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| Mon 23 Jan 12, 7:46 AM SlutBoy2000 UK(AL), 7 mths   |
I am fascinated by the idea of sadism and cruelty in a woman. I am fascinated in the idea of surrender to such a woman. However, I have noticed, when fantasizing about such things, that the degree of cruelty and sadism a woman might be capable of, is a too edged sword. Sometimes, one drifts off into a fantasy of lust, where the more cruel and dangerous a woman appears to be, the more fascinating she becomes. Sometimes, however, I watch some video of some poor slave being abused and I think, this is surely too much. I surely would not want this. The image of those women who are capable of inflicting that level of suffering is both seductive and terrifying (terrifying, as in inspiring thoughts, which can be summed up in the words, "stay well away from this, you'd never survive it!") in roughly equal measure. What is more, something (some fate one might fall prey to) which is terrifying and to be utterly avoided at one moment, can in moments of fascinated reverie, seem a thing most devoutly to be wished! What are other people's views? Are their others out there for whom women, who are terrifying, who one knows one should stay well away from (for the sake of one's sanity and personal safety) are, at other moments, completely and utterly seductive? Why are we human beings so strange, so complicated? Is it just me? Edited Mon 23 Jan 12, 7:49 AM by SlutBoy2000 | |
| 23 Jan 12, 8:39 AM slavedave22 UK(B), 6 yrs |
well my friend i can empathise with you somewhat, i have been heading for slavery for a few years now and have many times said to my self "no way am i going near her" and now has come the time when its becomming a reality with a very skilled,cruel and sadistic Domme strangly my fear of the pain i will undoubtedly endure has gone and its all about pleasing her, being obedient in all that she wants its definatly a mindset thing accepting who you are, having said that i feel a close "connection" to her and i,m sure i would,nt be hers if she did,nt "feel" somthing to (not sexually) but tell you this she is the ONLY one i could offer myself at this level !! no animals or trees were harmed in sending this however several million electrons were aggitated | |
| 23 Jan 12, 9:25 AM Ironsmith UK(CW), 8 yrs |
Sounds like my ex-wife. In fact, it probably is. She would have made a good Domme except I suspect her egotism, greed and total lack of empathy and compassion might have got in the way a bit. But she was capable of being very seductive when there was something she wanted. Eldon Tyrell: "The light that burns twice as bright burns for half as long - and you have burned so very, very brightly, Roy." | |
| 23 Jan 12, 9:54 AM Goddess_Asphyxia UK, 3 yrs |
Hello.....I simply adore inflictng unlimited pain and suffering to a suitable man-thing.......whether by torture, waiting, humiliatory duties etc.....however for me the hinderence is my lack of avalible time, which is why i tend to save my Domme fun for designiated club events 
'Taste the whip, in love, not given lightly......taste the whip, now plead for Me !' | |
| 26 Jan 12, 7:37 AM SlutBoy2000 UK(AL), 7 mths |
She sounds like an interesting lady.
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| 26 Jan 12, 9:00 AM saphireyes UK(WV), 10 mths |
Yes there are others out there and I suspect that the wish to be subjugated totally by the Domme from Hell lurks at the back of some (many) subs mind as a fantasy but with just a little hope that one day it might happen even though they know its crazy to want it. No idea why we are so strange-tried to analyse myself. Why do I enjoy what I do? I failed and just going with the flow and enjoying it. Edited 26 Jan 12, 9:32 AM by saphireyes | |
| 26 Jan 12, 9:23 AM AngelFingers1 UK(CH), 2 yrs |
I could tell you........................but then I'd have to kill you.....slowly.... Oh Yes....and the sun will set for YOU. | |
| 26 Jan 12, 9:27 AM Mistress_E_Vamp UK(OX), 7 mths £ |
For me it is finding a balance.
I am both sadistic and nurturing, its not how I planned to be but just how I have turned out. My favourite phrase to say to my subs is "just because I can hurt you, doesn't mean I will" Domme, Mistress, Concubine, Confidant, Mother, Daughter, Free Spirit, Worship Me http://mistressvamp.wordpress.com/ | |
| 26 Jan 12, 10:10 AM tanken UK(NR), 2 yrs |
I think that many complications in our personal lives have evolved from the complex society that our history has passed down to us You are certainly not alone in loving cruel women, they have a fascinating side to them that the 'good' girls never seem to have.
My own preference is for cruel women who are also happy and friendly in their daily lives and for whom sadism is a fun sexual practice
Happiness is a warm bum | |
| 26 Jan 12, 10:36 AM BigPain UK(N), 7 yrs |
Men can be more dangerous since they often have a greater tendency to violence and irreponsibility but a woman who is genuinely sadistic has the potential to hurt you more and longer (according to my experience). Having inspired such a woman (of whom there are not as many as enthusiastic submissives would like to imagine) with the idea that I am a total masochist who wants to suffer beyond my limits, I reaped a whirlwind which was implacable, persistently vicious and extremely shocking. (Though of course I would do it again tomorrow.) The persistence and patient application of suffering over some hours was striking and rather different from a male attitude and the cruelty was undiluted. I wonder too whether there is a basic hostility to men that somtimes comes into play - looking at some men, I could well understand it. | |
| 26 Jan 12, 11:01 AM MissP UK(EN), 8 yrs |
I'm sane, so you don't have to be. There's a world of difference between what you see in Fet porn, and what might go on in a normal session - apart from if you're ChrisP of course! A lot of what you see is rigged up. A lot of what you see will never be done by your average BDSM couple. But enjoy the fantasies! A good domme wil talk to you, read you and not push you into the extremes bfore you're ready, and accept that some people never are. |
