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| 31 Jan 12, 9:38 PM Master_Blacksmith UK(GU), 13 mths   |
That was certainly my favurite part Try caging a wolf and take care what happens if it gets lose, kind of mentality is how iv come to look at it ^-^
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| 31 Jan 12, 9:43 PM Master_Blacksmith UK(GU), 13 mths |
I understand what you are saying | |
| 31 Jan 12, 9:46 PM Xafar UK(S), 12 yrs £    |
and how does it make you feel when he laughs at those antics...??? Mac
"Me Man Whore... You Jane..." | |
| 31 Jan 12, 9:48 PM Souci_X UK(BA), 5 yrs |
I can get really angry, and sometimes it is all a bit much, I love the release of screaming and yelling sometimes, but I can also veer into the dangerous panic stage so thats not quite as good. It takes a bit of getting used to I guess so that my bloke is aware of which is good and which is bad types of frustration. | |
| 31 Jan 12, 9:49 PM mia  UK(M), 4 yrs       |
It makes me even madder! x Now where were we? Ah, yes - abject humiliation! | |
| 31 Jan 12, 9:59 PM Darksanity 4 mths |
I also had to reply to this because im the same when i was tied up, i got really frustrated and because i wasnt in control or in a place i was to familiar with i started getting really angry, the subs thought it was fun tying me up an leaving me, because i fell asleep but believe me when i got free they both had lol... | |
| 1 Feb 12, 9:07 PM kitty_claw UK(TN), 4 yrs |
It depends on what headspace I'm in I think. There are times when I'm restrained and being hurt that I just go with it but other times something just seems to click in my head and I fight like mad to get free and away. Even to the point of tipping the equipment I'm tied to lol
He's ok with it, it makes Him laugh "And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom." Anais Nin | |
| 2 Feb 12, 10:50 AM Stalignite UK(BH), 2 yrs |
An interesting viewpoint but not one that is very surprising. The body has a natural fight or flight response to everything we do. You can get more technical and measure the release of adrenalin etc in certain situations, but in short at any point your body decides if you should run for the hills or stand up and fight. Hence when you are tied up then anger is a perfect response and one that can be expected. Anyone who says they never feel a response this way is dead, as everyone does. It is then a case of how well you control it or can hide it. In types of BDSM relationship then the level of trust and respect you feel when getting tied up diminishes the feeling, or in others heightens the reaction. Unless you are put in that position you will never know. That said it is very wrong to view this reaction to a general show of reaction of anger and looking at it in the same way will only lead to trouble. Someone who loses their temper is based more on personality, upbringing etc rather than a reaction brough ton by a stressful situation. Too many people confuse the two and in so doing may miss danger signs and risk getting themselves into trouble. | |
| 2 Feb 12, 4:41 PM darkdollie UK(FY), 7 yrs £ |
I often get angry, very angry, and i growl, fight and try to escape the pain - then get more angry when i can't! For me i need to be pushed through this reaction. My anger tends to come after the giggling stage. I even wrote this which explains how i get at times | |
| 2 Feb 12, 9:32 PM Mad_Monk UK(BH), 4 yrs |
It is for occasions such as this that toothbrushes and Tabasco sauce were invented. (*chuckles in a really nasty way*) "He took a single sip of her pain and found it exquisite" |
It is definatly the challange I like about it. I think at the time though I had not identified where or why being restrained made more more angry then I was expecting. I was not angry at the one who tied me up exactlly, just at being restrained :P 