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| 4 Feb 12, 7:46 PM AnitaPleezu UK(BN), 3 yrs   |
Just thought I'd add...If 'language' is a hard limit then state that on your profile otherwise you're topping from the bottom. Also if you're are going to react so strongly to words (as in the context of 'sexting' as that's all you have to play with!) then employ safe words and then discuss your problem. Getting D/S sexual with someone by text or in cyberspace still needs the same parametres as a real life session. That's my take on it anyway.....I get irritated when vanilla norms creep into a BDSM conciousness and a text or email can have the power to put me into sub space therefore they should be treated with the same importance...BDSM is all about communication after all.... | ||
| 4 Feb 12, 8:31 PM AmberStClare UK(BN), 5 yrs |
I'm with @Dommy_nick on this one. I'm the one your mother warned you about | ||
| 4 Feb 12, 9:39 PM SteveDuk UK(CM), 11 yrs |
The "C" word, like the "N" word can provoke severe reactions. But I'm going to use them anyway........ Nick Clegg @MediFet Medical Play group | ||
| 4 Feb 12, 11:36 PM Sorceror UK(HU), 9 yrs |
You might want to flag that one up for potential partners. Personally I'd be very wary of using the word "cunt" to describe a submissive during a scene. To my tastes it's a very harsh word and one of the definitions I believe goes along the line of "having a cruel or spiteful disposition". "Slut" however with its context of "sexually wanton" appears an ideal scening word. The starting "s" can be elongated deliciously. Whilst it isn't a word I'd generally use outside a scening context within it I always felt it was a useful mental guideline for play. S.x. | ||
| 4 Feb 12, 11:58 PM shit_sub UK(W), 5 yrs |
i don't mind it. | ||
| 5 Feb 12, 3:20 AM Romola UK, 7 yrs |
It's only a weblog | ||
| 5 Feb 12, 10:59 AM Vareox UK, 2 yrs |
I think that raises a valid point, the context is important. In the situations we are talking about it is not going to be used to imply a cruel or spiteful disposition, it is a harsher, more taboo word than 'slut' and that is the point. When you're curled up in the corner looking like Coco the Cocksucking Clown; mascara running, nose running, lipstick smeared, covered in various body fluids, 'You're a naughty little thing, aren't you' just isn't enough. For a situation like that only 'dirty little cunt' will do.
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