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| Wed 27 Jul 05, 2:33 PM angel_creatureCK UK(M), 10 yrs   |
Feeling really fed up this week....no problems i can think of to make me feel this way....even Keeper said i quiet and thats not me  Had a brill night at Nemisis on sat...flying high on Keepers single tail, knives and ice!!! no sudden drop so why do i feel down????? and if it is sub drop, "HELP"? i need my bubbles back!! A doctaratein science and a theologian's dream. the dragonflies are trying to lecture me, seahorses if we were in the sea. this is all i want it's all i need, this is all i am, it's everything. (REM) | ||
| 27 Jul 05, 7:26 PM janiya 9 yrs |
the 'droppie' feeling usually hits me 2-4 days after play, more so with physical play than emotional/ mental. Sometimes i feel that it takes a little whilst for my body to come down to 'a regular level' and then it dips spectacularly. For me i need lots of hugs and reassurance that everything is ok and can be a bit clingy to the other extreme of wanting to be left alone and give my mind time to catch up with events in an attempt to make some sense. Try and eat well and regularly (the chocolate hit just makes me feel 10x worse 30 minutes later same could be said for alcohol and other recreational substances) and a bit of exercise for example a walk can help from my experience. Whatever you do don't think of it as being 'weird' but try to embrace the feeling as part of the journey and be kind to yourself. Get a nice indulgent bath to help with those bubbles! Take care janex | ||
| 27 Jul 05, 7:28 PM x_zero_x UK(DD), 10 yrs |
i get that sometimes too, not sub drop, but just feeling pretty depressed for a day. i think it's a bi-product of being cheery all the time. member of the I.C weather watching club | ||
| 27 Jul 05, 8:48 PM Scylla UK, 6 yrs |
I know what you mean about being cheery all the time. Keeping up the appearence. Sometimes I just get low for a day generally but its usually gone by the next
there's nothing worse than trying to fist jam a greasy crack | ||
| 27 Jul 05, 9:02 PM LadyRed UK, 9 yrs |
Have a few bars of chocolate babe... it works for me I know that. "Standing up and being counted is the 1st step in the right direction" Quote by Red for more years than she can remember | ||
| 27 Jul 05, 9:06 PM Mel_SnM UK(BA), 7 yrs |
our sub has some good thoughts on her web log about sub drops.. http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/weblogs/norther... When was the last time you did something for the first time? | ||
| 27 Jul 05, 10:28 PM music_lover UK, 6 yrs |
and there was me thinking that this would be a thread about suspension gone wrong God invented Guiness so I wouldn't rule the world | ||
| 27 Jul 05, 10:38 PM woodsprite 8 yrs |
I agree wholeheartedly with jane's pampering bubble bath... nothing like it! Essential oils and candles, all the posh smellies... some soothing (or not!!) music... get 'em all out and go bonkers! If you're into essential oils, I really recommend Clary Sage, it has the most wonderful scent that seems different each time you smell it. It's supposed to be a mild euphoric, and I love it. I also promised to try an experiment with the effects of exercise on sub drop but haven't been very responsible and scientific-like about it yet. I'll get round to it, I promise!
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| 27 Jul 05, 11:05 PM angel_creatureCK UK(M), 10 yrs |
A doctaratein science and a theologian's dream. the dragonflies are trying to lecture me, seahorses if we were in the sea. this is all i want it's all i need, this is all i am, it's everything. (REM) | ||
| 28 Jul 05, 1:41 AM stardust UK(B), 7 yrs |
you can't be bothered can u?? i can't blame you - half the idea is sound (i.e. the sub bit) but excercise? c'mon.. | ||
| 28 Jul 05, 7:05 AM demolitionred 7 yrs |
I sometimes get dom drop. It helps to talk to the person you played with and knowing it will be over soon also boosts yor resilience. In the meantime, pamper yourself.
"One more drink and I'll be under the host" Edited 28 Jul 05, 7:06 AM by demolitionred |
