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| Sun 22 Jan 12, 8:49 AM Kalthus UK(BN), 12 mths  |
As someone who is trying to expand his knowledge of the dom role, I was really amused by the thread 'stupid things you say during punishment'. It's hilarious, but it made me wonder - How is a dom supposed to react when a sub says something like that? Inflict further punishment? Burst out laughing? I'm assuming that you have to see it as a challenge of sorts, but being genuinely offended and getting really angry isn't the way. Just curious. | |
| 22 Jan 12, 9:14 AM flamesdesire UK(OX), 4 yrs  |
From a subs perspective and from one who can be as cheeky as hell when I can....I have never come across any Dom yet that took it the wrong way....rather they do have a habit of turning it to their advantage! Responses have varied from bantering between myself and the Dom to having a play punishment metted out. As cheekiness is part of my nature...it would be foolish of any Dom go 1/ want to change that part of me and 2/ want to seriously punish me for it.
Let's face it, as much as there is a serious side to this lifestyle....we are still here to have fun too....apart from that there is always a gag Jxx "Take me from this earth an endless night- this, the end of life. From the dark I feel your lips and taste your bloody kiss." | |
| 22 Jan 12, 9:32 AM valleyrose17 UK(BS), 2 yrs |
It depends on your approach and the relationship you have. me? i wouldn't be cheeky during punishment - it's as simple as that. He doesn't punish me lightly and therefore when He does punish me i don't take it lightly. "Fear is that little darkroom where negatives are developed" Michael Pritchard | |
| 22 Jan 12, 9:40 AM mia  UK(M), 4 yrs       |
There's no should about it. If you don't know how you want to be yet; experiment. If you know how you want to be, then you don't have to change. There are loads of people out there who say you HAVE to take things seriously and they're wrong. There are loads of people who say you HAVE to make it all fun or funny and they're wrong too. The only thing you HAVE to do is be a decent person and practice BDSM in a responsible way that satisfies you and doesn't damage anyone else. x Now where were we? Ah, yes - abject humiliation! | |
| 22 Jan 12, 9:46 AM twilightsilence UK(ME), 16 mths |
I couldn't be with someone who didn't erm, 'appreciate' my cheeky side. In the past I have been punished further for cheek, but that's all part of the fun. However, I also agree partly with valleyrose. When a punishment has been for a genuine infringement of rules, that's not a time for backchat or inappropriate behaviour.
I hope that makes sense (it does in my head but it's early...) Take me on a journey and keep me safe on our travels.... | |
| 22 Jan 12, 9:58 AM dougie159 UK(KA), 7 yrs  |
Yup. As above ^^^^^^^^^ . Who wants a doormat or a 'real' person with no sense of humour. i even make a point of my humour/cheek in my profile.......no point in someone finding out later & being surprised. 178 Don't knock down fences until you know why they were put up. Edited 22 Jan 12, 10:00 AM by dougie159 | |
| 22 Jan 12, 10:04 AM Mz_Nix UK, 5 mths |
Personally, I am likely to burst out laughing. I would say how I react would depend on the type of scene and who I am playing with at the time. | |
| 22 Jan 12, 10:08 AM femsup UK(NW), 5 yrs |
It lovely to see someone laughing in joy unbounded.To think I had a part in making her so joyful is very rewarding. | |
| 22 Jan 12, 10:14 AM ToakReon UK(RH), 12 yrs |
Response? Put her FIRMLY in her place - while, at the same time, laughing with her. Enjoy the humour, enjoy the cheekiness ... and enjoy unleashing your righteous retribution ...  *UPDATE* Model(s) for "how to" bondage photographs (and other bondage photographs) have now been found. Thank you to all who showed interest. | |
| 22 Jan 12, 10:18 AM XskyeX UK(WA), 12 mths  |
Im cheeky all the time its part of my personality which is part of why Daddy loves me.... the whole D/s relationship for my Daddy and i has many aspects to it and humour is one of them, dosnt mean he wont remember things and use it to his advantage a later date  hope my experience is useful to your questions To the world, You are one person. But to one person, you might be the world. Edited 22 Jan 12, 10:19 AM by XskyeX | |
| 22 Jan 12, 10:32 AM femsup UK(NW), 5 yrs |
It can be the sub who wants you to be all serious when interacting with them.They might want the theatre of the all stern dominant. |
