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on Sat 29 Jun 02, 11:13 PM to CruelLadyScorpio's blog.
MaleDoms, on the whole, are intelligent, cheeky, bolshie and cheerfully randy, among other appealing things. You'll occasionally encounter one who implies he has subbie leanings, which he will further imply you can unleash. Don't believe him - just like you, he's not a Switch - he just fancies not thinking for a change. Similarly, if you're suffering subbie-control burnout and think allowing a dangerously unpredictable dominant male into your domain will make a relaxing change, you're probably too far gone to consider a) saying 'No' or b) the fact that the laws of biology will mean he's probably taller, stronger and perhaps heavier than you . Here's how to handle the situation:
Insist that he agrees to your being in charge, and continue to assert this fiction throughout
Don't be put off by the chatter - when you string him up for a flogging, he will continue the anecdote about the girl with the huge nips without pause, when a sub would go quiet with anticipation
Identify something he's far better at than you quickly, and acknowledge it often, or you'll have to listen to an epic enumeration of his virtues, which rival yours
Don't flatter yourself that you've pushed him into submission because he's making delicious little gasps and moans - he'll intersperse them with criticism of your technique and implications that you're stringing things out because you're rubbish at blow jobs
Never say 'Yes' - use 'Perhaps' 'You may be right' etc, even if you agree wholeheartedly; it underlines your non-compliant character, and it's fun watching him rant and rave at your apparent questioning of his assertions
Ignore all his obscene speculations as to what he'd do to you if he wasn't tied to the bed - he's testing you. Turn the TENS unit up to 'High' and think Zen
Under no circumstance allow him to do anything to you that he suggests - remember it for another time and spring it upon him
When he isn't restrained, don't take your eye off him for a second - he can move much faster than you think
Even if he asks, don't experiment with pushing his limits unless you own heavy shackles; he'll forget the safeword and the meaning of 'bondage' in his displeasure and lamp you instead
Do not at any point present him with a clear view of your arse without achieving minimum safe distance first - you might as well have 'Please spank me' written on it in red lipstick, and you'll only have yourself to blame
If he grabs your wrists, go limp; if you struggle, he'll hold on tighter, like a crocodile. Smile blandly. He'll get bored, let go and sulk because it didn't turn you on
Don't attempt orgasm denial - keep him pacified with a minimum of one per hour, or he'll take the initiative and impose one of his methods of getting one, which may not be to your taste
Wear big knickers, topped by tights, topped by another pair of big knickers - he'll still get into them, but it's a face-saving gesture of resistance if you're as ripsnortingly randy as he is
When making close eye contact, don't blink - he'll perceive it as a sign of weakness and pounce
Be prepared to be groped, tickled, slapped, squeezed, snogged, tweaked and insulted. As a fellow dominant, etiquette demands that you return the favour
And lastly, bear in mind that he has one overwhelming advantage over his submissive brothers: he won't ruin your best boots by covering them in saliva
Edited Sat 29 Jun 02, 11:18 PM by CruelLadyScorpio
