making silly mistakes what I can't understand is when genuine advice and help is offered that its shoved back in there face. I have had my fill of helping new single people. This has happend to me 3 times now. I have wanted to give something back. I have been helped by some great people and I have always listend and tried to take it on board. You have 2 ears and 1 mouth, nature has proven whats more important. Listen, learn and think. Don't get me wrong I am far from being an expert in the lifestyle. I have been in the lifestyle for nearly 4 years and I feel as if I have only scratched the surface I am sure. I have much to learn myself. For gods sake newbies, listen to others. If you don't like what somebody is saying to you, then ask others. In fact ask loads of people on any subject, don't take advice from one single person, but if 20 peeps are saying the same thing it must be for a reason. No more Mr. Helpfull from me, it just aint worth it. Great blog hazey Love Buzz xxx If I want your opinion I will beat it out of you |
I second that too. xxxx