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| Sat 25 Jun 05, 10:39 AM Delta_D 7 yrs |
At this point a hyperthetical question (and I hope seen as genuine)..but valid nevertheless.
I have only ever considered subs as partners in play, but inadvertantly have recently been reading topics/profiles etc.on slaves. The connotations and implications clearly need to be considered carefully,but I find my mind constantly wandering back to the possibility. So, if this interest were to manifest itself into doing something about it, can I please have some constructive,meaningful advice from those of you who already have slaves as to how you first: decide how to go about it,second: how, if any, is the approach different(other than the obvious dynamics)in contacting slaves? Any informative help or suggestions (from both Dom/mes and slaves) appreciated. Do not meddle in the affairs of Dragons..'cos you are crunchy and taste good with ketchup! Edited Sat 25 Jun 05, 10:40 AM by Delta_D | |
| 25 Jun 05, 1:06 PM MsSarah UK(PO), 9 yrs   |
best advice is dont jump in to fast when taking subs on, for Me I personally dont like My subs to be walkovers I like them with a sence of humour and a bit of cheek, but you need to make that choice of what You want and stick to it.
but dont rush things just enjoy the community and relax have fun dont be tooo serious.
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| 25 Jun 05, 1:34 PM Mistress_Scarlet 7 yrs £ |
Slaves are good news. They tend to find me, as I offer domestic service possibilities with my advert. I am currently considering applicants for gardner and three house slave positions, to clean, iron, tend my boot collection, cook, do dishes, tidy, vaccuum, fetch my dry cleaning, occassional chauffeur duties, carrying bags when I shop, etc. These are people who want to be treated as staff, and are taken seriously accordingly. They don't want to flit round with a feather duster breaking things, and they are treated with respect and courtesy, as well as the firm hand that you would show to staff. If a slave wishes to serve me in this manner they may occassionally buy groceries or pay for my dry cleaning or boot heeling bills, but I don't charge tribute as such. I would recommend interviewing slaves first, making sure that you and they both understand the terms of the contract, so that they get what they want out of it, and you don't have someone in your home that you are uncomfortable with. I also recommend seeing a passport and other supporting documentation - you need to know who you are letting into your house. Mistress Scarlet | |
| 25 Jun 05, 2:04 PM Delta_D 7 yrs |
Thank you...this is the sort of information I was looking for. The latter part makes perfect sense as I live in a rural area. And just so there is no confusion...I an not new to the scene in terms of subs...just find the slave prospect intriguing and a future possibility.
Do not meddle in the affairs of Dragons..'cos you are crunchy and taste good with ketchup! | |
| 10 Sep 05, 11:08 PM born4slavery UK, 7 yrs |
Hello Ma'am,
As a slave myself i could give You some pointers of what to look for,
In my case slavery is a need not a want. it isnt even much of a sexual thing. Dont get me wrong i do get turned on by certain thing's but i just love to serve. my favourite quote is
" i live to serve, i serve to live"
i have a mind of my own and can hold a conversation if needed but my mai focus is on pleasing my Mistress(when i find my One)
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| 14 Sep 05, 1:00 AM BigOldHector UK(DE), 10 yrs |
As someone who actively prefers to give my submission in a genuinely servile context as opposed to "play", one of the biggest problems I've encountered over the years is actually persuading potential mistresses to believe I'm on the level, because they have encountered so many "slaves" who aren't. There seem to be a great many wannabes and fantasists about who cannot differentiate between "play" based on the illusion of servitude and the genuine article. It must be very easy for a mistress to overlook many a sincere slave, and thoroughly disillusion herself in the process, having her time wasted by such dishonest or self-deluding dingbats. Maybe one of the most useful bits of advice another mistress could offer is what will make an effective "bullshit filter". (I AM THE GOD OF HELL-FIRE!.....but its my lunch break right now) | |
| 14 Sep 05, 7:06 PM Divatje UK(W), 12 yrs |
That's very true, the fantasy of an act and the reality of doing it evoke two completely different types of emotions ...
Diva
D/s Educator | |
| 16 Nov 05, 10:17 AM emmy333 UK, 6 yrs £ |
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| 16 Nov 05, 11:31 AM MrsTripleMandMmslet NL, 6 yrs |
Hi All, I have always been thinking that it would be very easy for a Mistress to find a slave. Now after 4 months of seeking (real desperate in the first month, sorry for that) found who I wanted recently. The main basis for O/our relationship is being open and honest, trust eachother and chemistry. In my opinion a BDSM relationship is impossible without those things. My Mistress is very experienced and pretty well known in the BDSM community, but it took Her about 2 years to find the right one. To be honest i am really proud i am Hers. Cheers, Erik | |
| 16 Nov 05, 3:32 PM uktrucker UK(CO), 9 yrs |
If I can just drop my pennyworth in Hope you find the one you want. uktrucker{LL} | |
| 16 Nov 05, 3:38 PM Ariane 8 yrs |
I'll give you a personal reference anytime. Was just talking to my upstairs neighbour the other day about the slave still scraping paint off the window sills at 2am. Ariane Relax, nothing's under control. |
As you say you live in a rural area. Ok see some form of ID, But also have a safe call and give the details to someone you trust. Not wanting to sound sad
