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black_rose30 wrote: I think the word is 'sub' I think we all do that!!

Not sure it's all subs. I think I've come cross some male subs who are genuinely meek and don't fight back. Maybe female subs too; less sure about this.

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Edited 5 Feb 12, 6:01 PM by wonderer

Absolutely with the female subs too. I'd say there are many more in the "meek" category - but based only on my personal experience.

I don't fight back. Not sure I'm meek - I just really like being tied up .

(Actually, recently I had a yen to resist; I don't know where it came from, and it wasn't every time, but sometimes I just felt like it was something I wanted to do. Discussed it with the chap outside of "scene" so he wasn't discombobulated if it were to happen - all was agreed, we were both happy to see how it went if I had that feeling again and went with it. And then my time with that chap came to an end before we played again, so now I'll never know...)

wonderer wrote: black_rose30 wrote: I think the word is 'sub' I think we all do that!! Not sure it's all subs. I think I've come cross some male subs who are genuinely meek and don't fight back. Maybe female subs too; less sure about this.

I have said I believe subs to be "Giving", "Fighting", or "Naughty" - just the different dynamics I have observed. Some really like being "punished", some like being "overpowered", but the giving sub will not necessarily enjoy either of those approaches - they simply wish to be controlled. I have played with giving female subs, so they definitely exist! Sounds like the OP is talking about what I would call a fighting sub...

of course there is always a bit of each in everyone....

and it's different with different people as well.

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black_rose30 wrote: Maybe it's just me then

Ummm... sorry... can't remember