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Is there any such thing as taboos left in BDSM? (72)

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31 Jan 12, 7:21 PM
Captain_Sensible
UK(WV), 20 mths

Please dont take O fence

Each a glimpse and gone forever.

31 Jan 12, 7:29 PM
Sultry_Sub
UK, 5 mths
I'll gloss over it.

Captain_Sensible wrote:
Please dont take O fence
31 Jan 12, 7:38 PM
Captain_Sensible
UK(WV), 20 mths

What a wonderful finish

Each a glimpse and gone forever.

31 Jan 12, 7:46 PM
mia*
UK(M), 4 yrs



Erm, can i just point out that 'kids' isn't a 'taboo kink' but totally immoral pedophilia.

FFS.

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31 Jan 12, 7:54 PM
mia*
UK(M), 4 yrs



Right, got that off my chest. Actual taboo...

I think the idea of 'slaves' involving cnc, tpe, lack of real choice, etc... is taboo for some, or else why else would there be so many discussions on it?

I agree that race and religion play, especially of a Nazi/Jewish, black and white or Muslim/hijab is taboo amongst many, as is evident on the boards and in some events' dresscodes.

For me, i think mine would be scat. This isn't a health and safety thing. It's not an 'it's wrong for others thing', but it is something that i think i would find would be really hard to go through with or get over - even though oddly there is a 'morbid fascination' with it and how powerful something so disgusting (to me) could be if i were forced into participating. I guess that's why it's taboo to me.

x

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31 Jan 12, 10:46 PM
tanken
UK(NR), 2 yrs

Sultry_Sub wrote:
Any act involving a non consenting party. I think this is the only one that would be agreed by all.

Non consent is an interesting topic because my hottest fantasies involve me being overpowered non consensually by a group of women and everything else that happens is non consensual too. Of course fantasies are not reality and we can stick to consent in real life :)

However, I do think non consent is quite a common fantasy and I've read quite a few stories that indicate many people like that :)

Happiness is a warm bum :)

31 Jan 12, 10:58 PM
Sultry_Sub
UK, 5 mths
I give in.

x

tanken wrote:
Sultry_Sub wrote:
Any act involving a non consenting party. I think this is the only one that would be agreed by all.

Non consent is an interesting topic because my hottest fantasies involve me being overpowered non consensually by a group of women and everything else that happens is non consensual too. Of course fantasies are not reality and we can stick to consent in real life :)

However, I do think non consent is quite a common fantasy and I've read quite a few stories that indicate many people like that :)

2 Feb 12, 7:59 AM
silent_lucidity
UK(M), 4 yrs

When I think of taboo topics I think of acts that provoke strong response on boards like this where we would expect open mindedness, therefore of acts / fantasies that one would like to discuss in a serious manner but often get shot down.

Animimals and paedophilia aside Some examples that I've come across on the boards include drugging, strangling, hanging, crucifixion, nailing of body parts, castration and scat. Also topics such as people being asexual haven't always been discussed seriously. And I agree with Mia that TPE and similar doesn't always seem palatable with some of our members who cant or don't want to imagine that some people will hand over all decision making and rights to another.

It's difficult when some of us would like to discuss our darkest fantasies.

Cx

2 Feb 12, 10:00 AM
passions_pearl
UK, 7 yrs
mia wrote:
Erm, can i just point out that 'kids' isn't a 'taboo kink' but totally immoral pedophilia.

FFS.

As abhorent as sex with children may seem, pedophilia is a culturally-based concept that we have been programmed to see as wrong. The age of majority is arbitrary and varies from culture to culture. In some cultures, as soon as a girl begins to menstruate, her womanhood is celebrated and she is married in order to continue the cycle of life. I'm not trying to start an argument or condone sex with children, just pointing out that everything is relative.

Also I wanted to make the point that just because people may think there are some things off-limits that no one ever does, we don't know what people get up to behind closed doors. Do you think that if someone likes to suck horse cock or fuck their sister that they are going to admit it in any of these forums???

Just sayin'.

3 Feb 12, 2:37 PM
Juantastic
UK(CH), 22 mths

jules9 wrote:
I'm quite shocked, but I've found cuckqueaning to be quite taboo. The number of private messages I've had since I started blogging about it is not small by anyone's standards, yet take a look at the @Cuckolds_Cuckqueans group, see how many people feel comfortable talking about it in public.

Lots of people display an interest, but very few partaking in it seem willing to come forward and speak about it. Judging from the type of responses I've had I'm starting to guess why. I'm already sick to the back teeth of people making sarcastic comments about how my relationship will fail because of cuckqueaning. My kink is okay and even if my relationship fails because of it, I'll still identify as a cuckquean, I'll look for a partner to share it with. Because guess what, I'm not doing it because I'm some poor abused woman with no strength to call her own. I'm doing it because it's fun, and I get off on it, in a big way.

So yes, I feel some things are still VERY much taboo in the scene. This is Just one that's close to my heart right now.

XxX

I was in two minds about posting this, but egged on by the missus...

It sounds like you've found yourself in the dirty swingers bin. You won't get much sympathy from down there with all of the potato peelings. At least not in our experience.

For greater acceptance, take it to a fet club and call it a 'scene.' People will be fine about it then.

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