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| Sat 28 Jan 12, 10:24 PM gagmequick UK(OX), 2 yrs   |
Well, I am really fucking cross at the moment! Can you feel my fury? The first BDSM Site I signed-up to was three years ago, and was BDSMSingles. To be honest, it isn't a great site compared to IC. Its a Worldwide one, so I get "Matches", that are either Submissive Women and/or in bloody America! (How exactly are they "Matches" for me?) Plus, you have to (get this) PAY! So, I stopped my Membership ages ago, and since I've found IC, have hardly bothered with it. After all, why would anyone go there, after they've come on here? My Profile still exists though and I still get Matches, and today I was notified about a very interesting sounding Lady, who is both local to me, and Dominant! Hurray! This is where my anger rise though, because IT WON'T BLOODY LET ME UPGRADE! This has been going on for months actually. Something is wrong with their system, that stops the Upgrading process! How exactly do you expect me to Contact this Lady, if you won't bloody let me Upgrade, pray tell BDSMSingles? You idiots! I might try and put on my Profile that I am on here actually. See if she bites! I know none of you can do anything about this, but I wanted to express my FRUSTRATION! Now, excuse me while I go and smash something! AAAAAARRRRGGGGGHHHH! |
| 28 Jan 12, 10:52 PM Mr_Smith_UK  UK(BL), 3 yrs £ |
you do realise its likely an automated response designed to get you to re join and upgrade in order to see the spoof message. www.Bdsmandfetishmentor.co.uk Pro dom/me & Training / Mentoring services available. Either come to us or can travel to you with discretion assured. |
| 28 Jan 12, 10:56 PM gagmequick UK(OX), 2 yrs |
She hasn't sent me a Message though. Its a fair point though. |
| 28 Jan 12, 11:02 PM will_ingtoplease UK(LN), 3 yrs |
I have been on similar sites and LOCAL is often just not that And when you join and realise it is a waste of money the hassle you have of cancelling your membership is a pain in the A??E, and your having trouble up grading peherps a lucky escape |
| 28 Jan 12, 11:07 PM gagmequick UK(OX), 2 yrs |
Well, Downgrading was relatively easy, and it was a poor site. I did meet a few Ladies on there though. Two who I'm still in contact with. So, it is pretty trustworthy. Still, what can I do about this one, though? |
| 28 Jan 12, 11:14 PM Mr_Smith_UK UK(BL), 3 yrs £ |
you could send them a copy of your ID, and your bank card details for them to set up a direct debt in your name.
Or try a local munch www.Bdsmandfetishmentor.co.uk Pro dom/me & Training / Mentoring services available. Either come to us or can travel to you with discretion assured. |
| 28 Jan 12, 11:16 PM gagmequick UK(OX), 2 yrs |
A Munch, ay....? Why didn't I think of that? |
| 28 Jan 12, 11:45 PM man_in_tyres UK(RM), 22 mths |
In my experience most of them sites are all the same and when your membership expires all of a sudden you get "messages from someone who is interested in you " ect ect
Waste of time and money from my experience and would never go there again . I have since found real life since them days of being shy and now meeting new and genuine people and hopefully will meet someone who will be be my partner for a proper relationship and finding the emails I still get laughable .
That is only my experience though and I have learned a lot since then so a lot of it could have been the way my profie was wrote ,however I'm still not going back and having another go as I have found sites like I.C and Fet Life where I can chat with genuine people and meet them for coffee and make new friends At the end of the day ................ It's night |
| 29 Jan 12, 12:05 AM Bazinga_Punk UK(CM), 4 yrs |
You know they are all owned by alt.com? Give them your money if you have too much or are allergic to it. Otherwise, keep it in your bank. |
