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| 25 Jan 12, 12:42 AM Mistress_sultrybelle UK(G), 2 yrs £  |
I would say get out and about as much as possible to munches and clubs. Just focus on making new friends and I am sure you will find a Dom very soon.  http://www.mistresssultrybelle.com/ http://www.glasgowdominatrix.co.uk/ https://twitter.com/#!/MissSultryBelle | |||
| 25 Jan 12, 2:36 PM jakes86 15 mths |
The collar is my own, I bought it for myself. I never take it off and no-one I know has figured out what it is yet!
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| 25 Jan 12, 3:39 PM viragoangel UK(FY), 5 yrs |
Met my Dom in the chatroom here one night at silly o'clock. He said He liked my profile..i said His was shite. We talked..met a couple of weeks later and clicked. 4 and a half years later and 300 plus miles apart we're still hanging in there. Ideally though you're more likely to meet someone in real life. Get out, visit a few places, make friends anmd let life take it's course. Good luck. jules.x | |||
| 26 Jan 12, 9:54 AM gipsydelight UK(PO), 7 yrs  |
In BDSM circles, the received wisdom with regard to someone to be wearing a collar 24/7 is that they are owned property. That could very well be the reason why you aren't meeting anyone. No Dominant is going to take the risk of approaching you if there's the chance that you have a very possesive owner lurking in the back ground. It's a stronger symbol even than a wedding ring. Take it off, put it away in a box, and show that you are really free and single. Also, you may like to have a think about body language you are giving in the pose in your photograph. Edited 26 Jan 12, 10:01 AM by gipsydelight | |||
| 26 Jan 12, 10:05 AM morgan_stern UK, 2 yrs |
Have to agree with those who've suggested more on the profile page. The more clues you give a chap, the more he's got a chance of ticking your boxes. I suppose female subs will always have to wade through the charge of the 'Kneel bitch' brigade though! Otherwise I think the suggestions - as far as finding a dom in IC go - that involve chilling out, posting and chatting on here are the best. I met my slave on here by memoing her as she was reasonably local, the rest came later. I've also made good friends from subs who contacted me because they liked my profile and now I'm lucky enough to have a growing circle of BDSM friends. It took a while though and relaxing and chatting was a large part of it. Good luck! | |||
| 26 Jan 12, 11:36 AM subrugbylad UK(M), 6 yrs |
Hi jakes,
I can sense your frustration coming through, and think the best advice has already been said. If you not really into kinky scene and fetish parties , to get yoruself out there, then go to a local munch and just make friends, then slowly spread your big circle of kinky friends, and just hope your lobster is within Sites like IC can really help narrow down to likeminded people, but even likeminded people are not always after the same thing!!
Good luck and let us know how you get on Darren xox "insert witty comment here, i cant think of one" | |||
| 26 Jan 12, 12:23 PM cheekyscouser UK(L), 6 mths |
Where did you get that collar from? it looks lovely, even if it does slightly resemble a giant cock ring
And regard to your OP, stop worrying so much and im sure someone lovely will come along when you least expect it | |||
| 26 Jan 12, 3:17 PM jakes86 15 mths |
Mine is from Ring Of Steel.
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| 26 Jan 12, 3:22 PM jakes86 15 mths |
Munches always seem to happen at the weekends where I am at work sadly! I'll have to book a day off at some point.
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| 26 Jan 12, 3:38 PM Captain_Sensible UK(WV), 20 mths |
Good idea to reply to messages too-remember it's a small community! Each a glimpse and gone forever. |
