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| Sat 28 Jan 12, 10:53 AM pot8os UK(SO), 21 mths   |
Any examples of humiliation which were either spiced or spoilt by sheer embarrassment? Mine occurred in my last relationship, with a woman very much into riding. My duties were mainly cleaning house and her boots, but I ended up cleaning a couple of her friends' boots as well, and I used to drive them to riding lessons. On one occasion they persuaded me to get tied to the gate of the equestrian centre, where it led out to the countryside - this was on the edge of Exmoor. I was dressed (as often) in my smartest outfit - including "Boot Boy" T-shirt and cap, and cherry-red frilled rubber hotpants and gloves, and then secured by my wrists using electrical ties to the forest gate of a busy equestrian centre. Two ties were put round my wrists and through a second pair of ties round the top bar of the gate, so that when I held onto the gate they couldn't be seen. I sort of thought it was a bit of fun, but as it turned out I was there for longer than I thought. They went off for their ride, and soon emerged along the path to the gate. There were a lot of laughs, cat-calls etc. and after about 45 mins. they came back through. I expected imminent release, but instead they came back and spent the rest of the day picniccing nearby, watching the fun, and taking photos. It looked as if I was there of my own free-will, dutifully opening and closing the gate for all the riders that went through - and as I was there for most of the day there were a lot, and they all had their little giggles and jibes. I've never felt so helpless and frustrated! | |
| 28 Jan 12, 11:12 AM SubJohn UK(TW), 12 yrs |
brilliant.... i feel your humiliation and helplessness
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| 28 Jan 12, 8:15 PM bloomswell UK, 12 mths |
I love that. Wonderful. | |
| 28 Jan 12, 10:07 PM will_ingtoplease UK(LN), 3 yrs |
Great story thanks for sharing .Humiliating harmless experience, really liked the restraints in cog neto or something , hidden out of view ,and you got to see all those wonderful horses , The wonderful superior minds of dominant people never ceases to amaze me . and I hope they never do .
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| 29 Jan 12, 12:10 AM syndeetoo UK(WC), 6 yrs |
cherry red frilled hot pants can never be less than embarrassing, jodhpurs would have relieved you considerably. I feel your pain. Pour encourager les autres | |
| 29 Jan 12, 1:38 AM AnEnglishMaster UK(ME), 5 yrs |
Hang on. Cherry rubber frilly hot pants may be fine, in a private setting. However, in my experience, most equestrian centres have a substantial number of young children and early teens arriving for riding lessons. If that was NOT the case in your circumstances, fair enough. If, however, your plight was inflicted upon the vision of all who arrived, unwittingly, at the centre, then the behaviour is reprehensible. Forcing what we like into the purlieu of unsuspecting members of the public is thoughtless, and certainly not allowing them to be "consensual". I used to take my daughter to riding lessons when she was younger. If I had turned up and seen you in red rubber frilly hot pants at the gate, I would have been furious at this intrusion on my and her awareness. How would you have expected me to explain it to her - and, more to the point, WHY should I have been forced to make that explanation? Let me repeat, if what you did was open only to those who were adult and aware, that is fine. If it wasn't, it is no laughing matter English "It may be that your sole purpose in life is to serve as a warning to others" - Anon Edited 29 Jan 12, 1:42 AM by AnEnglishMaster | |
| 29 Jan 12, 1:50 AM restrained247 UK, 3 yrs |
Yes, Like you I found this story very hard to beleive | |
| 29 Jan 12, 2:40 AM pot8os UK(SO), 21 mths |
To the last two posts, I have to say that the riders I acted as gateboy to were all women, and a few men. None of them seemed in the slightest disapproving of my presence or appearance. The interesting thing was that though there was a certain amount of merriment among the women, they were all very friendly, while the men tended to either ignore me or give a quick "thank you". What I object to is the unspoken suggestion that it is unacceptable for a man to wear some item of rubber in public - by which I mean normal everyday society. It is clearly OK for women to do so. If the rubber clothing is designed to be deliberately obscene or sexually suggestive, that would be a different matter. But then so it would be for any piece of clothing so designed, whatever material it is made of. I have often worn rubber shorts/hotpants/T shirt on the streets without exciting any unpleasant attention let alone outrage. My friends certainly now accept it without a second thought. When I was young I wouldn't have had the confidence to express my feelings in this way. Now I feel able to be what I am. For me sometimes wearing rubber in everyday life is not a sexual statement but psychological freedom. Rubber clothing does not equate to sexual intrusion upon others. I would have thought it would be unnecessary to say that on this site. | |
| 29 Jan 12, 9:27 AM smilesoffun UK(CV), 22 mths |
Fantastic story love it | |
| 29 Jan 12, 10:36 AM Commander_Kwaaab UK(SW), 7 yrs |
purlieu? Two roads diverged in a wood, and I—
I took the one less traveled by,
And that has made all the difference.
Bloody Satnav | |
| 29 Jan 12, 1:31 PM FlashHarry UK(S), 3 yrs |
Didn't happen. |
