Captive Weekend Fantasy (21)

I do agree with Tanos on the whole risk assessment issue, but we have to be realistic here. For me personally bondage is no use if i kno i can get out of it...so a key in easy grasp would do me no good! Imagin you pop out for a few hours..i would probably unlock myself...do whatever task was left in double time..then lock myself back up and sit looking like an angel watching the TV or something for the rest of the time!

Its a case of finding whats best for you and your sub (when you get one!)

But your definatly NOT alone!

:D

"Dont close your eyes and picture me as perfect. Open your eyes and see whats in front of you. Im not perfect.. Im Me.. a woman and a human being."

If any girls are interested Ms is happy to demonstrate!

love n Swishes Paul & Anna xx

When I've been chained to the bed overnight (I slept downstairs, he slept upstairs), I got into the habit of making sure I had my mobile phone within reach. That way, if I had a real problem I could ring his home phone and wake him up. Also, if there had been a time when I couldn't wake him and I was worried that something might have happened to him, I had the number stored in my mobile phone of a kink-friendly friend of his who lived a few minutes away. That made me feel safe.

SJxx

For me personally, being left alone in bondage has the best effect. The Dom doesn't necessarily have to leave the building, just the room. I think I would start to panic if I was in very restrictive bondage and the Dom went out and left me though, i.e. if I couldn't use my mobile phone.

SJxx

Ok can I just ditto this bit,

Part of the reason i prefer steel and chains is the psychological thrill and the connotations of been captive, if there was a key I would use it and if I could see a way out I would take it (after all its not like I'm enjoying been restrained ).

As far as risk assessment goes I've spent a lot of time completing these at work for everyday tasks like going to the shops or on holiday ect. In this life nothing is without an element of risk. I personally think common sense goes a long way to eliminating unnecessary risks and intuition is a great gift (especially for us girlies ).

The bungee jump in the back of a car park was the riskiest thing I've ever done in the search for a buzz and that didn't involve BDSM at all.

As far as the been left unattended bit goes, well I quite like this, not in the been abandoned way (I like to think I'm been of some amusement, and to know that I'm been monitored and said captive can make an appearance at any time he sees fit is yummy) but to be alone to stew and become bored mmmmm.

Now I said this (even though I'm a bit off topic) because

“I cant be the only freak in the village”

So my question is does anyone else get off on that horrible feeling of boredom, that been on your own and confined over a period of time creates?? Answers on a postcard please……………

popi xx

Be courteous to all, but intimate with a few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence.(unknown)

Edited 2 Mar 05, 2:28 AM by popi

debb1e wrote: I went through a phase of hiding things in there knowing that at some point I would be in there and find them useful, its amazing how people don't look for things when they're not expecting them, like something taped in an upper corner hehe, again I was caught out after one or two times but it's kinda fun to try .......... (whispers and good not to get away with it I suppose Ok remembers exactly who to blame for the naughty wicked ideas running through my head, what a bad influence!!! (Thoughts like these hadn't even crossed my angelic mind –honest) "Shesh wish I was better with words, I am appalling at describing the feeling things give to me! An interesting discussion, only wish I was better with words and could make a more worthy contribution!" For whats its worth i thought you described things perfectly, well it made sense to me and after all it was my question lol. On a seroius note though, thanks for sharing your thoughts with me, it was exactly what i hoped someone would post popi xx

Be courteous to all, but intimate with a few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence.(unknown)

Try a pine box. I built an open sub-sized box, lined it with foam rubber a layer of plastic sheet and folded towels as a base. tie subs ankles and place in boxuse foam rubber wedges to keep head still, etc - drill holes in sides of box so you can push through dowel rods to prevent sitting up. tie hands across chest and (loosely) to box to prevent fiddling. castors mean you can wheel here around the house and door wedges and a saw horse mean you can prop her up to watch the telly. You can either lether out from time to time or use nappies.

My former s, providied she was allowed the dignity of toilet breaks and was kept warm, enjoyed many nights and the odd weekend like this - would actually ask for it if she had something big in life to think about.

I like that pine box though - your sub must have been damn flexible and in good shape to remain in their without cramping.

I've been doing yoga recently, I'm hoping it improves my posture and the ability to hold positions better - not that anything perverted is my primary reason for doing yoga...