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| Mon 6 Feb 12, 3:01 PM insubstantial UK, 4 yrs  |
What does it mean?Is it real or play in a D/s relationship? | ||
| 6 Feb 12, 4:18 PM rehtael_ni_dal  UK(G), 9 yrs |
Its play or probably cybering definatly not real life despite the people who spend so much time on it may think or wish it to be so. When your getting whipped by your cybermaster your not actually being hurt nor are you feeling anything expecvt perhaps the masterbation with your other hand underneast the computer table. I do not agree with what you have to say, but I'll defend to the death your right to say it. | ||
| 6 Feb 12, 6:05 PM insubstantial UK, 4 yrs |
Are you saying that Alternative lifestyle 24/7 doesn't exist or that it's not real only play? | ||
| 6 Feb 12, 7:19 PM mia UK(M), 4 yrs        |
Could you explain your question a bit more? Are you asking if people can live their role full time? If you are, then yes, but it might not mean what fantasists mean it to mean. If you're asking something else, then I don't understand, sorry. x Now where were we? Ah, yes - abject humiliation! | ||
| 6 Feb 12, 7:36 PM Elohims_jay UK(B), 7 yrs |
Himself and I live together and have a 24/7 D/s relationship I do not spend the entire time naked, in chains and on my knees seeing to his every whim and desire. However .... the power exchange/dynamic is always there and, it is the little and constant everyday things such food shopping that relates to his preferences, etc that, for me at least, make it very real indeed. "You and you alone make me feel that I am alive. Other men it is said have seen angels, but I have seen thee and thou art enough." ~ George Moore Edited 6 Feb 12, 7:45 PM by Elohims_jay | ||
| 6 Feb 12, 7:51 PM pleasureswitch UK(E), 6 yrs |
It can be entirely self defining, thus only existing to those concerned, needin no external recognition/justification. "Yeah I like Kinky stuff,dirty dark pervy stuff,weird sex....
An' Yerself ?" | ||
| 6 Feb 12, 10:41 PM insubstantial UK, 4 yrs |
Yes i was asking if people live it as a full time role and not just in play.Thanx | ||
| 6 Feb 12, 10:46 PM IndelibleMarker UK(E), 6 yrs  |
I think he thought you meant that it was an Alt.com 24/7 relationship! Hands up if you remember Alt.com!? Anyway, erm, typically an "alternative 24/7 relationship" would mean that it's an alternative relationship... 24 hours a day, 7 days a week... I'm guessing. Patrick | ||
| 6 Feb 12, 10:50 PM insubstantial UK, 4 yrs |
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| 6 Feb 12, 10:55 PM insubstantial UK, 4 yrs |
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| 6 Feb 12, 10:56 PM syndeetoo UK(WC), 6 yrs |
Some people who live in a shack in the wood with their guns, their slaves and their dogs will maintain that if you ain't whippin your subs and having a bj 24/7 then you aint real. Others of us, perhaps those who both work and live in a real world, will manage to have a quiet undercurrent of power exchange with far less pizzazz. They think we aint real, we know they aint real, so it all evens out. Pour encourager les autres |
