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on Mon 24 Nov 03, 11:59 PM to CruelLadyScorpio's blog.
I swore I wouldn't get involved with this, but it's getting out of hand. Having brought up an ADHD child to be a well-balanced individual with good self-esteem through the primary strategy of ignoring bad behaviour (unless dangerous) and rewarding good, I lay before you the following case analysis:
Post 1 - Hello to just the Dommes - I is lovely, and you should like me
Post 2 - (shouts) I know lots of stuff - the Dommes should like me!
Post 3 - (pick on someone and use them to highlight the fact that) I know lots more stuff than anyone here, and DOMMES SHOULD LIKE ME!
Post 4 - (shouts) I'm far more informed than anyone else, and I have great ideas!
Post 5 - (shouts) Loads of other people thought I was great! You should too! Why are the Dommes ignoring me!!!
Post 6 - (shouts, using attention-grabbing words) I'm very liberal about what Domme I want ... oh, and btw, I'm caring about other subs (flutters eyelashes)
Post 7 - (pets lip, does puppy eyes) I have great ideas and fantasies ... (stamps) You're going to listen to me!
Post 8 - (shouts inappropriate attention-grabbing offer) I'm very caring - Dommes should like me! Give me what I want now! (stamps foot)
Post 9 - (shouts) Why do you like him?! Why aren't you paying attention to me?!!! I'M THE BEST!!!
Post 10 - (screams, stamps, goes red in the face) You're all horrid and rubbish and I hate you all!!!
IC (chidingly): Now, now, you're being very naughty and rather silly. Come and sit down and we'll explain why you're being naughty - you can have this sweetie if you promise to be good!
Post 11 - (smirks, eats sweetie) Well, ok ... (petulantly) But most of you ARE rubbish, and I don't need you anyway ... and HE (points) said the rude words and you weren't cross!
Now, (as a child psychologist would say in a non- threatening manner) given that a child will respond to any attention, whether negative or positive, where do you think your actions reinforced the undesirable behaviour?
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btw, my practice sessions at doing triple irony are coming along well ... errr ... or was that double irony? ::gets tangled up in her own semantics and falls over:: Drat - I hate it when that happens ...
Edited Sun 18 Jan 04, 6:33 PM by CruelLadyScorpio
