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Posted by tallulahme on Tue 31 Jan 12, 10:14 PM to tallulahme's blog.

Edited Tue 31 Jan 12, 10:43 PM by tallulahme

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31 Jan 12, 10:40 PM
meganne_in_spain
UK(PR), 4 yrs

After 2 years of looking I think I would be tempted to take the safer option ... All the best in making your decision!

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31 Jan 12, 10:41 PM
angellover
UK(CM), 3 yrs

Take the gamble.... and enjoy it on the way.

Well done you :)

The highest fences we have to climb, are those we have built within our mind

31 Jan 12, 10:45 PM
tallulahme
UK, 2 yrs

1 all then!

Aaaargh my head is going to explode

31 Jan 12, 10:53 PM
sathya
UK(S), 18 mths

Go with your gut feeling, that way you'll never fail :-)

...and congratulations!

The violets explode inside me when I meet your eyes Then I'm spinning and I'm diving Like a cloud of starlings - Elbow

31 Jan 12, 11:05 PM
Siglorel*
UK(RG), 11 mths

Which will make you happier?

Apple for me... no contest...

See worlds on worlds compose one universe, observe how system into system runs

31 Jan 12, 11:07 PM
Shypeachybottom
UK, 20 mths
Okay, so let's look at this calmly...

Both have similar salary and holidays, but what about other benefits? any health plan? any pension plan? any other perks? are you able to work from home if you need to (and if so, do both offer you that possibility?)?

What about working conditions - do they have comparable amount of travel (and is travel a plus or a minus for you?)? what about the location of the offices? and the offices themselves? what about your future boss? have you met any of your future colleagues?

(if you haven't already, can you ask to see the offices and speak to some potential future colleagues?)

what about career progression, are they similar or does one of them have better long term prospects beyond the job you would be hired for? what about training, for this job and any future job, does one of them have a better training program?

All of that should make the list of pros and cons more detailed for each and give you more of a feel.

Now, sit down and close your eyes. Imagine yourself with the "Microsoft firm", imagine yourself with your future boss & colleagues working there. How does it feel? Now imagine yourself with the "Apple firm", imagine yourself with your future boss & colleagues working there. How does that feel?

Hopefully after doing all that, you will have a stronger pull towards one of them.

And remember what you said - you would have jumped for either opportunity, so you know they are both great, you just have the luxury (and challenge) of having to choose between them

Good luck :) x

There's a somebody I'm longing to see, I hope that he turns out to be, someone to watch over me
I'm a little lamb who's lost in the wood, I know I could always be good, to one who'll watch over me (Ella Fitzgerald, singing George Gershwin)

31 Jan 12, 11:14 PM
bohnanza
UK(FK), 12 yrs

tallulahme wrote:
One is steady and secure the other could have genius or disaster written all over it.

Will you be able to affect whether it is genius or disaster?

I have the perfect accent for conflict resolution, shame about the personality.
What can be asserted without proof can be dismissed without proof. - Christopher Hitchens

31 Jan 12, 11:17 PM
Navare
UK(B), 9 yrs

My advice is simple get out of your comfort zone and go for the challenge if you're not moving forward your not growing...

"be bold and mighty forces will come to your aid"

N.x

http://uk.groups.yahoo.com/group/Impulsion_group
http://www.impulsion.org.uk

31 Jan 12, 11:27 PM
wonderer
UK, 5 yrs

At a time of high unemployment and turmoil, I;d tend to go for whichever one seems the most secure. Risk taking is more appropriate when there are plenty of jobs to fall back on if the risk doesn't workout.

Best of luck with whichever you choose.

"Wisdom begins in wonder” (Socrates)
"Imagination is more important than knowledge" (Albert Einstein)
Ubi caritas et amor, Deus ibi est. http://www.informedconsent.co.uk/posts/226772/

1 Feb 12, 6:35 AM
angelicvixen_MH
UK(PO), 7 yrs

wonderer wrote:
At a time of high unemployment and turmoil, I;d tend to go for whichever one seems the most secure. Risk taking is more appropriate when there are plenty of jobs to fall back on if the risk doesn't workout.

Best of luck with whichever you choose.

I agree with this.

Good luck in which ever you choose

I am what I am and what I am needs no excuses

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