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| Mon 23 Jan 12, 12:10 AM KinkyKumbrian UK(CA), 3 yrs   |
Not that I am a spring chicken, but four of the five ladies I have sessioned with have all been older than me- in one case 14 years older. I am not overly bothered about the age of a domme, but how do others feel, as I know some people like a domme who is older and some a lot younger. Myself as long as the domme offers me what I need and she likes me, I don't care. | |
| 23 Jan 12, 12:17 AM Dolly_Molly UK, 4 mths |
Older is sexy. And guys my age can be rather immature... Molly x | |
| 23 Jan 12, 12:18 AM Social_Sub UK(SW), 18 mths |
Agreed - I like older Dommes. | |
| 23 Jan 12, 12:22 AM KinkyKumbrian UK(CA), 3 yrs |
I agree, a 19 year old domme is far less likely to have the knowledge that a 39 year old would have, which explains why the bulk of pro dommes are over 30 as it takes a long time to learn the craft, and also the bulk of people on here seem to be in the 30 plus age range. | |
| 23 Jan 12, 12:36 AM RanDesu UK(WA), 16 mths  |
Other than life experience, age is just a number. It's sometimes more to do with how we bridge the gap between our knowledge and that of our partner - irrespective of any age difference. At the end of the day, we can not be judged for who we are or the good fortune we may have to be found attractive by someone. Never let how you think others might react prevent you from being who you are or what you want to be. | |
| 23 Jan 12, 12:42 AM unedeuxtrois UK(RM), 12 mths |
I have to disagree. My pre-planned downward spiral to cougarism can only accommodate males in the 18-21 age range. | |
| 23 Jan 12, 12:43 AM Syroxx UK(NN), 2 yrs |
I have found that age only tends to be an issue for OTHERS. for the two people involved it seems to rarely be an issue at all as the relationship is based on the personal connection. You're amazing, yes it's true. But without me, you're only you. | |
| 23 Jan 12, 12:50 AM SuchGreatHeights 5 yrs |
What he said, if you're / they're happy? | |
| 23 Jan 12, 1:00 AM lizzi_lou UK, 2 yrs |
I am a lot older than my sub an only a few years as his top i am learning all the time,the one thing is i have more energy than he has. age 62/45 | |
| 23 Jan 12, 2:29 AM bohnanza UK(FK), 12 yrs  |
But have the bulk of pro dommes been at it for long? You can be 25 and been a pro domme for 7 years, similarly you can be 39 and a pro domme for a week. Experience does not equal ability. Boris Becker had been a professional tennis player for I year when he won Wimbledon at the age of 17. Tim Henman retired at the age 33 never having reached a Wimbledon final after being pro for 13 years. I have the perfect accent for conflict resolution, shame about the personality. | |
| 23 Jan 12, 5:33 AM carry_on_screaming UK, 20 mths |
For the most part prefer either around same age or older CarryOnScreaming |
