6 Feb 12, 12:20 AM
HiGuysItsMe
UK(S), 16 mths
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Captain_Sensible wrote:
Perplexion wrote:
wonderer wrote:
Perplexion wrote:
Think I'm being hoisted by my own petard as I hate labels. You could be right, Ishmael, and perhaps it's a regional understanding of the term 'Dominatrix' or perhaps I stand fully corrected. I/i??
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I've always had the impression that "Dominatrix" is a word used in porn but not much in real life ..
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Sheesh. I was just suggesting the poster looking for a dominatrix changed his terminology in order to find someone not asking for monies.
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IC BDSM dictionary says:
The term dominatrix is little used within the BDSM scene, and is usually used to refer to professional dominants ("pro-dommes"). A more common name for a non-professional dominant woman is Domme or perhaps Mistress, depending on the type of dominant they are. Dominatrix is one of the favourite words used by writers outside the Scene - for example, by tabloid newspapers to refer to pro-dommes involved in scandals with famous customers. There is no equivalent term to describe a professional male dominant.
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According to wikipedia 'Dominatrix is the feminine form of the Latin dominator, a ruler or lord, and was originally used in a non-sexual sense. Its use in English dates back to at least 1561. Its earliest recorded use in the prevalent modern sense, as a female dominant in S&M, dates to 1967'. So maybe a male dom should now be called a Dominator............
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Peace and happiness is the way.'
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6 Feb 12, 1:01 AM
ThunderPix
UK, 3 yrs
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http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=d... |
6 Feb 12, 1:20 AM
Adverse_Camber
UK, 3 yrs
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Gosh you people are being terribly unhelpful!
This is the right place to find the perfect sub...nary a Dominatrix in sight tho.
Good luck with your search OP, this long thread will have attracted attention anyway, so you may get a response.
Take care
A_C "How the fuck are you going to do that with your eyeballs bouncing off the fucking cement?!"
Edited 6 Feb 12, 1:21 AM by Adverse_Camber
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6 Feb 12, 1:32 AM
JustTony
UK(L), 17 mths |
Dom_Domme_S wrote:
W/we are having a very difficult time to find a real sub to join U/us.
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From what I've heard, S/some P/people T/think that all that W/we malarkey is pretty much pretentious B/bollocks, so I G/guess its P/possible that a few (of the already few) S/suitable s/subs might be P/put off by T/that?
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6 Feb 12, 1:55 AM
Amazonian
UK(M), 2 yrs
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Perplexion wrote:
W/we have given Y/you feedback to help Y/you out.
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LOL Too funny.
You can agree with me, or you can be wrong 
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6 Feb 12, 9:21 AM
Syroxx
UK(NN), 2 yrs
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darkdollie wrote:
Captain_Sensible wrote:
darkdollie wrote:
You pop in the car and drive to that sandwich shop, and order yourself a real sub of the day, can make it how you like then 
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No, The Cottage in Blackpool everytime!
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But they don't do a sub of the day for this lovely couple!
The cottage is the place for sandwiches though, or Hogans, mmmmm
I suddenly feel a need for a breaded meal
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That is the one and ONLY thing I miss about Blackpool. used to live right across the street from it and went there most days for food.. Why can't they move it here  You're amazing, yes it's true. But without me, you're only you.
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6 Feb 12, 10:24 AM
Rhoobarb
UK(FK), 12 yrs
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othyim wrote:
Especially since you've been here for what... 5 days?
Obviously that impressive amount of time must be sufficient for an educated POV on not only "the Lifestyle" (coughs), but also on who is a timewaster or a faker.
I'm deeply impressed by these elaborate skills indeed.
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People can have a life that includes all sorts of things before they make a profile on IC. You're making the assumption that because someone has only just joined IC that they are completely new to everything.
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Edited 6 Feb 12, 10:25 AM by Rhoobarb
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6 Feb 12, 10:42 AM
RansomLove
UK(E), 8 mths
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JustTony wrote:
Dom_Domme_S wrote:
W/we are having a very difficult time to find a real sub to join U/us.
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From what I've heard, S/some P/people T/think that all that W/we malarkey is pretty much pretentious B/bollocks, so I G/guess its P/possible that a few (of the already few) S/suitable s/subs might be P/put off by T/that?
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+1 in fact +1000!
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6 Feb 12, 10:46 AM
othyim
NL, 3 yrs |
Rhoobarb wrote:
othyim wrote:
Especially since you've been here for what... 5 days?
Obviously that impressive amount of time must be sufficient for an educated POV on not only "the Lifestyle" (coughs), but also on who is a timewaster or a faker.
I'm deeply impressed by these elaborate skills indeed.
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People can have a life that includes all sorts of things before they make a profile on IC. You're making the assumption that because someone has only just joined IC that they are completely new to everything.
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Um sorry, no.
I did make the assumption though, that it is slightly weird to expect to know who is a "faker" or a "timewaster" within 5 days here.
"Class is the impartial, consistent display of emotional integrity."
Edited 6 Feb 12, 10:47 AM by othyim
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6 Feb 12, 10:50 AM
pleasureswitch
UK(E), 6 yrs
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Rhoobarb wrote:
othyim wrote:
Especially since you've been here for what... 5 days?
Obviously that impressive amount of time must be sufficient for an educated POV on not only "the Lifestyle" (coughs), but also on who is a timewaster or a faker.
I'm deeply impressed by these elaborate skills indeed.
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People can have a life that includes all sorts of things before they make a profile on IC. You're making the assumption that because someone has only just joined IC that they are completely new to everything.
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Fair point, but the profile hardly transmits a sense of deep BDSM knowledge. To me it reads like a couple of swingers who after being on line for some time have jus found I.C.
Which isn't really a good place to make a judgement on all the timewasters. IMO
"Yeah I like Kinky stuff,dirty dark pervy stuff,weird sex....
An' Yerself ?"
Award Winning Switch.
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