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| jules9 |
I can't really believe that there aren't more people here talking about it. Talking about the highs and the lows, sharing hints and stories and lessons that have been learned along the way.
I started this group thinking it would be a great place for people in the uk to come to for advice and simply to share with others.
We're at a point at the moment where we've discovered how great this is, we know without doubt that it's the right thing for us. Equally we're at a point where there is a potential stumbling block. It would be great to have others to talk to about this.
What I'm struggling to believe is that there is no one out there with more experience, no one wiser for trials and errors, no one who can simply say "yes I understand that feeling". I realise there aren't actually that many cuckqueans out there, but cuckoldry seems more popular - is it really that different??!?!?
So if you're here, you're browsing with interest but not posting, then please, pop in, say hello. Help make sure this isn't the fetish that always gets sniggered at and condescending comments made simply because there's no one proud to stand up and be counted.
This group will only get so much more of my time before I loose interest and close it down. I suppose I'm begging you all to use it or loose it, because there's only so much disappointment a girl can take...
XxX
| 8 Feb 12, 10:29 PM secretsmile_101 UK(M), 18 mths      |
I don't think it's such a taboo subject, but maybe a less common one. I don't know if it will be of use to others, but I only have a rough idea of what a cockhold is and I've never heard of the word cuckquean before. I'm curious about the things posted here but it's difficult for me to join in the discussions when I don't know the definitions. Perhaps you could explain a bit more about what they are in the group profile page or something? Regards. Hannah | ||
| 9 Feb 12, 12:05 AM Dragonfyre UK(M), 5 yrs  |
Ok, here's my definition of the terms - and as I'm posting here as an interested outsider, my definitions may not be 100% accurate, but then again so few definitions in BDSM are ever simple. In my mind, a cuckold is a man who gets turned on by watching (sometimes being forced to watch) his partner having sex, or sexual contact, with another man. Sometimes he is a passive observer, sometimes he is made to join in at the end to help "clean up". Taking a shot in the dark, I'd say that a cuckquean is the same but with the gender roles reversed. My interest in this group came about relatively recently, when @totallycoverme mentioned a fantasy where she would derive pleasure from seeing me fuck another girl. As is often the case, the fantasy may be a lot hotter than the reality, so we're not actively seeking a third party just yet! One way in which the idea could be tested out in a safe environment is for her to be made to kneel at my feet (or stand in the corner) while I masturbate to porn videos. She'd be able to hear the videos, and even hear me if I'm loud enough, and all the while knowing I'm getting my pleasure elsewhere and not from her.
The idea also turns me on, but I'm wary of engaging in any activity that may have a negative impact on her, so for now it's in the "discuss and learn more" category | ||
| 9 Feb 12, 7:46 AM SteveDuk UK(CM), 11 yrs |
I was surprised that this group didn't take off a bit quicker, I've only been involved in the cuckold scene from the other side but I will post a couple of experiences to try and kick start some discussion. @MediFet Medical Play group | ||
| 9 Feb 12, 6:55 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs    |
Hi Hannah
Thanks for your post. I think you're right, but part of the problem is there aren't any clear definitions that I've found in cuckqueaning, other than for the cuckquean herself (something strange about that from a sub point of view Hopefully over the weekend I'll get round to pulling together a bit of research and setting up a thread Just on that. Thanks again for your help! XxX | ||
| 9 Feb 12, 7:13 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs |
A cuckold is "cucked" by a "cuckoldress" and her "bull". A cuckqueans counterparts don't seem to have any real agreed upon names such that I've found so far - if anyone can enlighten me - please do!!!
I hope wherever you get to with this, you have lots of fun exploring it! XxX
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| 9 Feb 12, 7:14 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs |
Thank you! I'll look forward to reading your posts. XxX | ||
| 20 Feb 12, 12:40 PM desolate UK(M), 2 yrs |
Hi and thank you for starting the group. I find it difficult to post as it is quite a difficult thing to talk about. I have found this place offers some valuable real world advice and will happily share my small insight into cuckold relationships - but it is difficult to discuss situations without sounding like a reader's letter to Razzle in 1987. In summary - powerful, horny and sick making! horny winning overall, but it's close sometimes,
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| 20 Feb 12, 11:21 PM necplgen2 UK(NE), 4 yrs |
I tried advertising on a cuckold forum for others in Northumberland to join to maybe meet up and discuss experiences discreetly and didnt even get one reply ive been Cuck for over 8yrs and cant stop thinking about different scenarios and reliving past ones | ||
| 24 Feb 12, 6:26 PM Cuckolds_Cuckqueans UK, 5 mths |
LMAO - I understand that!!!
Something else I can entirely understand... XxX
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| 24 Feb 12, 6:31 PM jules9 UK(CH), 3 yrs |
Whoops - wrong profile for the last post - apologies.
I've had so many amazing people contacting me and helping me, and so many looking for help and direction - so I know they are out there!!! The group seems to be picking up a little at the moment, which is great - as soon as there is enough interest I'll be organising a mini munch. Maybe you could do the same up your way? XxX |
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