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Advice for your younger self... (88)

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27 Jan 12, 4:57 PM
Ishmael
UK(SE), 12 yrs
Get a decent haircut, and ask the girl to go to the pictures with you.

Oh, and your mother is talking bollocks.

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27 Jan 12, 5:40 PM
the_good_girl
4 mths
mizeiki wrote:
Rhoobarb wrote:

Way back in my mid to late teens, I wouldn't have listened. Wouldn't be any point in trying to give myself information or advice.

Same as that x

I agree with this too...i was far too stubborn, opinionated and willful back then to listen to advice....hang on a minute...not much has changed even now ;)

"We must all suffer from one of two pains: the pain of discipline or the pain of regret. The difference is discipline weighs ounces while regret weighs tons" ~ Jim Rohn

Edited 27 Jan 12, 5:42 PM by the_good_girl

27 Jan 12, 7:39 PM
cheekyscouser
UK(L), 6 mths

As already mentioned, there is no way i would have listened to most people, or my self when a teenager, but just a few things that come to mind anyway are

to dont be shy

get involved

Be nice to the ugly girls as they really do turn out to be the the pretty ones when your older

Stop worrying about being the ugly ducking yourslef

Think more before you speak

Dont underestimte how often other people pretend they know what they are talking about, when they dont.

The world has alot more to offer then you think, so dont wait too long before having a proper look to see whats out there for you.

Always take time to take a step back,and consider other peoples point of view

and last but not least, your not that strange for wanting to be tied up after all :)

27 Jan 12, 10:50 PM
Ishmael
UK(SE), 12 yrs
Rhoobarb wrote:
Way back in my mid to late teens, I wouldn't have listened. Wouldn't be any point in trying to give myself information or advice.

I'd make me listen - I'd seen enough Dr Who by the age of 12 to understand 'I'm you from thirty five years in the future, here to stop you doing what I did'.

And the 12 year old me would listen, and go on and make a whole different bunch of mistakes.

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27 Jan 12, 10:55 PM
MisstressvsSolicedog
UK(NN), 17 mths
tallulahme wrote:
Mistressvseasterdog wrote:
Mr_Punch wrote:
tallulahme wrote:
Never marry another submissive. Even if they are the best looking bloke in Young Farmers. Beauty is only skin deep.

If you can manipulate your first boyfriend into tying you up and fucking you like "a two bob whore" (T, quote for your benefit ;-)) then it is the future, don't fight your natural instincts.

T x

"a two bob whore" that certainly is cheap or are we talking a very long time ago?

Nah she just collect's old money,

And old men ;-)

Ah it happen's to us all :) er :( urm ,,, oh i dunno

Please excuse crap spelling cause i,m rubbish

27 Jan 12, 10:56 PM
MisstressvsSolicedog
UK(NN), 17 mths
if i were to meet me younger self my advice would be,,

' Stop squealing it's only half way in '

Please excuse crap spelling cause i,m rubbish

28 Jan 12, 12:12 AM
TheForce
UK(DE), 7 mths
One that would have helped (and still would!!); don't just think it, f.....g say it!!!
28 Jan 12, 12:18 AM
Caracal
UK(SS), 5 yrs



That book* that you read at 18 and related to so very much is much more of a minority interest than you realised.

It would have stopped a lot of misunderstanding and mismatching....and a whole lot of shagging the wrong men!

*The Story of O

The nice lady with the whip. Everyone has the right to be equal unless and until they choose to relinquish it. We call it play but it isn't a game - it's people's lives.

28 Jan 12, 1:34 AM
Big_Friendly_Giant
UK(RM), 9 yrs
What the felt happened in the cinima did happen.

It was not your fault.

It is painfull but if you talk to someone about it now it will make the next 15 years so much more better.

29 Jan 12, 8:36 PM
TheForce
UK(DE), 7 mths
These get quite easy with a bit of thought - but then hindsight is always 20/20:

"She might be thinking just the same as you're thinking!"

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