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| EbonyTease |
As a Fem dom I find myself craving the companionship, servitude and admiration of a sub/ slave for my own amusements and pleasure. However sexually they never cut it (or I've never found one who does!) and I desire the sexual dominance of a more aggressive lover! This is not to say I'm submissive in any way but I need that passion! To cuckhold would be fab in this situation but when in a loving loyal d/s relationship I don't have it in me!
So am I alone in this? Or does ayone else find they seek one thing, yet desire the other?
Does there desire get the better of them?? Let me know your thoughts.....
| 30 Jan 12, 12:13 PM MissP UK(EN), 8 yrs |
There are alpha male subs, but they are few and far between. I've found it infinitely easier to have a red blooded lover, quite seperate from subs and play. | ||
| 30 Jan 12, 1:35 PM fetishrubberman UK, 3 yrs  |
if you answer messages you may find what you are looking for | ||
| 30 Jan 12, 1:55 PM tanken UK(NR), 2 yrs |
Last time I looked my blood was red.
I think that there are different kinds of subs or bottoms. Some of us just aren't particularly submissive but still like bottoming
Happiness is a warm bum | ||
| 30 Jan 12, 2:13 PM Ms_Valentine UK, 9 yrs |
Not all subs are asexual wimps. Some are, well, just like *human beings* with all kinds of human traits including huge sexual drives, sexual passion and desire, fabulous lovemaking skills and all the other good things a man can give. I found I just needed the right sub to combine great sex and servitude in a perfect package. Dominant partner in an FLR with @paulss | ||
| 30 Jan 12, 2:37 PM EbonyTease UK(SE), 2 yrs |
Eww, short, and old I think not!! | ||
| 30 Jan 12, 2:40 PM Kitty_Fantastico UK(OX), 2 yrs |
I completely agree - Im yet to find the right one - but I definitely "fancy" and desire male subs. My bear was (and still is) very good in bed with a huge sexual drive. I'm still looking for the perfect package of sex and servitude - but I definitely want both things in the same man. The idea of sexually dominant man does nothing for me.
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| 30 Jan 12, 3:13 PM Scrumptious UK(S), 3 yrs |
Everyone knows male subs have tiny penises and aren't worthy of sexual intercourse. | ||
| 30 Jan 12, 4:28 PM MisstressvsSolicedog UK(NN), 17 mths |
sombody just got owned,, Please excuse crap spelling cause i,m rubbish | ||
| 30 Jan 12, 4:42 PM tanken UK(NR), 2 yrs |
Ha ha. I think not. 5' 9" was the average height for a man in my day
In any case it's all 'horses for courses' and we all have our special preferences. I know I'm very much a 'minority taste' Happiness is a warm bum Edited 30 Jan 12, 4:46 PM by tanken | ||
| 30 Jan 12, 4:59 PM Ama_Sidero UK(GU), 7 yrs       |
I know quite a few Dommes who would prefer a bit of passion from their men. In fact, thinking of everyone who has ever commented in girl talk, only one actually wanted a totally passive guy in the bedroom. TBH, I think it is in the dynamic, too, and what the expectations are. It's my impression, though, that a lot of male subs think that being passionate in the bedroom is being dominant. I don't really understand that attitude - it might be a guy thing to get the two confused? But I think of it as enthusiasm, not dominance.
@Play_Space - Next party is Friday, February 3, 2012 and the first Friday of every month! |
